Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Did you know that you can fuck your problems away? That cock can heal your depression? And open your heart? That pussy juice can take away your back pain? And give you energy? Did you know that certain sexual positions can make you smarter?  That’s right. You have a veritable pharmacy in your bed. Sex Rx or Good-fuck medicine, as I like to call it, is healing power that you have at your fingertips...

I don’t do coffee. I do orgasms.  My legendary Meditate, Masturbate, Create three-step formula will help you to break out of the habit of using sex as a genital sneeze and sleep aid and instead show you how to rewire yourself to get high, tap your creative genius, and infuse ecstasy into all of your waking life. 

“Casual” sex is a massive contradiction and oxymoron. How casual sex really impacts you, in ways you’ve likely never thought of before. Casual sex vs. gourmet sex  What’s the true impact of casual sex  10 reasons why to go f**k yourself instead The false liberation of The Pill  Do you need many partners to be “experienced”?  Are men and women built differently for casual sex?  Is it worth getting...

"You’re always wet!”  This is one of the things my lovers have said to me most often. They’re shocked.  They aren’t used to touching a women and she’s already dripping wet.  It’s normally something in the past that they have to work at to create, or need to squeeze out of a plastic tube. Most men and women have been conditioned to think that lube doesn’t actually come from inside a woman’s vagina!...

"I don't stargaze; I vagina-gaze."  This is one of the most profound podcast episodes I've done.  I interview our Well-F**ked All-Star Katie, who shares how she healed her sexual trauma primarily through using the jade yoni egg. “I was one of those women you talk about who never even looked at my own vagina. I was terrified to. I couldn’t touch myself because of a longstanding history of childhood...

I often use the hashtag: #poweredbyvagina Which means: my vagina created this. Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know! They’re also for creating your dreams. I’m always talking about how our sexual energy is creative, life-force energy. If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life. When your vagina is happy and healthy and it’s getting well-f**ked on a regular...

In this episode: My top FOUR tips for moving from the clitoris into the holy land of the vaginas  Not one, not two, but THREE epic all-star stories of women sharing their sexual and life transformations via their vaginas and cervical orgasms  Why do people fight for the right not to orgasm?  The fastest way to de-numb your vagina Why only having clitoral orgasms leaves you underf**ked 

Do you have an uplifting vagina? Did you know that lifting weights with your vagina does all of the following? Creates an overall lift in your mood Lifts the pelvic floor, and all your internal organs so they don’t fall out—um yes, this is a thing that happens to 50% of women after childbirth Gives you a facelift. Bye bye Botox. Prevents leakage: energetic and otherwise.  Yes, having a strong, upl...

I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow” . In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not. In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating. It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other. The...

There are so many pregnancy myths and misinformation that it’s truly a delight to bust them all.  Birth is painful?  Nope. Birth is actually meant to be the biggest orgasm of your life.  The safest place to have a baby is in a hospital?  Nope. It’s actually the most dangerous. The safest place to have a baby is at home.  You need an OBYGN to “deliver” your baby for you.  Lol, nope.  Your body and...

In this episode I chat with Rachelle Garcia Seliga of Innate Traditions and we discuss:  The five pillars of a restorative postpartum The role of birth trauma in postpartum depression Indigenous traditions in postpartum care around the world The role of community and how to create it  A man’s role and its impact on their relationship overall 

Birth is an initiation that unifies you with the cosmos and solidifies your role as a channel for the divine.  You are the vessel for life-force to come through. You are a portal to other dimensions.  In accessing these places, you ascend to higher states of consciousness. And you stay there. Because you’ve earned it.  Yes, this is what birth was meant to be.  The fact that most women’s birth expe...

It’s a commonly accepted and very socially validated reason not to have sex: You have kids Especially young kids.  Haven’t had sex in a few years? Of course! You have children! This is one of the most acceptable excuses there is.  No one will judge you or admonish you. They’ll just cluck their tongues and nod. Often, because they’ve been there too. Or, because it’s a convenient narrative to buy in...

