Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami

In this episode:  Examples of toxic femininity  What the balanced and divine feminine looks like  How to cultivate it in your daily life  Using sex as your greatest access point into your divine feminine nature  Kim's forays into conscious BDSM as a powerful and erotic tool to learn to truly surrender and embody my feminine  IN the Well-F**Ked Woman Salon, I help you to identify, excavate and tran...

In this episode:  - How to unlock the orgasmic bliss in your breasts - Owning and loving the breasts  - Breast massage to reconnect and increase sensation - Reclaiming the breasts after breastfeeding  - From "boob" to "breast": the journey of taking our breasts back from public commodities to our own sentient, alchemical pleasure portals 

This episode is a recording of an Instagram Live I did. I cover:  Natural birth control  The ludicrousness of having a 95-97.5% elective abortion rate, which tells us that most women have no idea how their reproductive systems work  The dark history of OB/GYNs and why I would never send a woman to one. Plus, what I suggest as alternative care.  The power of self-responsibility and self-governance...

Genital sunning is all the rage. For good reason: it's incredibly good for you. I love my genital sun time, and I do it (nearly) every day.  In today’s episode: Yoni sunning as a treatment for depression  Historical use of the sun as medicine in treating disease  Studies showing how genital sun exposure increase testosterone and sexual satisfaction levels 200-300% My scientifically-endorsed method...

Many people have misconceptions about what BDSM really is.  For anyone who doesn’t know, BDSM stands for:  Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sadism Masochism Even me, before I learned about what it was, and how deep it could be, thought: “oh, whips and chains!”. And, like with anything, there are superficial versions of it, and there are deeper, sacred and sophisticated versions of it. Just...

I'm always talking about the transformative power of sex. It's where the whole "well-f**ked woman" and “well-f**ked man” memes comes from. This is the idea that the changes and effects of really good lovemaking are written all over someone's face and body. And so are the bad ones. It becomes so obvious that other people can see and feel them. As a lover, it's your duty to f*ck your partner open. T...

In a loving, passionate, dedicated yoni massage, we are aiming to awaken, activate and bring deep, life-changing pleasure to the vagina and a woman’s overall sexual being. Over the decades of doing my work, as a holistic sex and relationship coach, the thing I hear over and over from women is how numb their vaginas are.  One of the biggest tools I recommend for de-numbing and re-pleasuring the vag...

The purpose of lingam massage is to awaken the true power of your man’s cock. We want him to own and inhabit it, amplifying his capacity for pleasure. And yours. Then he can penetrate you with it, bringing both of you to ecstasy and obliterating you to smithereens, with an awakened and self-actualized cock. Lingam massage can be totally transformational for your partner and your relationship.

Squirting has been written about for millennia. We find it referenced in text and teachings all over the world.    It is often described as: Food of the Gods. Nectar. Ambrosia. Amrita. The Fountain of Youth. Even though squirting tends to be a highly sought after check-the-box sex act inspired by porn, it’s a profound experience to have and share with an intimate partner.  An anointing!  To coax t...

Energy orgasms are orgasms that take place without and kind of touch whatsoever. You know the spiritual axiom that “thoughts are things.”  Well, here we see that in action. Orgasms are things too and we can have them whenever and wherever we want! 

How long can you make it last? How good can you take it? What’s it like to live in a perpetual state of bliss?  Slowing down and prolonging your foreplay not only primes you for marathon sex and the deeper orgasmic experiences, but afterward you feel even higher, ecstatic, transformed and like you’ve been reborn.  You are tapping into the rejuvenating, enlivening power of your sexual energy.  The...

Celibacy gets a bad rap because people don’t do it very well. I would never counsel someone to just “give up sex” without any intention behind it. Or, without learning how to channel their sexual energy. That would be “unconscious celibacy”. Doing it consciously is deciding to contain yourself for a while, to put an invisible “not available” sign on your forehead, and direct your energy inward.  T...

This is the ultimate creative power of the universe and it flows through  you. Instead of tuning into this ad riding this wave, most people are totally disconnected from and have disowned this power. All of my work is about helping you get it back. “Unexpressed creativity is not benign. It metastasizes” ~ Brene Brown  I say the same thing about your sexual energy: whatever you aren’t expressing an...

