Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 73: You Deserve Someone Who Wants You 09.12.2019 1:19:40

This episode tackles topics like not wanting to start over, thinking the door's open when it's not, and being in love with a friend. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 50+ episodes, and other exclusive content. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Princess Switch on Netflix Or...

Episode 72: I'm Unhappy, Bye! 02.12.2019 1:14:03

This episode tackles topics like being in the middle, sexual harassment, and trusting your gut. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Track your period and ovulation with Clue to understand how your body works. Original...

Episode 71: Divorce is Just Part of Life 25.11.2019 1:01:10

This episode tackles topics like the ghosts of gaslighting, fat phobia, and divorce shame. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wir...

Episode 70: Your Happiness Lies Ahead of You 18.11.2019 1:04:04

This episode tackles topics like breaking up with a city, ring before spring, and when self growth leads to more questions. Join us on Patreon and get an extra weekly episode, plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes, for just $5/month. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Tonya Ingram - How To Survive Today Original musi...

Episode 69: Life is Too Short to be in a Mess Like This 11.11.2019 1:09:20

This week's episode tackles topics like sex and intimacy, having your cake and eating it too, and kindness as a weapon. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Unbelievable on Netflix Original music, recording, and editin...

Episode 68: I Want To Be Like Wet Clay (Live from Austin) 04.11.2019 1:16:17

This episode tackles topics like gaslighting, playing therapist for your parents, and fighting for people. Recorded live at The Highball in Austin, TX. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: For the Love of Men: A New Vis...

Episode 67: Ghost Boy 28.10.2019 1:16:26

This episode tackles topics like when your friends date your former enemies, why sex is terrifying, and Instagram drama. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Romanovs: 1613-1918 Original music, recording, and editi...

Episode 66: Can You Really Stay Friends With An Ex? 21.10.2019 1:18:08

This episode tackles topics like do breaks work(?), can you really stay friends with an ex(??), and being the comma but girl. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Mindful Movement with Sara Raymond Original music, recor...

Episode 65: A New Nipple Hair 14.10.2019 1:08:14

This episode tackles topics like being the other woman, dating nice men, and knowing what to do. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Mindhunter (TV series) Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis...

Episode 64: It's Okay To Want More 07.10.2019 58:21

This episode tackles topics like failure to launch, erasing ourselves, and lust versus love. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Dead and The Living by Sharon Olds Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer...

Episode 63: Cani Getadate 30.09.2019 1:17:42

This episode tackles topics like rebuilding relationships, releasing ourselves from our past, and forgiving ourselves. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Lifetime Movie Club Original music, recording, and editing by S...

Episode 62: Do You Like Me or Like Like Me? 23.09.2019 1:00:26

This episode tackles topics like intellectual compatibility, when being understanding goes wrong, and white supremacy. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel Original music, recording, and editing...

Episode 61: Choke Me Daddy 16.09.2019 1:10:40

This episode tackles topics like dating and religion, confidence, and cheating. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Stardew Valley Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break U...

Episode 60: Drunk Texting “I Miss You” on a T9 Phone 09.09.2019 1:06:05

This episode tackles topics like being the sloppy ex, your friends' annoying boyfriends, and giving yourself permission to move on. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pole Dancing Original music, recording, and editin...

Episode 59: I Wasn’t Being Uncommunicative; I Was In Vietnam for 7 Weeks and Didn’t Have Service 02.09.2019 1:08:41

This episode tackles topics like letting go of guilt, breaking up with your parents, and betting on the future. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Ezra Klein Show - "I build a world with fantasy master N.K. Jemisi...

Episode 58: The FBI Has Seen All Angles Of My Naked Body 26.08.2019 1:13:52

This episode tackles topics like situationships that go on for way too long, the small heartbreaks that keep giving, and #foreveralone. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Schitt's Creek Original music, recording, and...

Episode 57: You May Never Know If They Cheated On You 19.08.2019 1:09:40

This episode tackles topics like on again/off again relationships, learning to rebuild, and talking about the future. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pachinko by Min Jin Lee Original music, recording, and editing by...

Episode 56: Come On Voldemort, Let's Go To The Beach 12.08.2019 1:07:23

This episode tackles topics like when being supportive isn’t enough, being accountable to your desires, and regaining our independence. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens Origina...

Episode 55: Destigmatize the Sex Rut 05.08.2019 1:12:55

This episode tackles topics like being in a sex rut, overbearing families, and when your self-worth gets tied up in how well you do things. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Pixel Eyewear Original music, recording, a...

Episode 54: Live Anniversary Show! 29.07.2019 1:35:56

This episode tackles topics like unrequited love, the injustice of dating, the rainbow on the other side of this shit pot called life. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Under The Skin Podcast with Russell Brand featur...

Episode 53: Making His Life Perfect & Mine a Living Hell! 22.07.2019 1:02:47

This episode tackles topics like when our big ol' feelings get in the way, comforting our partners, and managing our expectations. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Lizzo! Original music, recording, and editing by Sp...

Episode 52: He Is Not Worth Erasing Yourself Everyday For a Year 12.07.2019 55:36

This episode tackles topics like reconnecting with exes, fuck buddy drama, and the lies we tell ourselves. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: The Luminaries Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Dav...

Episode 51: You Know What To Do 08.07.2019 1:04:26

This episode tackles topics like age, moving on, and people pleasing. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Aaptiv Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more abou...

Episode 50: Romantic Convicts 30.06.2019 1:13:47

This episode tackles topics like when people come in hot and leave us in the cold, asking for too much, and being used. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Taking Classes! Original music, recording, and editing by Spe...

Episode 49: Emotional Connection is My Drug of Choice 24.06.2019 1:19:36

This episode tackles topics like being in love with two different people, starting over, and debt. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: You Need A Budget Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Adv...