Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it’s actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it. Joined by Sarah Tomchesson , Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findin...

Send us Fan Mail Losing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost , how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her . Because sex isn’t penetration-based — it’s presen...

Send us Fan Mail Every January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V , host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger . We explore why perfor...

Send us Fan Mail Most people think they know how the clitoris works.  They don’t. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything. We’re talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down. If orgasm...

Send us Fan Mail In 2022, I made a decision that changed my life. I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust. In this episode, I’m inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026: 365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution. This is not a challenge. It’s a daily pleasure practice and an e...

Send us Fan Mail When sex starts feeling like work, it’s not because desire is broken. It’s because the body has learned to brace. In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen. This is the exact kind of practice I’ll be guiding inside 365 Days o...

Send us Fan Mail Every year we promise ourselves more sex, better performance, or more confidence — and every year those goals quietly fall apart. In this episode, I’m joined by sex educator Goody Howard to talk about a different approach to sexual resolutions for 2026 — one that focuses on intention, education, and pleasure that actually lasts. This isn’t about pressure or porn-inspired goals. It...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever worried that pleasure depends on size, this episode will completely change how you think about intimacy. In this video, Annette breaks down three sex positions that feel incredible—no matter your size —because they work with anatomy, angle, rhythm, and the nervous system, not performance pressure. This is not about going harder, deeper, or faster. It’s about underst...

Send us Fan Mail What if the best sex of your life starts after 50? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m joined by the sex educator behind Taboo to Truth, Karen Bigman to talk about why women over 50 are becoming more confident, more curious, and more sexually adventurous than ever. We break down the myths about aging and desire—and explore how self-knowledge, confidence, and freedom fro...

Send us Fan Mail Why does it feel like everything is working… until it suddenly isn’t? You’re touching her.  She’s aroused.  She’s close.  And then—her body pulls away, the moment disappears, and the orgasm never lands. In this episode, intimacy coach Annette breaks down the most common mistake people make with their hands that actually stops orgasms instead of creating them —and why trying harder...

Send us Fan Mail Are politics turning people on more than we realize? Today on Talk Sex with Annette, we’re diving into a surprising and fast-growing fantasy showing up in bedrooms, dating apps, and long-term relationships: the political humiliation kink — when opposing beliefs become part of a consensual power-play dynamic. In this episode, I sit down with acclaimed psychosexual therapist and sex...

Send us Fan Mail Want to take your oral intimacy skills from “pretty good” to absolutely unforgettable? In this episode, I’m breaking down the advanced rhythm, pacing, and attunement techniques that cause full-body reactions, deeper connection, and those moments where she completely loses control. This isn’t about flashy moves or performance pressure.  This is about understanding the science of he...

Send us Fan Mail Talking about kink doesn’t have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on. In today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette , we’re breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens. I’m joined by Lisa Opel , pleasure coach at Joy Cl...

Send us Fan Mail Most people think climax is one quick moment — but her body is capable of so much more. Rolling orgasms are deeper, longer waves of pleasure, and once she learns this rhythm, intimacy changes for both of you. In this episode, I break down how to help her stay in sensation longer, understand her arousal curve, and use the Kiiroo Pearl 3 to build the rhythm that allows rolling orgas...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we’re breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it’s your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward. I’m joined by Laura Desiree , creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover: ✨ What exhibitionism really is  ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure  ✨ Signs it...

Send us Fan Mail Want to be the best she’s ever had… without needing a big anything? You’re not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here’s the truth: What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the real skill...

Send us Fan Mail Why are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing ? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching.  In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what’s really behind...

Send us Fan Mail On today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m answering one of the most common questions I get from men: “How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?” The truth is this:  Most women don’t open from direct sexual touch.  They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across...

Send us Fan Mail Grindr isn’t just a hookup app—it’s where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I sit down with Zach Zane , author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what’s really happening on the world’s most infamous app. We’re diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men ex...

Send us Fan Mail You know that moment when you think she’s into you… but you’re not sure? Or maybe you’ve been with your partner for years and you’re wondering—does she still want me like that? In this episode, I’m breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real —and exactly how to respond when you see them. This isn’t pick-up artist nonsense. It’s real neuro...

Send us Fan Mail You want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most tru...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone.  But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have? In this episode, I’ll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You’ll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe). So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe? In this episode, I’m joined by Milla Impola , condom and lube e...

Send us Fan Mail Not all orgasms are created equally. There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll c...

Send us Fan Mail Most people talk about threesomes like they’re either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here’s the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy , build trust, and light your desire on fire. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m joined by Ally Iseman —ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure . All...