Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”.  I hear this word tossed around A LOT now.  Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy grail we all ought to apparently be looking for.  I don’t think it’s safety we’re after. It’s something...

Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"? Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag!  Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me.  Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in order to create any kind of growth. “Meh” isn’t chemistry and “meh” isn’t going to change your life....

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site.  My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable.  I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life:  “What’s crazy is that real lovers don’t even do talking stages. All it takes is one good date and suddenl...

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.” Is music to a woman’s ears.  And her vagina. IT NEVER GETS OLD.  Be a man with a plan.  Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold.  You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of marriage. Be the man so that she doesn’t have to be.  I’m speaking with Well-F**ked All Star Jim in...

I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild:  The alpha male.  There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”.  The only thing toxic about masculinity is the absence of it.  In this interview with Ben, our Well-F**ked All Star we also spoke to last week in part 1 of our conversation, he speak...

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure. ** The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man.  When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection:  Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its full potential.  Bursting at the seams.  When a man is shying away from his true nature and strength,...

These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman.  The good news? They are all learnable.  From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here. My Sexual Mastery for Men 8-week online salon is the ultimate guide to living, loving and f**king in a male body. We cover: Orgasms...

My vagina makes money.  In this episode:  How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empire The relationship that changed everything for me  The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash  Why being a well-f**ked woman is your biggest money maker What the universe wants from you in order to become mega-rich Everything you need to master your sexual healing, self-exp...

“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne “Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle “I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm without touching myself.” ~ Tia How do you like them tsunamis?  This is the normal state of vaginas for EVERY woman.  One of the Anami cardinal rules is: No Lube fo...

Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure.  I guarantee it. What does it take to switch her on and make her come alive?  In today’s episode we talk all things libido boosting.  I assert that once awakened, women are actually more sexual than men, with greater appetites and MUCH greater stamina.  Well-F**ked All Star T...

How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is typically dominated by men?  Annette, our Well-F**ked All Star articulates it so well.  She works as a CEO in high-level positions and she’s found how the more she’s connected to her feminine—and her sensual, wet and orgasmic, no-panties wearing sel...

For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences.  For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excruciating, fetus-position, vomit-inducing, can’t function, pain-killer guzzling pain.  This has become normalized for so many people. But it’s not normal.  What’s “normal” is a blissful, transcendent, portal-opening, inner wisdom downloading and sensual experience and so...

A new epoch is upon us. There are f**kable 50 year olds on TV and in movies.  From some big-name actresses to some online “influencers” there is a small cadre of women changing the narrative.  Including me. When the previous role models women have as 50-year-olds are Carrie Bradshaw wetting the bed, getting hip replacements and being frumpy as f**k, someone has to show them what else is possible. ...

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!”   “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!”  “I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!”  “I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!”  I LOVE THIS so much.  One of the things we LOVE hearing about in the journeys of our Well-F**ked All Stars is when they fall madly, passionately in love with each other.  And themselves. ...

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements.  Slow. Soft.  Maybe even more deeply in the softness.  So many people rush through penetration. The average sexual encounter is—actually the majority of them—are under 10 minutes.  ANYONE rushing through sex is afraid of going deep. Of really connecting and being seen.  In...

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded.  I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed frames and chair backs for ballast so I don’t go flying. I need a man to show me just how wild and powerful and relentless he can be. I especially need the hard stuff when something is stuck in me and I’m looking for a way to dislodge it. It could be a specific emotion th...

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple.  It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session.  In today’s all star interview with Chris and Sara:  Chris: “I can orgasm without ejaculation dozens of times in our sessions. We had one four-hour session where she had 37 orgasms . The G-spot, it’s my best friend. I can’t believe how it’s orgasm after org...

Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine. But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupied cock that knows who it is and what it’s here to do. Cock that obliterates a woman and slays all her demons. The kind of cock that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action. I speak to my clients—an...

Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher.  I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years.  Just because I dress well and don’t wear sarongs as an outfit in public, or hold my hands up in prayer all the time, doesn’t mean I don’t do Tantra.  I do a modern, sophisticated version of it. I remove the fluff and cut to the chase.  Don’t let the lack...

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy.  Knowing looks. Skirt raises. Come hither fingers. A gentle ass braise as you walk past. A five-minute make out session before dinner. A blow job in the car on the way to the dinner.  This is what it looks like when your well-f**ked energy now fuels your lives.  In this episode, I...

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!). How? By transmuting their sexual energy. They learn to consciously harvest this energy and direct it into their bodies and their lives. We’ve seen people revitalize their careers, magn...

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs?  Your whole world and woman change.  She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of your life.  Try having a productive day at work when you’ve just had a massive fight with your woman that morning.  Now try having a productive day at work whe...

So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well.  How do you get them onboard to create your most epic sex life and fulfilling relationship? One where each of you is having life-changing, psychedelic orgasms and using your relationship as the power source that fuels your lives and elevates everything in your world.  In this episode I’ll walk you through how to bring them...

Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may be a cuckold to your partner’s vibrator.  In this episode:  Relationship crutches The problem with vibrators  Are you a cuck?  If you’re having sex and you need to reach for your vibrator to “finish the job”, this is what you need to do  Why do all th...