Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

A new epoch is upon us. There are f**kable 50 year olds on TV and in movies.  From some big-name actresses to some online “influencers” there is a small cadre of women changing the narrative.  Including me. When the previous role models women have as 50-year-olds are Carrie Bradshaw wetting the bed, getting hip replacements and being frumpy as f**k, someone has to show them what else is possible. ...

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!”   “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!”  “I’m counting the minutes until I can get back into bed with…myself!”  “I get wet just thinking about fucking…myself!”  I LOVE THIS so much.  One of the things we LOVE hearing about in the journeys of our Well-F**ked All Stars is when they fall madly, passionately in love with each other.  And themselves. ...

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements.  Slow. Soft.  Maybe even more deeply in the softness.  So many people rush through penetration. The average sexual encounter is—actually the majority of them—are under 10 minutes.  ANYONE rushing through sex is afraid of going deep. Of really connecting and being seen.  In...

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded.  I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed frames and chair backs for ballast so I don’t go flying. I need a man to show me just how wild and powerful and relentless he can be. I especially need the hard stuff when something is stuck in me and I’m looking for a way to dislodge it. It could be a specific emotion th...

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple.  It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session.  In today’s all star interview with Chris and Sara:  Chris: “I can orgasm without ejaculation dozens of times in our sessions. We had one four-hour session where she had 37 orgasms . The G-spot, it’s my best friend. I can’t believe how it’s orgasm after org...

Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine. But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupied cock that knows who it is and what it’s here to do. Cock that obliterates a woman and slays all her demons. The kind of cock that replaces addictive behaviours, loses weight, turns anger into patience and depression into action. I speak to my clients—an...

Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher.  I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years.  Just because I dress well and don’t wear sarongs as an outfit in public, or hold my hands up in prayer all the time, doesn’t mean I don’t do Tantra.  I do a modern, sophisticated version of it. I remove the fluff and cut to the chase.  Don’t let the lack...

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy.  Knowing looks. Skirt raises. Come hither fingers. A gentle ass braise as you walk past. A five-minute make out session before dinner. A blow job in the car on the way to the dinner.  This is what it looks like when your well-f**ked energy now fuels your lives.  In this episode, I...

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause and depression to massive weight loss (orgasms over Ozempic, yo!). How? By transmuting their sexual energy. They learn to consciously harvest this energy and direct it into their bodies and their lives. We’ve seen people revitalize their careers, magn...

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs?  Your whole world and woman change.  She transforms from tight and tense and naggy to open, flowing and free and your biggest support and secret weapon in all of your life.  Try having a productive day at work when you’ve just had a massive fight with your woman that morning.  Now try having a productive day at work whe...

So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well.  How do you get them onboard to create your most epic sex life and fulfilling relationship? One where each of you is having life-changing, psychedelic orgasms and using your relationship as the power source that fuels your lives and elevates everything in your world.  In this episode I’ll walk you through how to bring them...

Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may be a cuckold to your partner’s vibrator.  In this episode:  Relationship crutches The problem with vibrators  Are you a cuck?  If you’re having sex and you need to reach for your vibrator to “finish the job”, this is what you need to do  Why do all th...

I often use the phrase #poweredbyvagina to describe how I have created my life and manifested my desired reality. From my vagina! By using my sexual energy as the PRO-creative power source it is.  Being underfucked isn’t just NOT having sex. It’s not having any clue how to tap into and HARNESS your sexual energy. When people are chronically underfucked, they’ll manifest all sorts of symptoms.  Dep...

From never having touched her own vagina and having it feel like "shards of glass" when she tried, to leaving pee pads in every room so she and her husband can f*ck and squirt all over the house.  Kids happily playing?  Let’s dash into the bedroom and squirt it all out.  In today’s episode, Vanessa shares her transformation from sex-fearing Christian and non-self toucher to squirting and yoni-sunn...

The cervix is where Lucia—and many other women, including me—have found God.  God doesn’t hang out in the clitoris. Nah. The clitoris is for girls, amateurs and sexually inexperienced and underf**ked so-called sex experts and doctors. It’s child’s play.  Women f*ck in the vagina, and orgasm via the cervix. This is the zone of self-mastery and god-realization.  People often ask me if they need to b...

Your pro-creative sexual energy and your orgasms are the key to shaping your world. In Anami Land, we’re all about CONSCIOUSLY using this energy to grow and heal and create our lives. We see people heal their reproductive issues—everything from PMS and difficult periods to ovarian cysts in women and erectile dysfunction and "beta male syndrome" in men to weight loss in both sexes—and they find the...

This is a question I get asked ALL THE TIME.  In the allopathic world, the dominant narrative is that women MUST be hormonally medicated from puberty until death.  Women are waking up to the idea that *maybe* this isn’t true.  I am going to make a definitive statement here:  Menopause is a scam.  It doesn’t even exist in other cultures. They don’t even have a word for it. In today’s episode:  The...

One of the most common recurring ailments for women in the reproductive realm is yeast infections, BV or bacterial vaginosis and UTIs—urinary tract infections.  Where do they come from? Is there a holistic solution to them?  In this episode:  The root cause of recurring infections  The natural remedies for eradicating them permanently  The Infection Fairy strikes again  Lube is NOT a girl’s best f...

What am I most famous for?  Lifting a surfboard at Venice Beach, a chandelier in Piazza san Marco in Venice and a piece of the Berlin Wall. At the Berlin Wall.  With my vagina.  A lot of you have heard of me because… my vagina precedes me. It travels around the world, surfing, sunning, orgasming. And lifting objects indigenous to various regions. All to showcase just what vaginas can do.  It’s my...

In my work as a sexologist and a holistic sex and relationship coach—indeed, as the pioneer of the genre—I’m always coming across serious myths and misinformation online about all things sexual.  Some of it is truly shocking!  Not only is this information totally wrong, but I’d venture to say that many of these concepts and their attendant so-called “remedies” are massive scams.  We have an epidem...

I’ve had some of the best sex of my life during my period. What makes this psychedelic portal so sexy and sacred to share with a partner?  In this episode:  7 reasons why period sex is THE BEST Are women more ravenous during their periods?  It’s psychedelic, baby!  Cervical portals and inter-dimensional travel Masculine warriors and blood  The male/female sexual quid pro quo  I can’t stand it when...

No Nut November: A worthy pursuit?  We discuss:  Semen retention  NoFap  Orgasm without ejaculation  The remedy for “blue balls”  To porn or not to porn  Running marathons—and even ultramarathons—after sex, giving a whole new twist on “Have LOTS of sex before the big game”  If you want to dive deeper into the whole Orgasm without Ejaculation topic, also check these episodes where I interview a Wel...

Who's yo daddy??  “Oh no! Some old men won’t let me use my uterus the way I want to!”  Every few years, this issue becomes a hot topic, and people get their panties in a bunch.  Why on earth did you give your reproductive power to a bunch of old men? And to be fair, some women too.  It always floors me to hear so-called feminists and “women’s rights activists” who claim to be all about women’s emp...

Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious.    Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of your life.  We’re all about orgasmic enlightenment in these parts.   Sex is alchemy. It’s transformation.  It’s taking your base parts and fusing them into gold.  You can use sex to help you to move through challenges and emotional and physical pain. In this ep...

One of the biggest sex and relationship myths out there is the notion that lifelong sex is an impossibility.  In today’s episode, I’m speaking to Well-Fucked All Star Jeff, of the Well-Fucked Couple Jeff and Jen.  They did a year of Anami, where they signed up for all of my courses and dedicated themselves to up-levelling their sex lives.  They’ve been together for 30 years. And the sex is hotter....