Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 346: My New Boyfriend Has Cancer 27.10.2023 26:25

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner of three months was diagnosed with cancer. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 345: Help! My Partner Is Moving In A Year! 25.10.2023 23:19

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to know if she should move to another state with her partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 344: Morticia & Gomez 4Ever 23.10.2023 38:58

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't quit a man on a different continent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 343: Labels Are Just Tape! 20.10.2023 32:39

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who identifies as asexual but is learning more about her desire for sex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 342: He Is Choosing Someone Who Lit Your Underwear On Fire 18.10.2023 34:24

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling jealous that she can't take care of her ill ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 341: The Vulnerability of Shooting Your Shot 16.10.2023 38:34

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on her coworker but is afraid to shoot her shot. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 340: The Cliché of Heartbreak 13.10.2023 28:45

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to get out of bed after a terrible breakup. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 339: The Emotional Gymnastics of a Yo-Yo Relationship 11.10.2023 39:42

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is royally confused by a guy who was hot and then cold and then blocked her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 338: Unrequited Crushing On A Friend 09.10.2023 37:51

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has an unrequited crush on a friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 337: You Don't Have To Talk About Your Abortion 06.10.2023 31:19

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know how to talk about her abortion. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 336: This Man Is Trash 04.10.2023 38:11

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend won't call her beautiful but loves to talk about his model ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 335: Am I Avoidant or Am I Just Unhappy? 02.10.2023 41:11

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if he is in the wrong relationship or is it just his avoidant attachment style. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 334: P In V Sex is Not The Only Sex 29.09.2023 26:07

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose body is preventing her and her boyfriend from having regular sex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 333: Your Growth May Not Help Their Healing 27.09.2023 28:36

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should reach out to her ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 332: Crushing On Greener Grass 25.09.2023 35:37

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has developed a serious crush while in a happy relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 331: Tired Of The "Should We Break Up?" Conversation 22.09.2023 27:32

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure because their partner keeps asking if they should break up. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 330: My Husband Didn't Tell His Mom We Got Married 20.09.2023 30:56

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband didn't tell his mother that they got married...two years ago. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 329: Believing In Others' Capacity To Grow 18.09.2023 29:42

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner is skeptical she could be a good therapist because of how she acted in the beginning of their relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphon...

Episode 328: How To Handle Having A Crush on Your Friend 15.09.2023 30:32

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on her friend who is in a relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about...

Episode 327: Is It Bad To Date Someone Who Is "Safe?" 13.09.2023 29:22

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was told by her friends and family that her long-distance boyfriend was too "safe" and that she is settling. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure...

Episode 326: This Is Confusing Because It Is Confusing 11.09.2023 35:03

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was broken up with unexpectedly by his girlfriend of five years and is trying to make sense of it all. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to ch...

Episode 325: I Can't Believe It's Not Rejection! 08.09.2023 34:10

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose lower sex drive is making her partner feel rejected. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more ab...

Episode 324: Haunted By A Ghost of Yom Kippur 06.09.2023 26:10

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants closure but isn't sure if they want to forgive their ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn...

Episode 323: His Silence is Speaking For Him 04.09.2023 34:22

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who asked for communication but instead got a month of silent treatment. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows!...

Episode 322: Caught In Communication Fatigue 01.09.2023 29:15

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired of always talking things out and is afraid she is oversharing. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Just Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing show...