Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

It’s a commonly accepted and very socially validated reason not to have sex: You have kids Especially young kids.  Haven’t had sex in a few years? Of course! You have children! This is one of the most acceptable excuses there is.  No one will judge you or admonish you. They’ll just cluck their tongues and nod. Often, because they’ve been there too. Or, because it’s a convenient narrative to buy in...

I often say that it’s not “behind every good man is a woman”.  Au contraire.  Behind every good woman is a man, on his knees and ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got.  In order to transform your partner into  well-f**ked woman, your thrusting game needs to be on point.  To get to the deeper, vaginal, life-changing orgasms—G-Spot and cervical, women need SUSTAINED penetration. ...

An essential life skill of a Supercock is having total control over his ejaculation.  He is a marathon f**ker who can go for hours if he chooses to.  Being a man who knows how to separate orgasm from ejaculation?  THIS is probably the ultimate Supercock achievement.  Yes, it’s totally possible.  The Anami Guarantee states that: All men can have rock solid erections into their 90s, master their org...

Cock is magical thing. It’s healing, rejuvenating, recalibrating and it opens me up to life, bliss and the divine. The best cock activates a pussy, setting it on fire so it can realize its true potential. It functions as a barometer for the man and how he is showing up in his life. Is he potent, solid and strong? Then his erections will be as well. I spoke in last week’s episode about the necessit...

What does this even mean? To get fucked into oblivion? It’s to get fucked so well, so thoroughly, so artfully, so heart-fully that it blows away all the pre-conceived, false notions of who you are, and leaves behind a more true, authentic and beautiful version of you. Yes, all that and more from a good f**king. If you’ve followed my work at all, you know that in Anami Land, a good f**king isn’t so...

To porn or not to porn. That is the question! A recent study showed that 94% of men had viewed pornography in the last six months.  And 82% considered themselves “regular viewers” of pornography. There’s A LOT of information out there on the negative impacts of porn, from the depletion of testosterone and dopamine and its impact on erections, to how addictive it is, to keep its effects going.  And...

Before I heard the term, “re-wilding”, I used to talk about the process of “de-civilizing”, which I defined as removing all of the false, super-imposed layers of conditioning we’ve taken on over the course of our lives, and leaving in their place, a purer, more authentic version of the self. So there’s two parts to this journey then: Removing what isn’t natural and pulls us out of sync. Adding bac...

Most men grow up with role models that are “toxic” or “beta". The thing is, neither the “toxic” version nor the “beta” version are actual masculine energy. They are devoid of it. So what is true masculine energy? What are the qualities men can strive to develop in themselves, embodying the divine Supercock that is fulfilling for them and that women are craving? In today’s episode we’ll talk: Is “t...

Yes, f**king is better than therapy.  I would know. I’ve done a lot of both.   Save thousands of dollars and hours. Work it out in bed instead. More effective, works faster and much better fun. I mean, what is the purpose of therapy?  To confront your demons.  To heal.  To be honest with yourself.  To alchemize your wounds and past pain into wisdom and pleasure.  Well, my orgasms do that.  My cerv...

Blow jobs can do all kinds of things. They give pleasure. And orgasms. They can land you massive business deals. And grow cocks. They can make your yoga practice better. And your children are calmer and happier. They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god. And turn a woman into a sensual goddess. Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more? Their ecstatic and reality-bending pow...

This is one of my favourite things to put out there to people:  The promise that everyone CAN.  Whatever age or stage you are in your life, you can achieve all of the epic sexual adventures and milestones I talk about.  I guarantee it.  All women can: Produce tsunamis of lubrication. Yes, even when menopausal, pregnant or postpartum.  Ejaculate across the room.  Have multiple, daily, G-Spot, cervi...

Everyone wants to know: How to find "the one"! First off, I don’t think there is just ONE person in a lifetime we’re meant to be with.  I believe there are several “ones” out there waiting for us.  How DO we find them?  How do we draw them into our lives and our hearts and our beds?  How do we find the people who will be most suited to us, who will match us and also help us reach our next stages o...

Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says!  I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight.  They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose.  And then they’d start having gourmet sex.  The kind of sex I teach about, where they are b...

In this episode:  Examples of toxic femininity  What the balanced and divine feminine looks like  How to cultivate it in your daily life  Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature  Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine  IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and tran...

In this episode:  - How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts - Owning and loving the breasts  - Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation - Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding  - From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals 

This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover:  Natural birth control  The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work  The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care.  The power of self-responsibility and self-governance...

Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day.  In today’s episode: Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression  Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease  Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300% My scientifically-endorsed method...

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is.  For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for:  Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sadism Masochism Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”. And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it. Just...

I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex. It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from. This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body. And so are the bad ones. It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them. As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open. T...

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being. Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are.  One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vag...

The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock. We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure. And yours. Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock. Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world.    It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth. Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner.  An anointing!  To coax t...

Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 

How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss?  Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn.  You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy.  The...

Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well. I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it. Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy. That would be “unconscious celibacy”. Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward.  T...