Talk Sex with Annette

Send us Fan Mail You've been misreading her in bed. The loudest sounds she makes? Those aren't for her. Research shows the majority of women vocalize to speed up his finish — not because they're in pleasure. Meanwhile, the sounds that actually mean she's deep in it? Most men miss them completely. In this episode, I break down the five real sounds she makes during sex — what eac...

Send us Fan Mail What is bimboification — and why are so many people hiding it? Sex and relationship coach Niki Davis-Fainbloom breaks down one of the most misunderstood fetishes out there, where it comes from, and how to explore it in your relationship without the shame spiral. Because the fetish isn't the problem. The shame is. What bimboification and cross-dressing fetishes actually are Th...

Send us Fan Mail She's not withholding. She's not checked out. And it has nothing to do with how long you've been together. Here's what's actually happening: every time you touch her, kiss her, pull her close — she can feel that it has a destination. And when desire always has a destination, she stops being in the moment and starts managing the arc. So she waits. Every tim...

Send us Fan Mail You think you know what a fetish is — leather, feet, something you scroll past. But the cultural conversation leads with the weird and skips the why. Today we're flipping that. Jessica Renard — licensed professional counselor, sex therapist at StorieBrook Associates, and a therapist who works directly within the kink communities in Georgia — breaks down the fetishes that actu...

Send us Fan Mail Most men are completely silent during sex. And that silence is costing you more than you realize. Surveys suggest that roughly 3 out of 4 women say verbal affirmation during sex increases their arousal and orgasm intensity. But it's not just about saying nice things — it's about pairing specific words with specific physical moves at exactly the right moment. That combina...

Send us Fan Mail Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genui...

Send us Fan Mail She's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has. Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception, this episode is for you. This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what actually creates faking — and the specific things...

Send us Fan Mail Men's sexual shame doesn't look like what you think. It's not about a secret kink. It's the guy jackhammering away thinking that's what success looks like. The one who won't make eye contact. The one who avoids dating entirely — not because he doesn't want connection, but because his nervous system won't let him get close. I sit down with Al...

Send us Fan Mail She's been waiting for you to figure this out. For a huge number of women, watching a confident man willingly submit to her is one of the most erotic experiences that exists. Not a weak man — a man who is secure enough to give her complete control and trust her to lead. This episode is about real submission. Not performing. Not topping from the bottom. Actually letting go. Wh...

Send us Fan Mail She didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to come back. If you've been going through the motions, or you've watched your partner disappear and had no idea why, this one&a...

Send us Fan Mail She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe every time. And she's decided you'll never know — because asking feels impossible, and hoping you'll figure it out on your own hasn't worked. This episode is about the five dominance moves women consistently fantasize about and almost never get. Not because their partners wouldn't do them, but because no o...

Send us Fan Mail She didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks. Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually happens when a woman refuses to become sexually invisible after motherhood. We're getting into pregnancy kinks, lactation content, be...

Send us Fan Mail She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times. And she's decided you'll never know. Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This episode is about the five kinks women most commonly carry in silence, the shame that keeps them there, and what you can actually...

Send us Fan Mail Most people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it? In this episode, I sit down with Thais Gibson — founder of Personal Development School, bestselling author, and one of the world's l...

Send us Fan Mail Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times. The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks. In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things...

Send us Fan Mail What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m joined by Venus O’Hara —author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast —to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation. We break down: What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t) How sexual energy can be used for intention, c...

Send us Fan Mail Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong. This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing.  It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection . In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted , based on psychology, nervou...

Send us Fan Mail This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast. For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening. But what happens when we stop whispering? In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Dohe...

Send us Fan Mail Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works. We’ll talk about: why grabbing and squeezing to...

Send us Fan Mail With the Epstein files back in the headlines, many people are noticing a shift in desire and connection. This unscheduled drop explores how collective stories of abuse and betrayal impact the nervous system — and why libido is often the first thing to go quiet when safety feels uncertain. In this episode, we talk about: Why desire can shut down during moments of collective trauma...

Send us Fan Mail  Two years ago, this topic became one of my most-listened-to episodes—so we’re bringing it back. In Part 2, I’m joined by two sex-positive women from different age groups to answer the questions men keep asking and go deeper than before. We cover: What women actually think about penis size Why confidence matters more than length How oral, grinding, toys, and anal play often matter...

Send us Fan Mail Why do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don’t want sex anymore.” We talk about: Why low desire is often a reasonable response , not a personal failure How pressure, routine, and male-centric sex...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best. And I want to be clear right from the start:   This episode exists because my audience voted for it. Every w...

Send us Fan Mail We talk about blowjobs like they’re a performance — like there’s a “right way,” a secret move, or something you’re supposed to magically know. But most advice doesn’t actually make oral sex feel better.  It just makes people anxious. In this episode, I’m joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — w...

Send us Fan Mail Foreplay shouldn’t feel inconsistent. If you’ve ever taken your time and still felt like her body wasn’t fully responding — this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever wanted to be into it but felt tense or distracted instead, this one’s for you too. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette , I break down 9 foreplay moves most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because n...