What Would Love Do?

What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant , and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship. For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how...

Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself? Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life. My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and why some men run away. Let’s hav...

How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share. It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid to speak their truth or fear tha...

Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention. Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means they were not right for you. Let’...

Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert. There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we realize? Let’s have a DEEPER conv...

7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true. Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple act...

High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity. But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks? That sounds like wishful thinking instead of having a...

What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days. In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal. But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commitment? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation...

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for. Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex? Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggage that is part of our persona. But all is NO...

Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family. The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the purpose of a midlife relationship is often very unclear. Do you want someone f...

Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right. But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and chemistry CAN grow over time. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why instant chemistry and...

Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure.  Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection. Those who are seeking a life partner instead o...

Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic. Let me remind you that no one can do this healing work for you. Ultimately you have to love yourself first, enough to find therap...

Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS Isn’t it so easy to focus on the negative things in life? I realize that many of my videos sound pessimistic about finding love or how to avoid the wrong person but I really am a hopeful romantic! In fact, I find great inspiration from real life friends who have found love and I want to spread some of that hope to you today. Let’s have a DEEPER...

Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up In my experience, it seems as though the most successful couples start off as friends first. So often we’re stuck asking, “Is there chemistry between us?” when we really should just focus on getting to know one another. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to break through that superficial level of attraction and...

5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You So often we’re meeting people from a place of loneliness and lack. We often want physical intimacy right away instead of determining if this person is right for us. When we don’t hold high standards for the guys we date, it’s no wonder the duds come crawling out of the woodwork. You deserve so much more! Let’s have a DEEPER convers...

Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust and Open His Heart To LOVE Monogamy and exclusivity are often considered the most important levels of commitment but my guest, Sabrina Rising , believes that leading with trust belongs at the top of that list. Sabrina starts our conversation talking about how trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship – including with ourselves – and when we fe...

THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life Dating hyper-focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection when we really need to just sit back and focus on getting to know the other person. Do they share my values? Do we share the same type of lifestyle? Are we entering into this relationship for the same purpose? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about asking the...

This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men The “friend zone” has a bad rep. Normally we think of that as the place where all hope is lost for having a romantic relationship. But what if you consider the friend zone as the place where you start off to build a long lasting and meaningful relationship? So much emphasis is placed on attraction, chemistry, and hooking up that we tend to...

Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think) Today we’re going to dive deep into the often complex and messy process of getting closure after a breakup, especially when you don’t get the clean ending you hoped for. Listen in as I share a recent, meaningful conversation with my ex and a powerful ritual to help you move forward and heal after a relationship ends....

THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him A common challenge in dating today is the need for accelerated learning. In midlife, the dating process seems sped up because we’ve heard so many times not to waste time with guys who aren’t aligned with our values, lifestyle, and dreams. While that IS true, we will always encounter what I call the “ick factor”&#82...

What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You So many people are in the dating marketplace because they want superficial needs met. You will find those who are looking for a committed relationship but with the easy hookup culture, it’s easier to focus on superficial instead of deep seeded desires. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about identifying for yourself the purpo...

3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You In today’s dating world there are a LOT of signs that a guy isn’t ready for a relationship. But I dislike focusing on the negative all the time, so let’s turn the tables and talk about the signs that shows he IS ready for a relationship. By the time we reach our midlife years, who has the time to waste on dating people who are incapab...

The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS So many people are in “situation-ships” because they value the freedom and independence. Without a firm commitment, they can continue living their lives while having a friend with benefits to suit their needs. Those who are co-dependent also jump from one relationship to the next because they don’t like being alone. Or maybe th...

When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things Many of us have difficulty expressing our feelings, so it makes sense that we’ll notice changes in a partner’s behavior before we hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.” Being present in your relationship and making time to connect on a daily basis will help you notice when/if there are signs of...