Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

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Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 494: Parenting Yourself When Your Mother Can't 18.10.2024 32:23

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mother admitted to loving her but not liking her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 493: Mr. Fix-It Fixes His Codependency 16.10.2024 23:49

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who recently reconnected with an ex after a hard year of healing. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 492: I Can't Stop Reading Cheating Stories On Reddit 14.10.2024 37:32

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is overwhelmed with cheating content on social media and is afraid it's going to happen to her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 491: Dating With A Chronic Illness 11.10.2024 28:19

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is dating with a chronic illness. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 490: Why Did He Think You Needed To Know That? 09.10.2024 38:32

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose former stepdad told her he didn't like her as a child? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 489: Am I B*tch Or Do I Just Know What I Want? 07.10.2024 35:09

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her dealbreakers are too harsh? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 488: Kids or No Kids, What's The Plan? 04.10.2024 28:00

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is anxiously living in the ambiguity of potential future children. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 487: Wanting The Wife And The Mistress Too 02.10.2024 30:54

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants have his affairs but keep his house too. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 486: If They Like Me, Then Why Can't I See It? 30.09.2024 32:38

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to ask out her coworker crush but doesn't believe he actually likes her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 485: Single, Again 27.09.2024 22:11

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired of break ups. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 484: Held Hostage By The Past 25.09.2024 30:23

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is hung up on a boy-child who held her heart hostage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 483: You Say Tomato, I Say TomaNO 23.09.2024 29:16

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to adjust after developing a late onset tomato allergy. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 482: Choosing No Love Over Broken Love 20.09.2024 31:47

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is hurting from her on-again off-again relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 481: My Friends Are Hanging Out Without Me! 18.09.2024 29:16

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling possessive over her friendships. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 480: My Friend Is Marrying Her Abuser 16.09.2024 29:31

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling conflicted because her friend got engaged to a man who has been abusive. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 479: Dating Across Economic Class 13.09.2024 30:36

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having conflict over money and privilege with their partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 478: You Deserve A Love That Thrives In The Light 11.09.2024 22:46

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has been secretly dating her ex for two years and hiding it from her friends and family. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 477: Being The Sober Friend 09.09.2024 31:56

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friends are struggling to support her new sobriety. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 476: I Love To See You In My Sweatshirt 06.09.2024 30:09

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a major crush on her straight friend and is feeling some shame about it. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 475: Healing From Harassment In the Workplace 04.09.2024 34:37

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was sexually harassed by her boss on a work trip. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 474: Bisexual FOMO 02.09.2024 32:54

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is grieving her bisexual possibilities in a heterosexual relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 473: You Will Be Able To Love Again 30.08.2024 27:39

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who if feeling exhausted and stupid for putting up with a terrible partner for so long. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 472: Should I End My Marriage After Two Months? 28.08.2024 27:41

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is regretting getting married to a truly good person. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 471: One Big Pill Or Fifty Spiky Ones 26.08.2024 42:05

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has feelings for her perfect roommate. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 470: Into The Unknown! (AKA Dating in Your 30s) 23.08.2024 26:06

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling paralyzed by regrets and unknowns when it comes to dating again. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices