What Would Love Do?

97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! In recent years I’ve noticed there seems to be a gender war going on: men think women are too entitled or promiscuous and women think men are buffoons who only want sex. Take one quick look at some other YouTube content and you’ll see what I mean. This type of ‘war’ doesn’t get us anywhere. These descriptions certainl...

What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! Sorry to burst your romantic bubble but Prince Charming isn’t going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Well, maybe someone will sweep you off your feet but unlike those fairy tales, you’re not going to commit to a relationship without some serious vetting. The dating process is really like a...

Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man While a healthy sexual attraction is important in a long term relationship, chemistry alone is not enough to build a foundation…at least not if you want long term companionship instead of a friend with benefits. Also remember that men and women approach sex differently. Men see it as a physical act while most women view sex as an emotional connection...

He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? In a world of complex relationships, it’s easy to feel lost when faced with silence from a partner, especially during the midlife years when you want to find a long term companion. Instead of living in fear that your relationship is over when he goes silent, use this opportunity to talk with your partner about why this is cha...

Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman Understanding attachment styles helps you to understand why your guy does the things he does. In this episode, we’re focused on the fearful avoidant, who is often afraid of abandonment and might have difficulty letting a woman get close to him. My guest today is Bev Mitelman, M.A., a Certified Attachment Practitioner who has spent he...

The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You Men and women alike bring childhood trauma into their adult lives and relationships. As humans, there’s no way to avoid it because every lesson we learn in our early childhood sticks with us like glue. Hence the reason personal development is so darn important, so we can all move past those traumas and live our best li...

STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead When you really think about it, the idea of dating is relatively new. In previous centuries, marriages were arranged and there wasn’t much getting-to-know-you-and-falling-in-love. It was more about committing to the best ‘deal’ for each family. In today’s world with smartphone technology, it’s all too easy to fall into casual &#8216...

BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You As the old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words,” and when you’re looking for a long term relationship, seeing your guy’s actions showing that he’s dedicated and loyal to you validates the words he says. Sometimes it’s nice to have that extra proof that you’re headed in the right direction. But &#...

Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore When you’re committed to the dating process and your intention is to find a partner, it’s important that you keep communication open but that you also stick to your boundaries and values. You should not change to suit someone else and the reverse is also true. So, what are your deal breakers? These are the issues that will cause you t...

He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? Isn’t it exciting to meet someone that you’re attracted to and that seems like a promising partner? And the excitement keeps growing as you get to know him…until he tells you something that throws up a red flag. That something could be that he’s unemployed, had a bad breakup, has children, or has a health issue....

How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) Obsession with anything isn’t good but when you’re pining away over your ex and your days and nights are filled with wishing you could get back together, you get stuck and can’t move forward. Inevitably, this way of thinking will affect every area of your life. Now, grieving that a relationship has ended is very...

Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Generally speaking, men over 40 can be pretty set in their ways and don’t often make the best decisions when it comes to dating and building a stable relationship. It’s often difficult to break old patterns of behavior – or to even recognize that these patterns exist and are detrimental to the dating process. While women have their own...

Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You Women are generally good listeners but some women don’t know how to ask good questions. So, when a guy shares his problems and daily complaints, some women will begin to think that he’s open and sharing his thoughts and feelings. But if you don’t know how to ask questions to drive the conversation toward a more positive talk about...

Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment Emotional maturity is a topic I talk about a lot because I think it’s so important for couples to understand how it plays a large part in building solid communication. Not everyone is a master communicator but lucky for us, it’s a skill that can be improved and refined over time. When you have two emotionally mature individuals, they...

Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey Today I’m having an important conversation about self-love with fitness and confidence coach Gia Fey . As you know, I’m a big proponent of self-love and Gia shares about the different vibrational levels we emit into the world based upon our emotions. For example, when we feel sad, we’re very low in vibration levels but if we’re fe...

6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive Let’s be real…physical attraction is usually what brings people into our dating sphere. This is the very baseline level of our dating standards but as you know from my coaching, physicality is not enough to sustain a long term relationship. However, today we’re talking about some personality traits that can be att...

Men Will ABSOLUTELY Commit When These 3 Things Happen Before any guy will commit to a certain person, they need to be committed to the idea of commitment. Many enter the dating world with a “we’ll see how it goes” mentality, which is fine if you’re also thinking the same thing. But if you’re looking for a long term partner, someone who isn’t committed to commitm...

How A WOMAN Should Treat A Man | 5 POWERFUL Keys Can we agree that relationships crumble when partners don’t treat each other with respect? And it goes both ways…men and women alike need to tune into their partners and work on their communication skills together and learn how to face challenges head on without letting emotions take over. However, there are lots of questions and convers...

All High-Quality Men Need THESE 5 Things From A Woman Building a lasting relationship takes effort from both people, so these 5 things are also what high-quality women need as well. But first things first…knowing what you want in terms of a relationship is important so you can weed out the men who aren’t interested in that same path. Do you want a casual relationship? Do you want frien...

Seeking More Than a Situationship? Try This Approach Instead of Chasing Him A situationship is a very casual form of dating. I liken it to the very beginning of dating, when you’re getting to know each other and deciding if this is a person you want to spend more time with. That’s all well and good early on but what happens when the situationship doesn’t change? Or when you disco...

7 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK Desperate To Men (MAJOR Turn Offs) Ladies, let’s take some time for self-reflection. If you’re having trouble attracting the “right” type of guy into your life, it may be that some of your behavior is giving off the wrong vibe. I don’t say this to put blame or shame on you – and guys can do the same things and look equally despe...

How To Manifest & Attract A High-Quality Man Over 40 Once upon a time (not that long ago) it was firmly believed that once you surpassed a certain age that love and sex were not that important any more. Thankfully, society’s view on age has changed and those in their 60s, 70s, and 80s are not the frail elders that are often portrayed on television and in movies. In fact, The Golden Bache...

 99.9% of Men Respect Women Who Have THIS | Trigger Warning For this episode, I had an intimate conversation with my dear friend, Patty Tierney, author of For a Good Time Call Patty . She shares how being raised by an alcoholic, absent mother ingrained the idea that she was never enough, which lead to bad decision-making in her teen and adult years. These types of lessons are learned from the earl...

Absolute #1 Classy Move Men Secretly Love Do you seek validation from the men you date? Or are you genuinely happy with your self and your life and your special guy is just an added bonus? Some women base their happiness on whether or not the guy they’re with is happy. This is not a relationship; this is the epitome of neediness. It takes two people to build a foundation and a bond where bot...

If You Want To Know How a Man Feels About You, Try THIS! Have you heard this saying before? “Men give love through sex and women give sex in hope of finding love.’ To me, this is a very superficial way of approaching relationships. Yes, sexual chemistry is important BUT if this is the foundation of your relationship, is it really that strong? When people approach dating from as INTENTI...