While the clitoris is good for a laugh or a warmup, if you really want to harness the power of your sexual energy, you need to go deeper. A few inches deeper. These deeper, vaginal orgasms are like the Loch Ness Monsters of sexuality. They are mysterious and subject to much skepticism and known only to some. The reason why they elude many people, and especially laboratory analysis (though they’ve...

Most vaginas are numb. They aren't pleasured or exercised well, and they atrophy into a place of disconnection and lackluster existence. You can change that, and instead cultivate a Super Pussy that is:  - Strong, articulate and powerful. - Orgasms wherever, however, whenever it wants, with the full range of orgasmic pleasure: clitoral, G-Spot, cervical orgasms  - Feels blissful during sex  - Has...

Organic sex toys. Is that even a thing? There definitely are #thingsIwouldputintomyvagina and things I would not.  The whole Anami philosophy is about cultivating the highest quality experiences and using the healthiest and most holistic products in our intimate lives.  I created the Anami Alchemia online shop so that we could feature exactly that:  Erotic accessories you could trust to be an exte...

They apply to all women, all vaginas, everywhere. They are true in every circumstance, 100% of the time. There are NO exceptions to these rules. None. Ever. It doesn’t matter if a woman has had everything from sexual trauma, to reproductive organs removed, to a strict religious and shaming upbringing to being in menopause, to having emerged out of a 20-year shitty marriage or whether she is straig...

One of the things I hear most often from women who had a transcendent, empowering, largely independent, birth experience, is that it wipes out the residue of former births they may have had, where they were more entrenched in the allopathic system. Women who had C-sections have gone on to have triumphant free-births at home, which we’ll hear about in today’s episode. All of the education I put out...

A natural, sovereign, empowered pregnancy and birth brings you: Confidence, boldness and the ability to stand up and speak your truth. Knowing that you can do anything in your life. If you can do this. An even stronger link with your intuition and divine guidance, that leads you through pregnancy, birth and into all parts of your life. You’ve earned this. And you get to keep it. A transcendent, pl...

Birth either becomes an initiation into your own power, autonomy and sovereignty, or it becomes a massive imprinting on your psyche and body of the outsourcing of it. Do modern midWhat has happened to the modern midwife? With Yolande Norris-Clark.

This is one of the topics I get asked about ALL the time: “How do we talk to our children about sex?” This question becomes even more crucial to parents, as they begin doing this work of orgasmic enlightenment. As they see and feel the changes in their own relationships and lives, they wonder:  “How can we present a different view of sexuality to our kids, than we got?” “How can we make it so that...

In our conversation, we chat about:  How women are underf**ked if they are only having clitoral orgasms. Giving your woman a non-stop flow of G-Spot orgasms  “Cervical after cervical after cervical” orgasms that crack her open and give her that “I just saw GOD!” face  The definition of a well-f**ked man  Super-charged erections at every age (Paul is older than his wife so he makes this a priority)...

Mark shares his perspective as the other half of this radiantly well-f**ked couple, and the impact that up-levelling their sex life has had on all parts of his life, from finance and business, to parenting and friendships and of course, as a man who can f**k his woman open to smithereens. He can have sex for hours, he can come—or not—when he wants to. He is giving his woman multiple, vaginal, life...

Stamina is: when a man has complete control of his ejaculation. He comes when he wants. Even in the most sexy, wild moments, with his woman’s butt up in the air, and her back arched and she’s making those crazy noises that just. send you… you keep it together.  For women to reach the deeper vaginal orgasms—G-Spot and cervical—it can take 30-45 minutes. Women were built for the long haul. They are...

NOTE: This episode is a video I highly suggest you WATCH on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szfTXMUIE8g ** In this week’s special investigation SMM news report, we bring you a visual depiction of the Beta Variant pandemic. And it’s cure: The Alpha Variant. The report features:  Dr. Kim Anami, of the CUFDC (Center for Underf**ked Disease Control), who makes a return appearance to weigh in...