Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail  Can jealousy turn juicy? In this episode, we’re diving into the seductive and transformative world of compersion —the sizzling feeling of joy for your partner’s pleasure with someone else. Join me and Dr. Marie Thouin, the groundbreaking expert on this juicy topic, as we explore how compersion can heat up your love life, whether you're in a monogamous or non-monogamous relat...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode, we're diving headfirst into the world of kinks—some common, some wildly surprising, and all backed by some truly eye-opening research. From the mindfulness benefits of BDSM to why foot fetishes are more “wired” than weird, we’re unpacking the 10 most fascinating and unexpected kinks people indulge in. With shocking facts (like how balloons can be a major tur...

Send us Fan Mail In this Locker Room Talk & Shots Podcast episode, I’m diving deep into the world of open monogamy with renowned sex and relationship expert, Dr. Tammy Nelson. We’ll unravel the mysteries and misconceptions surrounding this evolving relationship style (one I'm personally invested in), where couples redefine traditional monogamy and explore new levels of intimacy, trust, an...

Send us Fan Mail Are you worried that masturbating will ruin your sex life, negatively affect your health, or make you a sad sack of a human? I have good news for you, a regular self-pleasure practice may actually improve your life on many levels. In this episode, I share some of the benefits mastubation offers people according to their sex and for folks of all genders. So, get ready to get off! M...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what it truly means to embrace submission and explore the transformative power dynamics within BDSM? My good friend Kerry joins me to share her 6 yearjourney from a vanilla lifestyle to discovering her authentic submissive self. Her experiences shed light on the profound impact that power exchange can have on one’s life and identity, offering invaluable insights for...

Send us Fan Mail It's Kinktober! If you are curious about the submissive experience in the D/S dynamic, you've been thinking about dipping your toes in the water of the D/S dynamic or you are a newbie to the experience then this episode is for you. I am sharing 5 tips that will help submissives lay the ground for a safe and fulfilling experience! Check out the BDSM Boundary Checklist her...

Send us Fan Mail I’m kicking off Kinktober with a sit-down interview with Todd "Max" Carey, the producer, director, and editor of tOuch Kink , a provocative documentary that pulls back the curtain on the fascinating world of kink. From suburban soccer moms to fearless Dominatrixes, tOuch Kink explores the diverse lives of people who embrace power, pleasure, and pain, all while focusing o...

Send us Fan Mail For the last 3 years, I've been sharing my personal journey as a Bisexual woman. And this year, I decided to embark on my biggest queer women's adventure yet, with my besties including regular guest Deanna/Ruby. In this episode, we tell all. Here's what happened at the Dinah! My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/ Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https:/...

Send us Fan Mail Are you in love with your pussy? Do you think she is perfect the way she is? If you don’t and find that the way she looks or functions causes you pain and or embarrassment in bed or in your daily life, there are solutions! On today’s episode, My guest Dr. Reed known as the Cosmetic Gyn, talks about all of the ways the modern woman struggles with vaginal issues and all of the solut...

Send us Fan Mail What kind of sex do women really want to be having? Today, I'm sharing 7 research-backed ways women fantasize or secretly want to have sex. Bonus! Research shows that sex is actually better for women when they get these desires met. Good news, you may just find out that your partner's deepest desires are the same as yours! My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack...

Send us Fan Mail What does healing and moving on look like after the traumatic end of a relationship? When do you date again? How do you know if you are ready for sex? In this very personal episode, I am joined by my good friend Andrea, a mental health therapist as we share the stories of healing after our breakups/divorce over this past year. Expect a raw and honest discussion about the societal...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why your female partner doesn't initiate sex as often as you'd like? Discover the secrets behind this common issue in our latest episode of Masturbation with me, Annette Benedetti. Today, we're exploring the intriguing dynamics of spontaneous versus responsive desire and how this understanding can transform your intimate life. Expect to walk away with...

Send us Fan Mail Erectile dysfunction can occur for a number of reasons. From sexual anxiety to medications that make it impossible to get hard, most men and people with penises will be faced with having a soft cock when things are heating up. Believe it or not, it doesn't have to be a problem. Sex with soft cocks can be downright arousing and my guest, sex and intimacy coach Allie Andrews an...

