Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 321: Exes, Condoms, and A Private Investigator 30.08.2023 27:24

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she is mistrusting or if her boyfriend is untrustworthy. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows...

Episode 320: Sitting On The Sidelines Together 28.08.2023 34:35

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she should keep talking to her avoidant ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more...

Episode 319: Not My Best Friend's Best Friend 25.08.2023 34:13

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wasn't a bridesmaid in her best friend's wedding. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about y...

Episode 318: Hook Up With My Ex, Just Don't Lie About It 23.08.2023 25:42

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend is hooking up with her ex and lying about it even though she gave them permission. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all...

Episode 317: Is Marriage A Trap? 21.08.2023 42:17

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she wants to get married. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choi...

Episode 316: Relationship Escalator to Hell 18.08.2023 29:05

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to move on a faster timeline than her partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more abou...

Episode 315: Your Queer Love is Holy and Real 16.08.2023 28:52

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose big queer wedding is being derailed by a religious family member. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows!...

Episode 314: He's a Leo And An Only Child 14.08.2023 40:45

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who needs more reassurance in her relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad...

Episode 313: Solo Poly Wanna Cracker? 11.08.2023 27:52

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure in her polyamorous relationship with a married man. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing show...

Episode 312: Becoming A Stepparent 09.08.2023 24:04

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is about to become a stepparent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. V...

Episode 311: This AI Doesn't Even Know What Grindr Is 07.08.2023 33:17

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks she is gay but is afraid to end her eleven year marriage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Lea...

Episode 310: Keeping Your Friend's Secrets 04.08.2023 29:31

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is good friends with a couple, but knows one of them is cheating. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Lea...

Episode 309: Breaking Up As A Game Of Chicken 02.08.2023 26:04

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mistake is being used against her. Content warning for domestic violence. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing...

Episode 308: Miss Mcfeels-A-Lot 31.07.2023 42:03

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with communication and connection in her relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows!...

Episode 307: Letting Go Of A Difficult Love 28.07.2023 28:25

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't seem to get over her difficult ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad c...

Episode 306: The Difference Between A Boundary and A Rule 26.07.2023 33:12

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband is out late and uncommunicative. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad...

Episode 305: Advice for Dating Our Exes 24.07.2023 27:19

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is worried about growing in separate directions because of a core incompatibility in their relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to...

Episode 304: All Of Our Brains Are Broken 21.07.2023 35:49

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuggling to accept her anxiouos attachment style. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more abo...

Episode 303: You Can't Stop Bad Things From Happening 19.07.2023 27:23

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to recognize a good, true love after her last relationship ended in infidelity. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check o...

Episode 302: What We've Learned Over The Past 5 Years 17.07.2023 36:41

Happy anniversary! Sam and Sierra celebrate five years of Just Break Up and talk about what they've learned, what they appreciate, and what they look forward to. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make...

Episode 301: Right Person + Wrong Time = Wrong Person 14.07.2023 30:21

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if "right person, wrong time" is actually a thing. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Lear...

Episode 300: Libido? More Like Libidon't 12.07.2023 32:22

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has zero sex drive. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphon...

Episode 299: Your Efforts Don't Guarantee An Outcome 10.07.2023 46:35

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is sick of working so hard at dating and being single. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more ab...

Episode 298: When Their Growth Is Too Little Too Late 07.07.2023 29:07

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants a divorce even though things are better now than they were. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Lea...

Episode 297: Tale of the Broke Bridesmaid 05.07.2023 33:26

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is afraid she can't afford to go to her friend's wedding. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more...