I often say that it’s not “behind every good man is a woman”.  Au contraire.  Behind every good woman is a man, on his knees and ferociously thrusting and giving her everything he’s got.  In order to transform your partner into  well-f**ked woman, your thrusting game needs to be on point.  To get to the deeper, vaginal, life-changing orgasms—G-Spot and cervical, women need SUSTAINED penetration. ...

An essential life skill of a Supercock is having total control over his ejaculation.  He is a marathon f**ker who can go for hours if he chooses to.  Being a man who knows how to separate orgasm from ejaculation?  THIS is probably the ultimate Supercock achievement.  Yes, it’s totally possible.  The Anami Guarantee states that: All men can have rock solid erections into their 90s, master their org...

Cock is magical thing. It’s healing, rejuvenating, recalibrating and it opens me up to life, bliss and the divine. The best cock activates a pussy, setting it on fire so it can realize its true potential. It functions as a barometer for the man and how he is showing up in his life. Is he potent, solid and strong? Then his erections will be as well. I spoke in last week’s episode about the necessit...

What does this even mean? To get fucked into oblivion? It’s to get fucked so well, so thoroughly, so artfully, so heart-fully that it blows away all the pre-conceived, false notions of who you are, and leaves behind a more true, authentic and beautiful version of you. Yes, all that and more from a good f**king. If you’ve followed my work at all, you know that in Anami Land, a good f**king isn’t so...

To porn or not to porn. That is the question! A recent study showed that 94% of men had viewed pornography in the last six months.  And 82% considered themselves “regular viewers” of pornography. There’s A LOT of information out there on the negative impacts of porn, from the depletion of testosterone and dopamine and its impact on erections, to how addictive it is, to keep its effects going.  And...

Before I heard the term, “re-wilding”, I used to talk about the process of “de-civilizing”, which I defined as removing all of the false, super-imposed layers of conditioning we’ve taken on over the course of our lives, and leaving in their place, a purer, more authentic version of the self. So there’s two parts to this journey then: Removing what isn’t natural and pulls us out of sync. Adding bac...

Most men grow up with role models that are “toxic” or “beta". The thing is, neither the “toxic” version nor the “beta” version are actual masculine energy. They are devoid of it. So what is true masculine energy? What are the qualities men can strive to develop in themselves, embodying the divine Supercock that is fulfilling for them and that women are craving? In today’s episode we’ll talk: Is “t...

Yes, f**king is better than therapy.  I would know. I’ve done a lot of both.   Save thousands of dollars and hours. Work it out in bed instead. More effective, works faster and much better fun. I mean, what is the purpose of therapy?  To confront your demons.  To heal.  To be honest with yourself.  To alchemize your wounds and past pain into wisdom and pleasure.  Well, my orgasms do that.  My cerv...

Blow jobs can do all kinds of things. They give pleasure. And orgasms. They can land you massive business deals. And grow cocks. They can make your yoga practice better. And your children are calmer and happier. They can make a man into a warrior, confident, alpha god. And turn a woman into a sensual goddess. Did you know that blow jobs are all that and more? Their ecstatic and reality-bending pow...

This is one of my favourite things to put out there to people:  The promise that everyone CAN.  Whatever age or stage you are in your life, you can achieve all of the epic sexual adventures and milestones I talk about.  I guarantee it.  All women can: Produce tsunamis of lubrication. Yes, even when menopausal, pregnant or postpartum.  Ejaculate across the room.  Have multiple, daily, G-Spot, cervi...

Everyone wants to know: How to find "the one"! First off, I don’t think there is just ONE person in a lifetime we’re meant to be with.  I believe there are several “ones” out there waiting for us.  How DO we find them?  How do we draw them into our lives and our hearts and our beds?  How do we find the people who will be most suited to us, who will match us and also help us reach our next stages o...

Did you know that orgasms are one of the best fat-busters going? Science says!  I’ve worked with people who have done EVERYTHING to lose weight.  They had trainers, nutritionists, they were disciplined about eating and working out and there would be that last 10 or 15 pounds they just couldn’t seem to lose.  And then they’d start having gourmet sex.  The kind of sex I teach about, where they are b...