Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them.  Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex.  The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is:  D...

A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025.  https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1 It went mega-viral.  Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic.  Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kabl...

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it.  Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear.  Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.” Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être.  So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do.  I’ve got y...

Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them. In this episode:  The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems Navigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter  Which private island to have your sex weeks at  What to do when people keep throwing cash at you  Dumping your underf**ked friends:...

Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post:  That I don’t take HRT.  They came RUNNING.  A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell me HOW DANGEROUS IT WAS THAT I WASN’T TAKING HRT AND I WAS SO LUCKY THAT I DIDN’T HAVE SYMPTOMS AND...

Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack. In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging their HRT and TRT, I’m not even remotely interested in their offerings. What’s always fascinated me, is the idea that I can source this healing power from withi...

My vagina does amaaaaaazing things.  Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like:  Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina  Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. With my vagina.  Of course, we want women to realize that the BASELINE is not peeing their pants and vaginas falling onto the floor—yes, vaginal “prolapse” effe...

For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one. She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body.  Making up for lost time.  She proves The Anami Guarantee that EVERYONE CAN. At any age and every stage.  In this episode: Waking up and de-numbing the vagina...

I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you.  In this episode:  The fastest way to achieve creative genius What it really means and looks like to “magnetize with feminine energy” Using your vagina and sexual flow to manifest in your life  “My vagina is my docto...

Look ma! No hormones!  These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life. Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s. She was, of course, bombarded with the allopathic narrative of “There is no cure for you. All you can do is learn to manage...

We need love too!  It’s really hard being in this category.  Seriously, it is.  A lot of hard work. Like, every day.  Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and having orgasms.  Being a visible minority like this is tough, but there are a lot of benefits.   I'l tell you all about it in the episode:  Being fit and well-f*...

Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms. “OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!”  “Look at my peptide stack!”  “I need all these machines and tests to tell me what’s happening in my own body”  “I give my blood away in an ancient ritual every month to a stranger to be DNA and data-farmed and I call it empowerment!”  Not even remotely interested.  I...

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”.  I hear this word tossed around A LOT now.  Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for.  I don’t think it’s safety we’re after. It’s something...

Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"? Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag!  Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me.  Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth. “Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life....

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site.  My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable.  I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life:  “What’s crazy is that real lovers don’t even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenl...

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.” Is music to a woman’s ears.  And her vagina. IT NEVER GETS OLD.  Be a man with a plan.  Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold.  You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of marriage. Be the man so that she doesn’t have to be.  I’m speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Jim in...

I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild:  The alpha male.  There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”.  The only thing toxic about masculinity is the absence of it.  In this interview with Ben, our Well-F**ked All Star we also spoke to last week in part 1 of our conversation, he speak...

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure. ** The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man.  When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection:  Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its full potential.  Bursting at the seams.  When a man is shying away from his true nature and strength,...

These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman.  The good news? They are all learnable.  From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here. My Sexual Mastery for Men 8-week online salon is the ultimate guide to living, loving and f**king in a male body. We cover: Orgasms...

My vagina makes money.  In this episode:  How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empire The relationship that changed everything for me  The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash  Why being a well-f**ked woman is your biggest money maker What the universe wants from you in order to become mega-rich Everything you need to master your sexual healing, self-exp...

“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne “Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle “I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm without touching myself.” ~ Tia How do you like them tsunamis?  This is the normal state of vaginas for EVERY woman.  One of the Anami cardinal rules is: No Lube fo...

Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure.  I guarantee it. What does it take to switch her on and make her come alive?  In today’s episode we talk all things libido boosting.  I assert that once awakened, women are actually more sexual than men, with greater appetites and MUCH greater stamina.  Well-F**ked All Star T...

How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is typically dominated by men?  Annette, our Well-F**ked All Star articulates it so well.  She works as a CEO in high-level positions and she’s found how the more she’s connected to her feminine—and her sensual, wet and orgasmic, no-panties wearing sel...

For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences.  For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excruciating, fetus-position, vomit-inducing, can’t function, pain-killer guzzling pain.  This has become normalized for so many people. But it’s not normal.  What’s “normal” is a blissful, transcendent, portal-opening, inner wisdom downloading and sensual experience and so...