What Would Love Do?

Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment Emotional maturity is a topic I talk about a lot because I think it’s so important for couples to understand how it plays a large part in building solid communication. Not everyone is a master communicator but lucky for us, it’s a skill that can be improved and refined over time. When you have two emotionally mature individuals, they...

Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey Today I’m having an important conversation about self-love with fitness and confidence coach Gia Fey . As you know, I’m a big proponent of self-love and Gia shares about the different vibrational levels we emit into the world based upon our emotions. For example, when we feel sad, we’re very low in vibration levels but if we’re fe...

6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive Let’s be real…physical attraction is usually what brings people into our dating sphere. This is the very baseline level of our dating standards but as you know from my coaching, physicality is not enough to sustain a long term relationship. However, today we’re talking about some personality traits that can be att...

Men Will ABSOLUTELY Commit When These 3 Things Happen Before any guy will commit to a certain person, they need to be committed to the idea of commitment. Many enter the dating world with a “we’ll see how it goes” mentality, which is fine if you’re also thinking the same thing. But if you’re looking for a long term partner, someone who isn’t committed to commitm...

How A WOMAN Should Treat A Man | 5 POWERFUL Keys Can we agree that relationships crumble when partners don’t treat each other with respect? And it goes both ways…men and women alike need to tune into their partners and work on their communication skills together and learn how to face challenges head on without letting emotions take over. However, there are lots of questions and convers...

All High-Quality Men Need THESE 5 Things From A Woman Building a lasting relationship takes effort from both people, so these 5 things are also what high-quality women need as well. But first things first…knowing what you want in terms of a relationship is important so you can weed out the men who aren’t interested in that same path. Do you want a casual relationship? Do you want frien...

Seeking More Than a Situationship? Try This Approach Instead of Chasing Him A situationship is a very casual form of dating. I liken it to the very beginning of dating, when you’re getting to know each other and deciding if this is a person you want to spend more time with. That’s all well and good early on but what happens when the situationship doesn’t change? Or when you disco...

7 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK Desperate To Men (MAJOR Turn Offs) Ladies, let’s take some time for self-reflection. If you’re having trouble attracting the “right” type of guy into your life, it may be that some of your behavior is giving off the wrong vibe. I don’t say this to put blame or shame on you – and guys can do the same things and look equally despe...

How To Manifest & Attract A High-Quality Man Over 40 Once upon a time (not that long ago) it was firmly believed that once you surpassed a certain age that love and sex were not that important any more. Thankfully, society’s view on age has changed and those in their 60s, 70s, and 80s are not the frail elders that are often portrayed on television and in movies. In fact, The Golden Bache...

 99.9% of Men Respect Women Who Have THIS | Trigger Warning For this episode, I had an intimate conversation with my dear friend, Patty Tierney, author of For a Good Time Call Patty . She shares how being raised by an alcoholic, absent mother ingrained the idea that she was never enough, which lead to bad decision-making in her teen and adult years. These types of lessons are learned from the earl...

Absolute #1 Classy Move Men Secretly Love Do you seek validation from the men you date? Or are you genuinely happy with your self and your life and your special guy is just an added bonus? Some women base their happiness on whether or not the guy they’re with is happy. This is not a relationship; this is the epitome of neediness. It takes two people to build a foundation and a bond where bot...

If You Want To Know How a Man Feels About You, Try THIS! Have you heard this saying before? “Men give love through sex and women give sex in hope of finding love.’ To me, this is a very superficial way of approaching relationships. Yes, sexual chemistry is important BUT if this is the foundation of your relationship, is it really that strong? When people approach dating from as INTENTI...

Can Love Happen In Mid-Life? The Golden Bachelor Were you as intrigued with The Golden Bachelor as I was? For SO many years we’ve been inundated with these relationship shows for the younger crowd and I often felt like our whole midlife age group was ignored or forgotten about. This latest installment of The Bachelor brought midlife dating into the foreground. Relationships are NOT just for...

#1 Sign A Man Will Be Loyal To You Are you in a relationship or a situationship? While everyone’s definition of a relationship can differ, a situationship is very casual. There’s no promises of a future together and the conversations are generally superficial talk about the events of your day. There’s nothing wrong with having a situationship provided both parties are in agreemen...

Men Who Do THIS Attract The Best Women What’s your impression of men who come across very fickle about what they want in life and in a relationship? They definitely lack confidence and are usually non-committal. These are the men who hesitate to do any type of inner work to figure out what type of life they envision. There’s a reason why people are confused about what they want (and ye...

Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman Men are often slow to realize the benefits of doing personal development work, especially when it comes to healing trauma left from childhood and/or previous adult relationships. For generations little boys were taught to stifle their emotions and that they were sissies if they cried on the playground or ball field. Flight attendants on every flight te...

80% of Men Over 40 Use Dating Apps For THESE Reasons Men and women alike are desperate for connection but find it increasingly difficult to meet people because of our busy lives. That’s where technology and dating apps can save the day because they allow us to meet people we wouldn’t normally encounter in our daily lives. While dating apps make the initial meetings easier, it’s s...

5 Ways A Man Knows He’s With The One and He’ll Commit To Her Are you approaching dating from the soul or from a transactional viewpoint? Those who are soul-based really know what they want in a relationship. They have strong values and have set boundaries and standards about what type of man they’ll let into their lives. Those who are transactional care more about what they&#8217...

How To End A Relationship With LOVE w/Katherine Woodward Thomas More often than not we hear about the messy breakups and the blame game about who was at fault for what. Rarely do we hear about couples who leave a relationship with respect for each other which can lead to respect for future partners as well as happy co-parenting. If a couple has significant differences, why can’t they just go...

Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They’ll Commit In today’s casual hook up culture, it’s more difficult to determine which men are looking for casual situationships versus long term commitments. Men who want commitments ARE out there but knowing and understanding the process it takes to get to that point will ease any doubts you have. Most importantly, have fun while dating. M...

Can An Avoidant Man Speak My Love Language? We’re talking about love attachments styles today and it’s so important to learn about the different styles because one’s love attachment style can indicate whether you’re a good match and if he can fulfill your relationship needs. There are 3 main attachment styles (which stem from our relationship with our parents and/or caretak...

Want To Keep A Man’s Attention, DO THIS! Let me be clear…it is not a woman’s sole responsibility to vie for a man’s attention. It takes two to have a strong relationship, which means the man should also be putting forth effort to drive the relationship forward. One partner doing 95% of the work is NOT a formula for success. But sometimes women can also get complacent, espec...

What Could “Reality Dating Shows” Mean for Modern Culture? with Dr. Birnbaum If you check out any of the streaming services or major networks, you’ll find multiple reality shows about relationships. And they all need to be different to catch the viewer’s attention, so you’ll find multiple twists and plenty of drama. But are these shows healthy to watch? Do they put ce...

Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! Let’s be real…most guys in the dating world are thinking about one thing…SEX! And men from the Baby Boomer and Gen X generations were taught as children to hide their feelings. So, it’s no wonder that many midlife men are emotionally constipated when it comes to dating. They’re confused about why the women they d...

THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS! In other podcasts and videos I’ve talked about how women should not chase men, but there’s a big difference between chasing someone and putting effort into a relationship. Emotionally healthy men want women who aren’t afraid of deep conversations and who take the initiative to plan the next date. Women who put in effort truly want to know...