Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail  What if I told you virginity is a scam—and you’ve been sold a lie that’s screwing with your pleasure, your confidence, and maybe even your relationships? In this no-BS conversation with certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein, we unpack the toxic history of virginity, the science that debunks it, and the shame it’s still spreading in bedrooms everywhere. From the myth of the hyme...

Send us Fan Mail  Most people think "slow sex" means sweet, romantic, or boring. Wrong. When you master slow sex the right way — the savage, dominant, craving-inducing way — you don't just turn someone on, you burn yourself into their memory. In this episode, I’m breaking down the science behind why fast sex short-circuits orgasmic satisfaction, and how slowing your movements, stack...

Send us Fan Mail What if the thing that turns you on the most… is also the thing you’ve been too afraid to admit? This episode pulls back the curtain on one of the fastest-growing—and most misunderstood—kinks: pregnancy and lactation play. And no, it’s not just a guy thing. Some women say it’s the sexiest they’ve ever felt. Others say it helped them reclaim their bodies after birth. And for many,...

Send us Fan Mail You don’t have to be “kinky” to completely blow her mind—you just need a little curiosity. In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks that are: ✅ Easy to try ✅ Expert-approved ✅ And absolutely guaranteed to take your bedroom game from basic to bold We’re talking praise kink, anal play (yes, for her and you), light restraint, power dynamics, and erotic punishme...

Send us Fan Mail  If you think dating over 40 is just ghosting, gym bros, and endless swiping with no spark—think again. In this episode, I’m joined by Andrea McGinty, the matchmaking powerhouse who’s set up over 33,000 dates and 4,200 marriages. She’s been on Oprah, CNN, and now she’s here to spill the secrets from her new book 2nd Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 40. Whether you're...

Send us Fan Mail  Most men have no idea just how kinky their partner might secretly be. We've all heard the tired myths—“women aren’t as into sex,” or “guys are the freaky ones.” But here’s the truth: women are just as kinky, just as curious, and often have wild desires they’re too afraid to say out loud. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m diving into 5 surprising, research-backed...

Send us Fan Mail Think women don’t want sex as much as men? Think again. In this episode, I sit down with renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor to bust one of the most damaging myths about women’s sexuality: that we have a “naturally low libido.” We unpack the real reasons so many women struggle with desire—and spoiler alert—it’s not about hormones or aging. You’ll learn the top cause...

Send us Fan Mail  Want to turn him into putty in your hands—without saying a word? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m sharing 14+ playful power moves that will have your man gasping, grinding, and flat-out begging for more. This isn’t about leather whips and dungeon gear (unless you're into that). It’s about seductive control—grip strength, pu$$y pulses, whispered commands, and li...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode, we dive into the complex world of narcissistic relationships with therapist and trauma expert Sonnet Damon. We'll explore the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse, why it's so easy to get caught up in these toxic dynamics, and—most importantly—how to break free and rebuild. Sonnet shares practical tips for healing, from reparenting exercises to setting bo...

Send us Fan Mail  Want to know the secret to making her beg for more every time? Most guys rush straight to the finish line, but the truth is, women crave longer, more satisfying sessions. Today, I’m sharing four game-changing penetration hacks that are backed by science and designed to keep her moaning for more. Say goodbye to the quickie routine—these moves will have you turning minutes into a p...

Send us Fan Mail  In today’s dating world, women are redefining their personal timelines and taking control of their futures in powerful ways—and one of the most significant trends in this shift is egg freezing. This game-changing decision allows women to pause their biological clocks and approach relationships and family planning on their own terms. But what does it really mean for the dynamics o...

Send us Fan Mail  Ever wonder why the sex after a fight can feel so ridiculously hot? You’re not imagining it—there’s actual science behind that explosive, can’t-keep-your-hands-off-each-other energy that follows a heated argument. In this episode, we’re diving into the psychological and biological reasons why “fight sex” hits different—and how you can recreate that same intensity without the emot...

Send us Fan Mail  Today, we’re diving into the fine art of going to Pound Town —and no, I don’t mean a new travel destination, but I do mean a trip worth taking. We’re talking about deep, powerful thrusting—how to do it right, how to make it feel insanely good for both of you, and what most people totally screw up. And I won’t be tackling this one alone—my friend Andi is joining me to break it all...

