Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

Cervical orgasms: Once you have one, you’ll never go back The first orgasm I ever had was a cervical one. It was ecstatic, transcendent, elevating, self-actualizing, and life-changing. I thought that’s what sex was supposed to be.  Isn’t it?  Like I always say, if sex doesn’t change your life, you’re doing it wrong.    In this episode:   The first orgasm I ever had The most important skill needed...

The Kim Anami ultimate cocksucking guide.  For connoisseurs and aspirants. Everything you need to know.  In this episode:  ​​​​​ The #1 secret to advanced cocksucking  4 techniques to give the best blow job ever  The only polyamorous relationship I’ve ever been in  The biggest reason why women fail at blow jobs  How I fell in love with cock The How to Be a Well-F**ked Woman Salon is now open!  In...

Do I think women ought to be obsessed with getting larger breasts? Or stressed about it in any way?  Definitely not.  I actually prefer the look and vibe of smaller, more elegant—at least I see them that way—breasts.  But I still respect you mesmerizing, naturally big-breasted babes! What I DO aim for is getting women of all sizes and shapes to OWN what they’ve got and be able to tap into the META...

I’m multi-orgasmic, can fuck my partner from across the planet, I surf big waves, lift heavy at the gym and weigh what I did in high school.  I’m supa-freaky!  I’ve never taken any kind of hormone medication.  No GLP1s. Never taken peptides.  No plans to.  I’ve been clean and sober for 33 years. No drugs. No alcohol.  I quit drinking coffee when I was 19. And I’m the supa-est freaky freak that you...

How do you think I’ve stayed ahead of the curve—well, let’s not be modest here—I’ve CREATED the entire curve of holistic sex and relationship coaching.  How do I constantly innovate?  How am I fearless in being first?  I’m connected to my cervix. It’s the ultimate GPS.  When your self-actualized pussy is calling the shots, you:  - Make better decisions, guided by your highest self  - Unleash your...

Like a lonely grandma falling for a Nigerian scammer, women who have drank the Kool-Aid and the victim consciousness of “perimenopause” have been swindled.  “Low libido” is a scam.   “Dry vagina” is a scam.  “Hot flashes” are a scam.  “Sleepless nights” are a scam.  The only sleepless nights you ought to be having are ones where you get the shit and the victim mindset fucked out of you.  I can hel...

There wil be signs. At least 10 of them, according to Anami Lore.  In this episode:  10 signs they are "The One” Is there only ONE? Or do we meet several “ones”?  Is there such a thing as “soul mates”?  Are things more mutual when you meet your person?  Chemistry: the greenest of all the green flags. Greenest flag ever.  ***  ANAMI LAND: The Community Want to meet gods and legends?   Our private,...

Dating humans is so passé. Date gods instead. If you want an Anami-style injection into your love—and especially dating life—this episode is for you: 10 rules for dating Anami-style to become a dating god. Stake your claim. Choose. Plant that flag.   The best pickup line I’ve ever heard  Filler and fluffer dating vs. finding “the one”  When to text, call or get on a plane  Meeting people in the wi...

Apparently, there’s a new term for “not giving a shit” as a seduction strategy: Being “nonchalant.” “I don’t care if you like me. Maybe I like you, maybe I don’t. I’m here. Sorta. But…I could be anywhere else, with anyone else, doing anything else.” Wow. What a turn on. Be still, my beating heart. *Woman faints from all the emotions this stirs in her* In this episode: Normalize love bombing The Ne...

It's always their fault.  Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST!  Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it.  But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored,...

In a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!! Would you like to learn how to have better sex? F*ck yes! Do you want life-changing G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms? F*ck yes! Would you like to be able to become a multi-orgasmic man, fuck for three hours straight and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation? F*ck yes!...

In today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen.  They were in a *beyond* sexless marriage.  They were intimate 2 or 3 times— a year. In the span of a few hours they did a massive 180 and they’ve been full speed ahead ever since.   It’s never too late. If it’s possible for them, it’s possible for you too. In this episode we’ll talk abou...

As in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths.  We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s even more fun, is having them with our partner’s genitals. In today’s episode I speak with Well-F**ked All Stars and Coming Together Alumni Carla and Pracarsh about their relationships with each other’s cock and pussy: How they grow and shift and change, depe...

One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them.  Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex.  The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is:  D...

A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025.  https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1 It went mega-viral.  Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic.  Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kabl...

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it.  Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear.  Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.” Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être.  So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do.  I’ve got y...

Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them. In this episode:  The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems Navigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter  Which private island to have your sex weeks at  What to do when people keep throwing cash at you  Dumping your underf**ked friends:...

Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post:  That I don’t take HRT.  They came RUNNING.  A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND...

Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack. In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging their HRT and TRT, I’m not even remotely interested in their offerings. What’s always fascinated me, is the idea that I can source this healing power from withi...

My vagina does amaaaaaazing things.  Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like:  Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina  Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. With my vagina.  Of course, we want women to realize that the BASELINE is not peeing their pants and vaginas falling onto the floor—yes, vaginal “prolapse” effe...

For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one. She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body.  Making up for lost time.  She proves The Anami Guarantee that EVERYONE CAN. At any age and every stage.  In this episode: Waking up and de-numbing the vagina...

I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you.  In this episode:  The fastest way to achieve creative genius What it really means and looks like to “magnetize with feminine energy” Using your vagina and sexual flow to manifest in your life  “My vagina is my docto...

Look ma! No hormones!  These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life. Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s. She was, of course, bombarded with the allopathic narrative of “There is no cure for you. All you can do is learn to manage...

We need love too!  It’s really hard being in this category.  Seriously, it is.  A lot of hard work. Like, every day.  Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and having orgasms.  Being a visible minority like this is tough, but there are a lot of benefits.   I'l tell you all about it in the episode:  Being fit and well-f*...

Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms. “OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!”  “Look at my peptide stack!”  “I need all these machines and tests to tell me what’s happening in my own body”  “I give my blood away in an ancient ritual every month to a stranger to be DNA and data-farmed and I call it empowerment!”  Not even remotely interested.  I...