Send us Fan Mail Has your sexy fizzled? Do you feel like your mojo got up and left and might never return? You aren't alone. Believe it or not, even I have found myself depleted of sensual energy and feeling like I'd never feel sexy again. I have put together 6 steps to getting your sexy back that I will share with you in this episode. But before we begin, what is "feeling sexy&quot...

Send us Fan Mail Could purity culture be ruining your sex life and keeping you from experiencing true pleasure?  Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers, a renowned sex and relationship therapist, Joins me to talk about the origins of purity culture and how it's worked its way into our bedrooms. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to identify any traces of shame in your your relationship with y...

Send us Fan Mail Curious about the latest health trend that's got everyone talking? Join me, Annette Benedetti, as we uncover the secrets of butthole sunning, also known as perineum sunning or solar anus therapy. We'll journey through its ancient Taoist origins, unraveling the claims made by modern wellness influencers who swear by its benefits—from increased energy and better sleep to a...

Send us Fan Mail There is a surge in the number of women being diagnosed with ADHD as the medical community begins to catch up with the times and research girls' and women's health at the same rate they've studied men's. As it turns out, ADHD manifests differently in women's behavior and lives. It only makes sense that it would show up in how women experience and participa...

Send us Fan Mail What is this I hear about “the Wall”? I’m here to talk about the reality of being an “older woman” (I’m talking 40 and up) and what sex is really like. Sure, I’m going to share my perspective, but I dug into science-backed research and the studies have quite a bit to say about the type of sex and quality of intimacy older women are having. Today’s Masturbation Monday will debunk 7...

Send us Fan Mail There’s an epidemic of loneliness plaguing people of all ages and genders. App dating is dragging single folks down. What if there was a different approach to dating that could minimize the amount of time you spend dating the wrong folks. Dr. Massimo Fantana joins me for a fascinating conversation on how people can reconnect with their sexual selves and use their natural sexual fl...

Send us Fan Mail Introducing anal play and anal sex to you relationship with a woman, can feel a little bit like taking a leap into the unknown. She has a perfectly good vagina. How to you explain your interest in penetrating her anus? This episode is the complete guide to bringing up anal sex with your girlfriend, wife, or partner with a vulva. In this episode you will learn: ·       How to commu...

Send us Fan Mail Breakups can be devastating. Finding your way through grief and putting your life back together can feel impossible. Emmi Fortin is a breakup and relationship coach who has put a 3-Step approach together that guides her clients through 90 Days of healing and gets them well on their way to a full breakup recovery. In this episode, you'll learn: -What love addiction is -Why you...

Send us Fan Mail Do you want to have or give your partner some of the deepest and most intense orgasms she's ever experienced? Well, today I am sharing my guide to A-Spot stimulation, pleasure, and orgasms. This is a complete guide!  In this episode, you learn: What the A-Spot is, who has one, and where it's located What's special about the A-spot A 3-step approach to unlocking the...

Send us Fan Mail Do you struggle with premature ejaculation or even just want to last longer in bed? Sex and relationship coach Aaron Frazin joins me for a conversation about cumming too fast. In this episode we cover what the definition of Premature Ejaculation is, we go over some of the main causes and then he walks you through a clearly defined 3 step process that will help you last longer in b...

Send us Fan Mail I'm sharing insights from my healing journey and the quest to get my groove back through solo travel and self-pleasure. I traveled to Nashville this week on my first solo trip as a single and boy did Nashville do me right. In this episode, I'm sharing 8 things that helped me feel hotter than ever while making my way through Nashville as a single. I also give you a sneak...

Send us Fan Mail Is conservative Christian outrage over the Paris Olympics really about a drag queen performance, or is it hiding something deeper? Join us as we pull back the curtain on the hypocrisy within conservative circles, revealing a world where public morality clashes with private indulgence. My guests, Dominatrix Lucy and Ruby, aka Deanna, expose the secret lives of conservative swingers...