You Ain't Crazy Podcast, A Narcissist Has Two Faces!

A #Narcissist doesn't feel worthy of being loved. They will sabotage any good relationship. They will always look for conflict or create it, just to start an argument for a reason to devalue you. Don't fall for it. Value and think enough of yourself to walk away from any situation that no longer serves you in a positive way. People will only do you what you allow. Change starts with you. Level up...

The narcissist will mirror their supply. They want you to believe you've found the person of your dreams until their mask slips. Each person the narcissist gets involved with, during the love bombing phase of the abuse, they will have you thinking they like everything you like and want to do the same things as you. Raise your discernment and don't fall for it. It's just another manipulative game o...

Some people will assume the narcissist really doesn't have a personality disorder and make the mistake of letting their guard down and trust the #Narcissist. When that happens, that person is going to quickly realize that they're not dealing with a like minded person, but a very toxic person instead. A narcissist is someone who feels empty inside, with low self-esteem. They don't like who they are...

From my experience, the answer is NO! The narcissist is too busy trying to compete, manipulate, gaslight, and tear down his/her supply. They don't have time to focus on anything else. They will have the same interest as you. Remember, they're good at mirroring. So, whatever your interests are, they will have the same ones, until the devaluing starts and then the discard.

Narcissistic abuse is a very traumatic experience! You don't want to be who you were before the trauma. That's what got you involved with a narcissist in the first place. You want to be better!

The Narcissist will love bomb you to gain your trust. So that you will let your guards down. They want to isolate you from your family and friends because they know your family and friends are your biggest supporters who loves you unconditionally. The narcissist will find a way to turn those people against you to make you feel that you have nobody who love and cares about you. They will turn you a...

You literally can't believe anything the narcissist says. They're very deceitful and not trustworthy. As soon as you let your guard down, that's when they will betray you and discard you. Stay on your toes. Keep your power and protect your peace! You got this!

Narcissists go after people they feel they can manipulate and fool, usually empathetic and codependent individuals. If you're a person who is overly forgiving and always willing to forgive, regardless of how many times you've been forgiving the same issues, you're more than likely the one who's going to get the ring from the narcissist. The person who doesn't get the ring is actually the luck one!

It's that time of year, Valentine's Day! This is a time when Narcs manipulation game is going to work in overdrive, just to get you back into their toxic web! Don't fall for it! It's all a facade. The mask will slip again and again! They haven't changed. Change would mean that they are self-aware of their personality disorder and is in ongoing therapy. If that's not the case, beware! You will find...

The narcissist feels the same way about the new supply as they did with you in the beginning during the love bombing period. It's all a facade. The mask just hasn't slipped yet. Focus on your healing and not on the narcissist. The more you force yourself to not think about them by redirecting your thoughts, the better off you'll be. Practice makes perfect. Perfect your craft of not caring about wh...

People will show you who they are. It's up to you to believe them, the first time. If you have to ask the question, more than likely you know something is wrong. Do your research on NPD and look out for pattern, idealizing, love bombing, devalue, discard and possibly hoovered back in, to start the cycle of domestic abuse all over again. Power up with knowledge!

In my opinion, you don't have to wait for someone to get a NPD diagnosis to confirm if they're really a narcissist. Educate yourself by researching everything about the disorder and confirm if that's what you are actually experiencing and move accordingly.

Narcissists are known to be master manipulators and liars. They're never willing to accept accountability. When they're caught in a lie, they will more than likely shift the blame your way and call you a liar. Even if they have to make something up or bring up something that happened a long time ago that has nothing to do with the current situation. Don't buy into it. It's just to shut you up. The...

The Narcissist is afraid of losing a person who's a doormat. They hate having to find new supply because that means more work for them. Know your self-worth and never allow anyone to treat you less than you deserve.

This is a question from Quora Digest, Do narcissists ever hold on to good memories of their victims once they've discarded them? My answer is, "Why Do You Care?" If someone has shown you that they clearly don't like you and don't have your best interest, why care about their thoughts and their memories. Redirect your thoughts and energy back to yourself and to people who genuinely care about you!...

This episode gives support and encouragement to narcissistic victims to stop allowing the #narcissist to dim your light and minimize your pain. Especially when children are involved.

Dont belive the new lies from the narcissist or their unkept promises. They showed you all year long who they really are. This year, believe them! Here's some support and encouragement for you. Have a safe and Happy New Year!

Narcissists are quick to insult you, judge you and shame you for your insecurities. Knowing, they can't even handle an ounce of criticism. Count your losses and move on! You will never win in a relationship with a narcissist. They will always change your narrative around and blame you for everything wrong thing that happens in the relationship. Hold on to your sanity and dip!

Ruminating too much can delay your healing. Here are some tips to help you to stop having excessive thoughts about the narcissist.

Getting through the holidays can be tough for some people, especially those experiencing narcissistic abuse and for some survivors as well!. This episode will give you some helpful tips to encourage you to stay focused and remain strong and true to yourself during these vulnerable days. You got this!😊🙏🤎

This episode introduces, "You Ain't Crazy to You Tube." It's a compilation of encouragement and support for individuals who might be hurting and vulnerable during this time of year.

Narcissist are manipulators and predators. Their mission is to trigger and to destroy you. They want to pull you into their web! If you don't respond, they can't fight alone. They can only do, what you allow them to. Your strongest protection and armor is when you gain self awareness, self control and knowledge about their personality disorder. It's not about them. It is about you. Think with logi...

It's the holiday season for many. Don't be tempted to fall for the love bombing from the narcissist. This is a time when many survivors might fall for the narc's manipulation. Remember, a zebra's stripes never change. People will show you who they are. Believe them the first time. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a duck! Stay strong! You got this!

Triangulation is another form of abuse from the narcissist. Don't feed into it. Keep your power by educating yourself with what you're dealing with. That way, you'll avoid the drama! Which is what the narcissist wants from you. You got this! You Ain't Crazy!

Change starts with you. When people show you who they are, believe them and act accordingly. The more you accept toxic behavior, the more you're going to keep getting it..You got this! Take your power back or don't ever give it away in the first place. You can't heal in the same environment that's hurting you. No, is a complete sentence. When you don't like something, no one can fix it, but you...