Send us Fan Mail  Most men think multiple orgasms are only possible for women—but science says otherwise. The truth is, you don’t have to be a “one and done” guy. With the right training, you can separate orgasm from ejaculation, last longer in bed, and experience wave after wave of intense pleasure without losing your erection. In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to rewire your body fo...

Send us Fan Mail  Ever feel like dating is just one big, soul-sucking game where you're constantly bending over backward to be what they want—only to end up disappointed again ? Turns out, the problem isn’t your profile, your texts, or your date-night strategy—it’s that you’ve been abandoning yourself in the process. In this episode, I sit down with dating coach Marie Thouin to break down min...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode, I break down 12 powerful sex cues that reveal exactly how to turn her on and keep the passion flowing. From deepening breaths and arching backs to subtle shifts in body language, I’ll teach you how to read her unspoken signals like a pro. Whether she’s melting into pleasure or silently signaling that something’s off, you'll learn how to respond in ways that...

Send us Fan Mail  Most men think turning a woman on is all about physical touch—but what if I told you that the right words could make her crave you, fantasize about you, and get wet just from hearing your voice? In this episode, we’re diving into the science of verbal arousal, breaking down exactly what to say, how to say it, and the biggest mistakes men make that kill the mood. If you’ve ever wo...

Send us Fan Mail  Most men think they know how to turn a woman on—but they’re getting it all wrong. There’s one move that makes women obsessed in bed, and yet almost no one does it. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m exposing the game-changing technique that triggers deeper, more intense orgasms than anything else. It’s not just about slowing down—it’s about unlocking a hidden pleasure...

Send us Fan Mail  Welcome to "Talk Sex with Annette." Today, we're exploring a topic that's both vital and invigorating: the profound connection between your erections and your overall health. Erectile function isn't just about intimacy; it's a key indicator of your cardiovascular well-being. We'll discuss how monitoring your erections can provide early warnings...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode, we dive deep into what it truly takes to make penetration pleasurable —not just tolerable, not just “fine,” but deeply, mind-blowingly good. From physical preparation to the power of relaxation, arousal, and full-body engagement, we explore the key elements that turn penetration into an experience of pure pleasure. Whether you're looking to enhance your own...

Send us Fan Mail  Finding love in 2025 feels harder than ever—but is it really just bad luck, or is your brain working against you? Dr. Kyra Bobinet, a physician, public health leader, and behavior change expert, reveals how the habenula —the brain’s failure detector—keeps people trapped in cycles of rejection, self-doubt, and endless swiping. In this episode, we uncover why men’s connection hormo...

Send us Fan Mail  Think spitting during sex is always hot? Think again. In this episode, we’re diving deep into the spit kink —why some people crave it, why others cringe at it, and the hard rules every man needs to follow before he even thinks about letting saliva drip. From getting explicit consent to making sure your spit game is sexy (not sloppy), I’m breaking down the three golden rules of sp...

Send us Fan Mail  So you’ve hit that first orgasm—amazing! But what if I told you the fun doesn’t have to stop there? In this episode, we’re talking about how to keep the pleasure going after you’ve come, with three game-changing tips to help you tap into your body’s full orgasmic potential. Whether you’re chasing round two (or three… or four) or just want to make sex last longer, I’ve got you cov...

Send us Fan Mail  In this episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots , I dive into the art of giving a woman multiple orgasms, breaking down the difference between rolling orgasms and distinct multiple orgasms. I emphasize the importance of stimulating beyond the clitoris, waking up the G-spot, A-spot, and other erogenous zones to maximize pleasure. Listeners will learn how to navigate post-orgasm se...

Send us Fan Mail  This episode of Locker Room Talk & Shots is a riotous throwback to our early podcasting days when we came in hot and left a hilarious mess! Joined by my friends Andi, Sloan, and Carrie, we pop champagne and dive into the juicy topic of women's ultimate sexual "icks." From slobbery spit to unsolicited dirty talk, we’re breaking down the things that make us cring...