Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

It is the golden rule of female orgasms: She comes first, second, third, fourth and fifth. Once your woman has been thoroughly, artfully, heart-fully f**ked into oblivion, then you can come.  And if a woman is only having one orgasm—or one paltry clitoral orgasm—then I guarantee that not only has she not been well-f**ked, but that she will be significantly UNDERf**ked and sorely lacking.  In today...

A response to the idiocy of using terms like "bonus hole", "chest feeders", "birthing people" and the cumulative encroachment on women. "Chest feeder" "Birthing person"  "Uterus haver"  "Menstruating person"  And now it’s a “bonus hole” for a vagina.  Get. The. F*ck. Out. Of. Here.  Where does it end?  With humans only having test tube babies because they no longer have genitals, or forget what th...

Yes: God wants you to have them, and wants you to have lots of them. One of the most common things we hear when women start having cervical orgasms is: “I saw God!” For clarity’s sake, let’s define God as spirit, energy, nature, the life force of the universe—whatever you want to call it. So women get f**ked really, really well—whether by themselves, or with their partner—and they “see God.” They...

My top four suggestions for creating body-blowing breast orgasms. Plus:  How to overcome the dissociation many women feel and love and own your breasts How breasts alchemize emotions and are essential tools for us to use Three Well-F**ked All Stars share on how they went from numb and disconnected to radiant, cosmic, multi-orgasmic breast and nipple-gasms. Our Well-F**ked All Stars have gone throu...

F**k them until you change them is what I always say. How do you know when you’ve f**ked someone enough?  They change. They metamorphose into a new person.  Into a new, better, ideal, full-bodied, soul-expressed version of their highest selves.   Their tired and weary parts fall away. Fear, anxiety, insecurity, isolation, anger, playing small in life—they evaporate. They get alchemized and transfo...

Women “of a certain age” can be orgasming, ejaculating and LUBRICATING ALL OVER the place, with raging libidos. Without ANY assistance from a bottle of lube or artificial hormones. I guarantee it.  One of the myths I LOVE busting the most is the idea that menopause is a time when women dry up. They lose any and all sexual juiciness and must resign themselves to a life of perma-lube and Anne Taylor...

The Anami Guarantee is that all women are ravenous and insatiable. Once you wake them up.  All women have high libidos and are ravenously sexual. I guarantee it.  “But Kim! Some women just aren’t that sexual!” “But Kim! Women have lower sex drives than men!” “But Kim! Sex isn’t the most important part of a relationship!” To which I say:  Bullshit. Bullshit. Bullshit.  All women are erotically wild...

“Asexuality” is an invented, fictional term which attempts to “normalize” the idea of having no sex drive. There are any number of reasons why someone my have a low libido. Being "asexual" as a condition or way of life is not one of them. In this episode, we discuss some of the things that block people from realizing their true sexual potential and selves.  We cover:  - The biggest legitimate reas...

99.9% of people are underf**ked. Does that mean 99.9% of people can't come up with original ideas?  In this episode:  - Why plagiarists are by definition rabidly underf**ked - The relationship between being original, well-f**ked and expressing your creative genius - Why women stealing content from other women is not "women supporting women" - How people defending plagiarism (bizarre, I know) are a...

One of the most common and socially acceptable excuses for not having sex as a couple, is when you have children. No one will fault you for that. Oh, you have a new baby? Of course you aren’t having sex! You haven’t had sex in a few years? Well you have so many children, how could you ever find the time?”  The irony here is that the more you have sex, the easier and more effective your parenting w...

Orgasms that last for hours and days. Can you handle that much bliss?  In this episode:  - The importance of marathon f**king - Harvesting sexual energy as a creative power source  - The relationship between "fast sex" and sexual trauma  - 3-day sex dates - Enlightened sex acts like yoni and lingam massage, in our all star interview with Jim and Meg 

The hottest sexual chemistry and couples who can’t keep their hands off each other, generally have exaggerated feminine and masculine energies at play. Archetypically speaking, feminine energy is softer, open, receptive, and embodies the spiritual notion of surrender. The goddess archetype.  Masculine energy is more active, achievement-oriented, driven, takes charge, makes things happen. The warri...

If you aren’t f**king enough, or f**king well, you are going to be fighting. Whether you’re in a relationship where the sex is infrequent, or subpar, and you are bickering and testy with each other. Or, if you are single, and you create opportunities to yell at shop clerks and road rage at someone for not going fast enough on their way to the stoplight. All of this is misdirected sexual energy. In...

Did you know that you can fuck your problems away? That cock can heal your depression? And open your heart? That pussy juice can take away your back pain? And give you energy? Did you know that certain sexual positions can make you smarter?  That’s right. You have a veritable pharmacy in your bed. Sex Rx or Good-fuck medicine, as I like to call it, is healing power that you have at your fingertips...

I don’t do coffee. I do orgasms.  My legendary Meditate, Masturbate, Create three-step formula will help you to break out of the habit of using sex as a genital sneeze and sleep aid and instead show you how to rewire yourself to get high, tap your creative genius, and infuse ecstasy into all of your waking life. 

“Casual” sex is a massive contradiction and oxymoron. How casual sex really impacts you, in ways you’ve likely never thought of before. Casual sex vs. gourmet sex  What’s the true impact of casual sex  10 reasons why to go f**k yourself instead The false liberation of The Pill  Do you need many partners to be “experienced”?  Are men and women built differently for casual sex?  Is it worth getting...

"You’re always wet!”  This is one of the things my lovers have said to me most often. They’re shocked.  They aren’t used to touching a women and she’s already dripping wet.  It’s normally something in the past that they have to work at to create, or need to squeeze out of a plastic tube. Most men and women have been conditioned to think that lube doesn’t actually come from inside a woman’s vagina!...

"I don't stargaze; I vagina-gaze."  This is one of the most profound podcast episodes I've done.  I interview our Well-F**ked All-Star Katie, who shares how she healed her sexual trauma primarily through using the jade yoni egg. “I was one of those women you talk about who never even looked at my own vagina. I was terrified to. I couldn’t touch myself because of a longstanding history of childhood...

I often use the hashtag: #poweredbyvagina Which means: my vagina created this. Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know! They’re also for creating your dreams. I’m always talking about how our sexual energy is creative, life-force energy. If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life. When your vagina is happy and healthy and it’s getting well-f**ked on a regular...

In this episode: My top FOUR tips for moving from the clitoris into the holy land of the vaginas  Not one, not two, but THREE epic all-star stories of women sharing their sexual and life transformations via their vaginas and cervical orgasms  Why do people fight for the right not to orgasm?  The fastest way to de-numb your vagina Why only having clitoral orgasms leaves you underf**ked 

Do you have an uplifting vagina? Did you know that lifting weights with your vagina does all of the following? Creates an overall lift in your mood Lifts the pelvic floor, and all your internal organs so they don’t fall out—um yes, this is a thing that happens to 50% of women after childbirth Gives you a facelift. Bye bye Botox. Prevents leakage: energetic and otherwise.  Yes, having a strong, upl...

I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow” . In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not. In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating. It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other. The...

There are so many pregnancy myths and misinformation that it’s truly a delight to bust them all.  Birth is painful?  Nope. Birth is actually meant to be the biggest orgasm of your life.  The safest place to have a baby is in a hospital?  Nope. It’s actually the most dangerous. The safest place to have a baby is at home.  You need an OBYGN to “deliver” your baby for you.  Lol, nope.  Your body and...

In this episode I chat with Rachelle Garcia Seliga of Innate Traditions and we discuss:  The five pillars of a restorative postpartum The role of birth trauma in postpartum depression Indigenous traditions in postpartum care around the world The role of community and how to create it  A man’s role and its impact on their relationship overall 

Birth is an initiation that unifies you with the cosmos and solidifies your role as a channel for the divine.  You are the vessel for life-force to come through. You are a portal to other dimensions.  In accessing these places, you ascend to higher states of consciousness. And you stay there. Because you’ve earned it.  Yes, this is what birth was meant to be.  The fact that most women’s birth expe...