What Would Love Do?

If A Man REALLY Likes You He’ll Do THESE Things Why is meeting the right person in the dating world so frustrating? That’s an age-old question that women and men ask themselves frequently. Dating is nothing like simply making friends as a child, when all you wanted to know is if you could join whatever game the kids were playing at recess. It’s more complicated because of what we...

What Does Great Sex Mean to an Avoidant Man? Attachment theory delves into how we form emotional bonds with other people and I’m thrilled to have Bev Mitelman as my guest today so we can really dive into this topic. We’ll discuss the different aspects of an avoidant man and how your attachment style combined with his will affect your love life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation ab...

Open A Man Up Emotionally Using THIS Technique Have you ever thought about what your INTENTION is with dating? Why are you looking for a guy? Do you intend to have a loving, long-term marriage or are you looking for a casual situationship? Neither is wrong but in the dating world we spend so much time trying to entertain each other that we miss asking important questions. Intentionality is one of...

A Man’s Capacity to Love is a Mystery Because of THESE 9 Things Have you ever thought about what love is? We all have our own definition of love and what it means to fall in love, but it’s really a mystery because it’s intangible. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to demystify love and how to understand what might be causing relationship blocks. Let’s talk ab...

Men Make Mistakes, But Do They Apologize? As we all know, nobody is perfect and there is no perfect relationship. When you put two imperfect people together, it’s a balancing act to build a relationship while also finding ways to forgive mistakes. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the 4 R’s to an apology and how to take ownership of your mistakes. Let’s talk about&#823...

The Right Man Does THIS When He’s Ready For Commitment No matter what your age or how much inner work you’ve done over the years, being scared at the start of a new relationship is completely natural. Whether it’s fear of the unknown or simply that you don’t want to repeat past mistakes, having jitters makes you human. In this episode I’m sharing some of my own person...

One Big Sign You Should KEEP TRYING With Him In today’s world, we’re constantly faced with the need for immediate gratification. We want our mail order packages NOW, not in 10 days. We grab a candy bar if we have a sugar craving, and the list goes on. Even in the dating world, we reach midlife and we’re told we shouldn’t wait too long before making choices about who we want...

Remove This Love Block and Love Will Chase YOU! “What we think about we bring about.” I absolutely love this quote that my guest, Sabrina Rising, mentioned because so many people who reach out to me complain that there are no good men or they’re not attractive enough to get a guy. The list of complaints goes on and on. However, if you’re prone to believing these limiting be...

Spot THESE 3 Strong Signs He’s Serious About You Have you ever noticed that there are a lot more signs that a person is NOT ready for a relationship than signs that they ARE ready? Instead of focusing on that negativity, we’re looking at the positive side of human behavior in this episode so you can recognize when a guy is serious. Keep in mind that chemistry does not equate being seri...

Men (over 50) Who Chase Sex Don’t Do THIS You alone are in charge of your relationship destiny. How’s that for powerful? This is why it’s so important to be aligned with your partner’s values and life goals. When you allow only one person to steer the relationship, the other person gives up their power and eventually feels resentment when life isn’t going the way they...

Be THIS and A Man Will Want To Give You Everything If you follow me, I’m assuming that you want to find a loving partner who wants to be with you forever. That’s the end goal but there’s a lot of exploring and personal development between the starting point and this loving end goal. And as you have probably realized by now, it’s not as simple as the movies make it out to be...

7 Secret Fears Men Over 50 Have When They Really Like You What is your biggest fear when you enter into a relationship? While many people won’t want to have this deep of a conversation on the first date, it’s an important question to ask yourself. You will likely discover something new about yourself as possibly some reasons why you’re unconsciously blocking love. Let’s hav...

His Silence Means THIS and It’s Not What You Think There are 3 types of people in the dating world: Users who are selfish and like to “play the field” with no sense of wanting a commitment. Spenders who seek companionship but don’t have any real direction in life. Growers/Builders who are emotionally mature and desire a lifetime partner. Men in each of these categories hit...

Men Love Women Who Shockingly Do THIS When you go on a first date, who does the planning and paying? There’s no right or wrong answer but if YOU do the planning and paying, do you get a thank you at the end of the date? Men and women alike need to be seen or acknowledged for their efforts. Otherwise we feel invisible or taken for granted, which can lead to feelings of resentment. Let’s...

They’re Just A Swipe Away: Finding Love After 50 As chaotic as the dating world is these days, I don’t like the description of dating apps as “where the leftovers go”. Sure, meeting people in real life can be tricky but this is when we need to do a mindset reset. Instead of finding negative things about online dating apps, let’s focus instead on how amazing tech is fo...

THIS Might SABOTAGE Your Relationship With a Good Man Yes, there ARE good men in the world looking for a partner and committed relationship! Have all men done the inner work to overcome their insecurities and traumas? No. But let’s face it…we ALL have room for personal growth and improvement. The key is being open-minded and radically honest with yourself and with your chosen partner s...

Psychology Behind Making A Man (over 40) CHASE You The word “chasing” when used in the dating realm sounds like it’s referring to dating games, which you know I don’t care for. Playing these games makes it seem like you’re not serious about finding a man and developing a relationship. I prefer to use the word INVEST. What makes a man want to invest time with you? Time...

Guys Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Breaking up sucks, no doubt about it. And it can be equally devastating if you’ve been together 3 months or 3 years. Breaking that bond that develops, especially if the breakup comes as a surprise, brings on a host of feelings and can feel overwhelming. This is another reason why radically honest conversations are important because you’ll b...

When A Man Rejects You, THIS Might Be Why We all have inner scripts and lessons from our past that form our image of who is a suitable partner. I also love the idea that people enter our lives for a season to teach us lessons that we need to learn. Not everyone you meet will be your Mr. Right but that guy might just open up your mind to embrace a new perspective on life. Even if you go on multiple...

#1 Relationship Let Down Happening On First Dates with Men First dates are tough, let’s be honest. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and act a certain way, like this is our ONLY chance to find Mr. Right. First impressions are certainly important but it takes so much more than one in person date to know if you have chemistry or want to continue getting to know each other. It’...

Love at First Sight | Is It Real or A Fantasy? Love at first sight is romanticized in countless movies and romance novels but can it legitimately happen? Some people swear it does, like those who say they just KNEW on their first date that they’d get married. But excitement about a strong connection is different than loving someone deeply and committing to them and we’re going to unpac...

5 Feminine Ways To Turn A Man On Using THESE Skills I do believe that most men have a good heart and don’t purposely hurt the women they’re dating. But some men are broken, meaning they are emotionally wounded and are doing very little to heal themselves. Some men simply don’t believe they can be healed and are living as best they can, but others are more aware and try to help th...

Don’t Make THIS Mistake if He Seems to be Pulling Away Men have been conditioned since childhood that they should be the leaders of relationships and the woman should follow their lead. How many times have we heard that men are the hunters and gatherers while the women are the nurturers? Why is it always assumed that the man will be the breadwinner while the woman stays home to raise the kid...

Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman Why are women so eager to compete for a guy’s attention? We saw this in high school but it still carries over into adulthood. Let me be honest here…if you feel like you’re in a competition, drop out. This guy is not a prize in the game of life. Wouldn’t you rather have a guy who is naturally attracted to you versus someone who s...

If He Really Likes You, Make No Mistake, He’ll Do THESE Things Even though men and women alike may WANT a serious relationship, not all are capable of having that relationship. There are a variety of reasons, ranging from lessons learned from childhood, adult trauma (such as divorce) or simply not understanding what it takes to have a serious, committed relationship that isn’t shallow....