Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail   In this episode, I’m diving into the top reasons people feel stuck in their sex lives and giving you four powerful strategies to turn things around—starting tonight. Whether you’re single or partnered, you’ll learn how to get clear on what intimacy means to you, discover what truly turns you on, map out your ideal sex life, and identify the blocks holding you back. These tools a...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots, I dive into the often misunderstood yet powerful emotion of jealousy in relationships with guest Dr. Joli Hamilton, a psychologist and expert in relationships and jealousy. Together, we explore how jealousy can be transformed from a relationship challenge into a source of arousal, intimacy, and connection. Dr. Hamilton shares insigh...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode of Masturbation Monday , I tackle one of the most important questions in the bedroom: How can you tell if she’s truly enjoying sex with you? With nearly 70% to 80% of women admitting to faking orgasms at some point, it’s clear that authentic pleasure isn’t always easy to identify. Annette breaks down five expert-backed signs that a woman is genuinely enjoying hers...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots , I’m joined by the captivating Miss Mackenzee, a professional Dominatrix and expert in the art of Femdom. Together, we dive deep into the world of Female Domination, exploring its nuances, power dynamics, and the ways it can empower women to step into their most commanding selves—both in and out of the bedroom. Whether you’re curio...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode of Masturbation Monday , we’re tackling a topic that’s essential for anyone exploring clitoral pleasure: how to touch an over-sensitive clitoris. Direct stimulation can sometimes feel overwhelming, but there are plenty of indirect techniques that can create incredible pleasure without discomfort. From layering and orbiting to creative ways of engaging the surround...

Send us Fan Mail  Welcome to a very special New Year’s episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots ! Kerry and I are kicking off 2025 with some juicy revelations and resolutions designed to keep you—and us—cumming all year long. From unapologetic self-love practices to sizzling ways to spice up your intimacy, we’re sharing our most exciting goals for the year ahead and how we’re planning to turn up th...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to this special New Year’s Eve episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots ! Tonight, we’re popping bottles and busting some serious myths—masturbation myths, to be exact. That’s right, we’re getting tipsy while tackling all those ridiculous, outdated, and downright bizarre beliefs about self-pleasure that society just can’t seem to let go of. So, grab your favorite drink, set...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots , I’m joined by the fabulous Bel Di Lorenzo, founder of GoHDDess, to explore the art of vaginal gymnastics and how it can transform your life. Bel shares her expertise on strengthening your pelvic floor through intentional, empowering movements that go far beyond traditional kegels. We’ll dive into how these practices can unlock deep...

Send us Fan Mail  Did you know that prostate stimulation isn't just about pleasure—it also comes with some incredible health benefits? In this episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots , we're diving into the science and wellness perks of prostate play. From improved circulation and stress relief to potential benefits for prostate health, we'll explore how this often-overlooked practi...

Send us Fan Mail  Celebrated erotica author Avalon Lust joins me to explore the empowering world of erotica and its transformative impact on intimacy and self-discovery. From her journey to becoming a successful writer to how her stories offer a safe space for exploring fantasies, Avalon shares insights into why women are drawn to erotica and how it can enhance relationships. We discuss its educat...

Send us Fan Mail  Ever wondered what essentials you need for those spontaneous intimate moments? In this episode of Locker Room Talk and Shots , I, Annette Benedetti, reveal the secrets to building your very own "hoe on the go" bag—packed with everything from extra underwear and lube to playful toys and personal hygiene must-haves. Whether you're off on a weekend getaway or out for...

Send us Fan Mail Fellas, this one’s for you! We’re giving you the ultimate cheat code to unlocking her pleasure with the help of Dr. Lori Mintz, author of Becoming Clitorate . In this episode, we tackle the orgasm gap head-on and break down why so many women struggle to finish during heterosexual sex. Spoiler: it’s all about the clitoris! Dr. Mintz shares her expert insights on why focusing on cli...

Send us Fan Mail This is a listener-request episode. After publishing my podcast on the painful mistakes men make in bed, a listener reached out and asked me to do create an episode focused on women. So here it is. I researched what docs have to say and then reached out to my girlfriend group and boy did they deliver. Pay attention ladies. You don't want to make these mistakes in bed! My subs...

