Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Author

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 469: Riding The Waves Of His Mood Swings 21.08.2024 29:00

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose relationship is good when her partner is in a good mood, but has no relationship when he's in a bad one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 468: Accepting Their Scraps Of Love 19.08.2024 37:26

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling unworthy of love after her first two queer relationships. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 467: I Might Break Up With A Lifelong Friend 16.08.2024 31:29

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose best friend didn't show up when she lost both of her parents in the span of seven months. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 466: Rock Bottom Stone Top 14.08.2024 30:35

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is questioning their sexual validity because they don't ever enjoy receiving pleasure from their partners. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 465: I'm Jealous Of A Clown Doll Replica Of My Partner 12.08.2024 40:10

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is jealous of a clown doll replica of her partner that was gifted by her partner close friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 464: Is Getting Married Young A Bad Idea? 09.08.2024 24:50

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she would miss out if she got married to her current great love. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 463: His Bad Behavior Isn't Your Fault 07.08.2024 26:19

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if it's her fault she's being harassed by an ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 462: The 51% Approach 05.08.2024 31:43

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should move 9000 miles away to stay in her complicated relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 461: Broken Up But Not Moved Out 02.08.2024 28:29

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to prepare for the future grief of her current break up. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 460: Will They Do The Vulnerable Work With You? 31.07.2024 26:51

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is hoping to unlock more intimacy with his longtime partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 459: My Married Girlfriend Doesn't Know My Real Name 29.07.2024 39:46

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is married and in love with another married woman...who doesn't know her real name. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 458: Your One Wild And Precious Life 26.07.2024 28:10

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to be a good child to their ailing father. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 457: Why Aren't You Telling Her We're Engaged?! 24.07.2024 24:33

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering why her fiancé hasn't shared their engagement with their friend/ex/emotional affair partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoic...

Episode 456: Supporting Your Partner Through Grief 22.07.2024 31:54

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to support their partner during the loss of their grandparent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 455: He Broke Up With Me Because I Am A Sex Worker 19.07.2024 34:26

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was dumped when her boyfriend learned she was previously a sex worker. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 454: It's Okay To Break Up With An Old Friend 17.07.2024 26:31

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who chose to break up with an old friend and is still feeling sad and confused about it. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 453: Getting Over Someone I Never Actually Dated 15.07.2024 38:44

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to break up with someone who she never actually dated. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 452: Learning How To Reassure Yourself 12.07.2024 31:53

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with her need for reassurance after breaking up with her boyfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 451: My Boyfriend's Parents Hate Me 10.07.2024 26:51

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with her relationship with her boyfriend's parents. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 450: Waiting For My Ex-Fiancé To Come Back 08.07.2024 34:59

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was left by his fiancé who needed to explore her sexuality with a woman she eventually fell in love with. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoi...

Episode 449: I Ghosted My Friend For 3 Years 05.07.2024 39:41

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels bad for not talking to her best friend for three years after an argument about masking. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 448: My Partner Makes Less Money Than Me 03.07.2024 29:07

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is considering breaking up with her boyfriend because he makes less money than her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 447: HELP: I Have A Crush On A Couple! 01.07.2024 35:32

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on two people who happen to be dating! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 446: Healing After Miscarriage 28.06.2024 28:08

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who experienced a miscarriage and is feeling disconnected from her partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 445: There Are Lots of Reasons People Get Married 26.06.2024 30:57

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is considering marrying her boyfriend to help him gain citizenship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices