Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Author

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 519: My Toxic Ex Still Owes Me Money 16.12.2024 34:37

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who took on a large amount of debt with her toxic ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 518: Can't Unhear The Mean Things You Said 13.12.2024 34:34

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to forget the cruel things their partner said. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 517: Who Has This Strap On Been In Before? 11.12.2024 27:30

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop getting upset when they think about their partner's past sex life. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 516: You Can't Grow a Relationship In Resentful Soil 09.12.2024 35:48

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is resenting her boyfriend of 5 years. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 515: Remembering The Reality, Not Just The Romance 06.12.2024 28:22

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop thinking about getting back together with his cheating ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 514: What To Do With A Professional Crush 04.12.2024 26:55

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on their professional colleague/friend (while being happily married). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 513: Learn This Lesson Now 02.12.2024 30:23

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend "loses his self control" when his ex-girlfriend comes back into his life. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 512: My Boyfriend Cheated And My President Is A Rapist 29.11.2024 34:55

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how she will ever trust men again after being betrayed by yet another one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 511: Queerness Is Not A Monolith 27.11.2024 33:04

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to reconcile the fact that her first queer relationship was also her first toxic one. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 510: Do You Like Emo...tions? 25.11.2024 34:28

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex-best friend is applying to work at her job. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 509: Sharing A Business With Your Cheating Ex 22.11.2024 29:41

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was cheated on by her long-term romantic and business partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 508: Don't Over-Romanticize Your Ex 20.11.2024 23:23

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with her partner and now is contemplating getting back together. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 507: You Can't Be Everything To Everyone 18.11.2024 33:50

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who asked for what she needed from her friend...and her friend said no. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 506: Holding The Good With The Bad 15.11.2024 25:42

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if it's possible to hold onto the good parts of a painful relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 505: The Unfair Burden of Birth Control 13.11.2024 30:13

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having extreme physical and emotional reactions to her birth control methods. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 504: I'm Lonely In My Relationship 11.11.2024 30:32

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling lonely in her own relationship, especially when her partner is sick. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 503: Are These Friends Safe For You? 08.11.2024 27:45

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose best friend is now living with the person who sexually assaulted him. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 502: My Friend Got Dumped..But It Was Her Fault 06.11.2024 32:21

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to support her friend whose anxious attachment style caused her break up. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 501: You Can Never Be A Perfect Parent 04.11.2024 41:41

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling with shame and mom guilt because she feels like she is failing her young child. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 500: My Mom's Third Marriage 01.11.2024 29:27

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mom is getting remarried after a track record of abusive relationships. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 499: My Boyfriend's Proposal Isn't Romantic Enough 30.10.2024 26:11

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants her boyfriend to propose in a more romantic way. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 498: Sexting With My Hot Parisian Tattoo Artist 28.10.2024 30:21

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who sexted with her Parisian tattoo artist but then found out he unfollowed her on Instagram. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 497: Avoiding Relationship Burnout 25.10.2024 30:28

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels burnt out in her relationship with her very social relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 496: You Don't Trust Him Because He's Proven Himself Untrustworthy 23.10.2024 35:37

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who anxious that her affair partner might sleep with her best friend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 495: His Ex Still Uses His Netflix 21.10.2024 34:05

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend's ex still uses his streaming services. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices