Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail If she’s not coming and your first thought is “she’s just hard to please” — it’s time to rewrite the script. Arousal isn’t guesswork. It’s science you can feel with your hands. In this video, I’m breaking down the real physiological signs of arousal — including vaginal tenting, pelvic floor engagement, and breath/body shifts — so you can learn to read her body like a map and build...

Send us Fan Mail Curious about the hotwife lifestyle ? 🔥 In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I sit down with Hot Wife and Wifey Ambassador Serenity Cox to break down one of the most talked-about relationship trends right now. We cover what it really is, how couples build trust and set boundaries, and what to know if you’ve ever been curious about exploring it. This conversation is all abou...

Send us Fan Mail Submission isn’t weakness. It’s power offered—not power lost. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive. This isn’t about topping from the bottom. It’s about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant. We’...

Send us Fan Mail What if the key to fixing your sex life wasn’t more talking… but smarter tech? Whether you’re dealing with a dead bedroom , long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today’s episode is all about the new generation of smart sex toys designed to help couples reconnect in ways that actually work. I’m joined by Toon Timmermans , CEO and founder of Kiiroo , the c...

Send us Fan Mail What if locking it up could actually unlock better sex? Welcome to Locktober 2025 , the orgasm control challenge that’s helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who...

Send us Fan Mail What if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come ? Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette , where we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity . Whether you’ve seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you’re just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down ho...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn’t hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or finally become safer and more accessible? In this Kinktober special, I’m joined by Amanda Dames , kink educator, coach, and host of The Kin...

Send us Fan Mail Ready to heat things up this October? 🎃🔥  Forget haunted houses— this Kinktober is about unlocking new thrills in the bedroom. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks you can explore right now, with a fun challenge for each one. Here’s what you’ll learn:  ✨ The science behind why spanking and impact play feel so addictive  ✨ How c...

Send us Fan Mail Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and explore the many solutions men can try. From lifestyle shifts and breathwork to cutting-edge sexual health tech, we dig into how you can last long...

Send us Fan Mail We’re told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m sharing 7 forbidden-ish intimacy moves that surprise, excite, and actually bring you closer. From consent contracts to mirror play to cont...

Send us Fan Mail Ever feel like you and your partner just aren’t speaking the same sexual language? You’re not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Research at Arya and PhD researcher at the University of Washington, to unpack the Erotic Persona Framework —the 4 sexual archetypes that explain why r...

Send us Fan Mail Most men think oral sex is about fancy tongue tricks or lasting as long as possible. But here’s the truth: the #1 mistake isn’t about your technique — it’s about what you’re missing. In this episode, I break down:  ✨ The biggest oral  sex mistake men make (and why it ruins connection)  ✨ Common myths that sabotage you — like the dreaded “lizard flick” move 🦎  ✨ How to use your...

Send us Fan Mail If they finish… then shut down, this episode is for you. Today we break down dismissive-avoidant attachment in the bedroom —why someone can crave the physical but avoid the intimate—and what actually works to make connection (and foreplay/aftercare) easier. I’m joined by Dr. Sam Zand , holistic psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at Better U, and founder of Anywhere Clinic. We cov...

Send us Fan Mail FemDom doesn’t have to be scary, it can be soft, playful, and insanely hot. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I break down 5 simple steps to Gentle FemDom, so you can explore dominance without latex, whips, or dungeon vibes. Because real FemDom is about confidence, not costumes.   What you’ll learn: The body language shift that makes you instantly more commanding How to u...

Send us Fan Mail Curious about butt stuff but don’t know where to start? You’re not alone. In this beginner-friendly guide, I sit down with Tim Lagman, certified sex educator and host of Sex Ed With Tim , to break down how to make backdoor play fun, safe, and yes—seriously pleasurable. Together we cover:  ✅ How to warm up the right way  ✅ What lube + toys make it easy and enjoyable  ✅ Tips to k...

Send us Fan Mail Want to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You’ve been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you from your partner. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’ll show you 3 science-backed moves you can use tonight to control your arousal, boost her org...

Send us Fan Mail Kinky couples are some of the most communicative, consent-savvy lovers out there—but that doesn’t mean their relationships are drama-free. Sometimes the same power dynamics that light you up in the bedroom can throw things off outside of it. In this episode, I talk with Wendi L. Dumbroff, MA, LPC , a kink-affirming couples & sex therapist, about the struggles kinky couples don...

Send us Fan Mail Is your intimacy starting to feel predictable? You’re not alone. Most couples fall into the same positions, the same rhythm, and the same script — and that’s when connection can start to feel routine instead of exciting. In this episode, I’m revealing the #1 move that transforms ordinary intimacy into an unforgettable experience — the kind your partner can’t stop thinking about af...

Send us Fan Mail What happens when kink becomes the key to healing religious shame?  In this raw and redemptive episode I sit down with Lauren Elise Rogers , a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator who grew up in a high-control religion. Together, we unpack how purity culture distorts sexuality—and how kink can actually be a path to freedom, power, and deep healing. Lauren shares her personal stor...

Send us Fan Mail Quickies don’t have to be rushed, sloppy, or forgettable. In fact, when you know what to do, a 10-minute quickie can be hotter, more intense, and more memorable than an all-night session. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m breaking down the science of why urgency and anticipation heighten arousal, the mistakes most people make that ruin quickies, and the exact step-by-...

Send us Fan Mail  What’s the “right” size to satisfy a woman? How often should you really be having sex—or masturbating? And is it weird if you’re into something like ball-busting? Today, I’m joined by certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein to tackle the most-searched, most-avoided questions men have about sex, performance, and pleasure. We’re breaking down the myths, the science, and the real an...

Send us Fan Mail Before you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she’s already turned on and fully invested when you get to the bedroom. ✅ The psychology & science of building anticipation  ✅ Step-by-step moves that work without cross...

Send us Fan Mail Looking for sex positions that actually feel good—not just the ones you see in magazines or corn? In this episode , I’m joined by therapist, and author Suzannah Weiss to break down the truth about what makes a sex position great—for your body, your pleasure, and your real life. Whether you're dealing with size mismatches, limited flexibility, queer pairings, or past discomfor...

Send us Fan Mail Most people think the secret to the female orgasm is a technique.  But the truth? The biggest mistake is a mindset. In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason she’s not finishing—and it’s probably not what you think.  You’ll learn: The real science behind female orgasm What turns her OFF (even when she loves you) How to use sound, breath, and feedback to get her deeply turned on 4 su...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , we’re diving into the surprising ways sex toys are revolutionizing sexual health—and why more medical professionals are finally taking pleasure seriously. You’ll learn: Why vibrators are being recommended by doctors and therapists The science behind using pleasure tools to treat conditions like pelvic pain, low libido, and arousal disorde...