You Are Not Your Trauma

In this episode of You Are Not Your Trauma, I discuss the challenging but transformative process of letting go and exposing the emotions we’ve hidden in plain sight. Many of us have buried feelings—grief, anger, sadness—that we’ve tried to ignore, thinking they’ll go away on their own. But these emotions often find their way back into our lives, impacting our thoughts, actions, and relationships....

In this episode of You Are Not Your Trauma, I’m diving deep into how our personal experiences and traumas influence the way we see and respond to the world around us. Inspired by a recent movie night with my kids (yes, Transformers had me thinking deep thoughts!), I’m breaking down how two people can go through the same situation but walk away with completely different perspectives. Using the exam...

In this transformative episode of You Are Not Your Trauma, we explore the powerful concept of the superconscious mind with our guest Michelle McEwan, who has over two decades of experience in trauma therapy. Discover how accessing the deeper layers of consciousness can help neutralize trauma’s emotional scars, rewrite limiting beliefs, and empower individuals to live consciously and joyfully. Mich...

In this episode of You Are Not Your Trauma, we explore the importance of setting healthy boundaries, why they’re crucial for our well-being, and how to start setting them in our lives.  If you’ve ever struggled with saying “no” or felt drained by those around you, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about how to set those boundaries and protect your peace! Topics Discussed in this Episode: Wh...

Today we’re exploring the profound journey of rediscovering your true self. Life, trauma, and societal expectations can often disconnect us from who we really are, leaving us feeling lost and out of alignment. But it’s never too late to reconnect with your authentic self. In this episode, I share practical techniques, personal stories, and heartfelt advice on how to embark on this transformative p...

This season, we are kicking off on National Rainbow Baby Day—a day that holds deep personal significance host Harriet M. Harris, and so many others who’ve walked this path. In today’s episode, Harriet opened up like never before to share her personal journey through eight pregnancy losses and the miracles that followed. It’s been a long road filled with pain, hope, faith, and eventually, joy. She...

In this powerful episode of the You Are Not Your Trauma podcast, our guest, Shakira Reliford shares her unique perspective on living with OCD and how it intersects with trauma. This episode explores the intricate relationship between neurodiversity and trauma. Shakira Robinson brings over 12 years of experience as a behavior analyst and mental health professional. She is a trauma-informed speciali...

In this compelling episode of You Are Not Your Trauma,™ we dive into how trauma often leads us to isolate ourselves emotionally, impacting our relationships and self-esteem. Join me as I chat with Tiara Riley, a motivational speaker, life coach, and author, who brings transparency and powerful insights into overcoming personal challenges. Tiara Riley has touched many lives through her work focusin...

In this episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™ we discuss how enduring personal challenges can profoundly deepen our capacity for empathy. Our guest, Candice Hayes, shares her remarkable journey of balancing life as a mother, entrepreneur, and mental health advocate. We explore the transformative power of pain, how it enhances our ability to connect with others, and the importance of balancing empath...

In this enlightening episode, we discuss the often misunderstood ways trauma can manifest in the workplace and why these manifestations are frequently misinterpreted as professional shortcomings. Our discussion aims to shine a light on the subtle signs of trauma and explore actionable strategies to foster a more inclusive and understanding workplace environment. Dr. Carrie Young-McWilliams is back...

In this episode of “You Are Not Your Trauma,” we’re diving into the journey of self-rediscovery and rebuilding identity after trauma. Our special guest, Stephany Ann, shares her incredible story of overcoming narcissistic abuse and finding her true self. This episode is all about resilience, healing, and how reprogramming our minds can help us move past trauma and embrace who we really are. I’m th...

In this powerful episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™ we explore the complex and sensitive topics of intimacy and sexual empowerment after experiencing sexual trauma. This open, honest and much needed episode with Laura Jurgens, a somatic sex and relationship coach, dives into how survivors can reclaim control, confidence, and consent in their sexual lives. It offers insights into the distinctions...