Send us Fan Mail Sex Educators Heather Florio and her Husband Tommy join me on this special episode to dive into how autism may affect people's intimate relationships when they or their partner are on the spectrum. Heather and Tommy share the intimate details of their experiences as a couple who met in high school and are still going hard in their 40s. My substack: https://talksexwithannette....

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode, we’re diving deep into the kinkiest corners of your imaginations! After the overwhelming response to my last episode on the top 10 kinks, so many of you slid into my inbox with confessions that were too wild, too unique, and too intriguing not to share. From latex and smoking fetishes to sensory deprivation and some seriously unexpected twists, I’m reading your l...

Send us Fan Mail Can cheating ever strengthen a relationship? In this episode, we unpack the complexities of infidelity with renowned sex and relationship therapist Dr. Deb Lano. From shifting gender trends to the role of technology in modern affairs, we challenge conventional views on cheating. We explore how communication, intimacy, and understanding emotional dynamics can prevent betrayal—and w...

Send us Fan Mail I'm answering listener's questions in this episode! I address women and body count, whether you should tell your doc that you are into CBT,  why women should or shouldn't approach men first in the dating world, and more! Episode's mentioned in this episode: Rating d!cks: https://youtu.be/0Wx2uNBNra0 CBT https://youtu.be/TIISg3f-O2o How women want men to flirt w...

Send us Fan Mail Today’s guest is living proof that size really does matter—but maybe not in the way you think. Meet Matt Barr, the man with the world’s largest medically verified penis, measuring an eye-watering 14.2 inches. While his story might sound like the stuff of locker room legend, the reality is far more complicated. From navigating awkward misconceptions to managing relationships and in...

Send us Fan Mail   The recent election has left many survivors of sexual assault and rape feeling triggered, betrayed, and unsafe. Watching known perpetrators ascend to power can reopen wounds, leaving us questioning who we can trust. In this episode, I share practical tips to help survivors protect their peace, find safe spaces, and maintain their healing journey during these challenging times. I...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode, we sit down with GS Youngblood, renowned author and expert on masculine leadership, to delve into what it means to lead with strength, integrity, and emotional intelligence. We explore how men can embody healthy masculinity, moving beyond toxic patterns to lead confidently both inside and outside of the bedroom. From cultivating deeper connection and communicatio...

Send us Fan Mail  Unlock the secrets of fetishes and discover how they can transform your sexual experiences in this provocative episode of Masturbation Monday. I’m Annette Benedetti, and I’ll be your guide as we explore the captivating world of fetishes—what sets them apart from kinks, and how they often overlap in fascinating ways. Dive deep into the top five fetishes and learn how these desires...

Send us Fan Mail Have you heard about Soft Cock Appreciation Week? It's a thing, and in this episode I dive into what it is along with the art of “cockversations” with Soft Cock Appreciation Weeks hostess Erica Leroye, the visionary behind Creative Body Release. Known as the "Chief Erotic Officer," Erica brings her expertise as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Erotic Educator...

Send us Fan Mail  Welcome to today's episode of Masturbation Monday ! We’re diving into "The Top 5 Sex Mistakes Married People Make—and How to Fix Them!" Whether you've been married for years or are in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to get stuck in a rut when it comes to sex. Statistics show that sexual satisfaction drops significantly over time for all orientations—often...

Send us Fan Mail  Ready to upgrade your flirting from 'meh' to mind-blowing? In this episode, I bring in my besties, Andi and Carrie, to dish on exactly what makes women say, "Yes, please!" We’re spilling our juiciest secrets—from giving her friends a little extra love in group settings to dropping compliments that hit harder than basic pick-up lines. Think you know how to flir...

Send us Fan Mail Today my two close girlfriends join me for a frank conversation about common bedroom moves men make that aren't just bad, they're downright painful.  We tell you what they are, how to identify when a woman isn't enjoying what you are doing, and what to do instead! We are also asking men to weigh in with some of the most common things women do in bed that they wish t...