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and today’s episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™ podcast spotlights transformative figures in mental health. This panel discussion features trailblazers who share personal and professional perspectives on improving mental wellness across diverse communities. Our guests today offer unique insights into their journeys, the challenges they’ve overcome, and the inn...

In this transformative episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™ podcast I am honored to share an inspiring conversation with Soodabeh Mokry, a Registered Nurse, certified hypnotherapist, and holistic wellness coach, whose life story exemplifies the power of resilience and self-transformation. Through her personal battles with depression and a near-fatal suicide attempt, Soodabeh discovered the pivotal...

In this exclusive episode of You Are Not Your Trauma, we explore the intersection of service design and mental health support for trauma survivors within Black and oppressed communities. Our guest, Jaryn Miller, shares his expertise in Inclusive Service Design, revealing how creativity and a deep understanding of cultural and community needs can transform mental health practices.  Jaryn Mille...

In this episode of You Are Not Your Trauma podcast, I’m thrilled to welcome Tess Vergara, a highly acclaimed Soul Powered Executive Coach. We are discussing the complex emotional landscapes that individuals often face after traumatic experiences. Tess shares her expert advice on managing and transforming intense feelings and mood swings into sources of strength and empowerment. Tess Vergara, previ...

This episode tackles the challenging mindset of “The ‘Bad Things Always Happen to Me”, exploring its roots in trauma and strategies for overcoming it. This discussion aims to illuminate the path out of the darkness of negative loops, offering hope, strategies, and practical advice for those seeking a way forward. We are joined this week by Laura Ordile, a Mindset Mentor, Master Hypnotist, Pro...

In this episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™, we explore the various forms of loss that extend beyond the death of a loved one, including the end of relationships, loss of identity, career changes, and the fading of dreams. Along with guest, Lisa Heacock, we discuss the importance of acknowledging silent grief, navigating the quiet period of introspection that follows significant loss, and share st...

In today’s episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™, we discuss how sometimes, our past hurts end up shaping our relationship with food in ways we don’t even realize. Joined by guest Melissa Rohlfs, our conversation sheds light on the emotional ties that lead to compulsive eating behaviors and offers a hope for those seeking to create a nourishing relationship with food.  Melissa is a ce...

In this enlightening episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™, we take a deep dive into the often-overlooked aspect of unrecognized trauma. The discussion centers around how trauma isn’t always apparent or acknowledged and how these hidden emotional wounds can significantly impact our lives. Through a thought-provoking conversation with our guest, Nichole Lee, this episode aims to shed light on the sub...

In the season opener of You Are Not Your Trauma, we embark on a profound journey into the world of trauma traits. This solo episode, hosted by Harriet M. Harris, founder of You Are Not Your Trauma Inc, dives deep into the characteristics often manifested by those who have experienced trauma. With a blend of personal insight and expert knowledge, Harriet guides listeners through understanding, reco...

In this season finale episode of You Are Not Your Trauma™, you are invited to embark on a journey of self-discovery and renewal as you begin the new year. The episode is a deep dive into the transformative process of healing and growth, emphasizing the importance of reshaping one’s mindset and embracing change. It explores practical strategies for persevering through life's challenges and highligh...

In this episode, we explore the complex and often overlooked journey of being childless not by choice. Our guest, Sarah Jane Smith, emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and community connections in healing, offering practical advice and insights for those facing similar challenges.  Sarah Jane is an embodiment teacher and coach who has dedicated her life to helping women navigate this...

In this compelling episode, we explore the profound effects of childhood bullying, as shared by our guest, John Britton. John's journey from a bullied child at boarding school to a self-aware adult confronting his past paints a vivid picture of the long-lasting impact of childhood bullying. This episode provides valuable insights into understanding, confronting, and healing from the scars of bully...

In this episode, I had the privilege to chat with Danielle Booher who shares her journey following the tragic loss of her brother, offering insights into the complex world of grief, trauma, and the healing power of forgiveness. This episode is a profound exploration of the challenges and transformative possibilities that come from facing our deepest pains and finding a path to peace and understand...