What Would Love Do?

Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom) A lot of dating advice seems one-sided with it sounding like women are the ones responsible for keeping the relationship afloat and are the only ones who should make an effort. Not true! However…women are more open to educating themselves about personal growth and relationships, which is why it seems most of the dating advice is a...

Keep a Man’s Interest Using These 5 Feminine Ways By no means is it a woman’s responsibility to keep a man attracted to her. If two people are in a relationship, both should be putting in effort to keep the romance alive. However, men do tend to fall into the traditional ‘hunter and gatherer’ role and often think that romance falls solely on the woman. Very often women can...

Why Walking Away From Men ALWAYS Works There’s a school of thought that if a guy doesn’t seem interested in you, women should ‘lean back’ and wait for the guy to chase you. This might work temporarily for men with an anxious attachment style (aka needy) or those with avoidant attachment styles, but are these the type of men you want to attract or form a longterm relationshi...

When A Man Does THIS, He’ll Be Loyal To You. Loyalty is best described by how someone shows up in your life. If they want to spend time with you after work, will hurry over when you’re in trouble, and doesn’t care what others think about your time together, that’s loyalty. Actions speak louder than words. If you’re currently in a long relationship, I invite you to exa...

Men Are Incredibly Attracted To Women Who Know THIS with Deborah Kagan I’m thrilled to have my friend Deborah Kagan as a guest today and we’re talking about how women can reclaim their mojo and become more connected to their feminine body. When women are happy and confident in their bodies, they will show up that way in the dating world. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how...

When A Man Says THIS, He’s Ready For Commitment Many people in the dating realm are either confused about what they want in a relationship OR they are seeking a very casual relationship. This might indicate that they are commitment-phobic but I believe it’s because there’s less willingness to go ‘all in’ with someone. Monogamy and exclusivity might seem scary, especia...

How Can I Change My Boyfriend From Something Casual To Serious In the dating world, we have lots of labels to describe different types of relationships and it’s important to know what each label means. You should also decide what you want out of your relationship so you’ll know if you’re on the right path with the right person or if you need a conversation. Also understand that j...

Do THESE 5 Things And He Will Prioritize You In the early stages of dating it’s tough to prioritize any particular person because you’re in the ‘getting to know you’ phase. You’re basically strangers and you both might be chatting with multiple people on the dating apps, so you might not have regular conversations or they might be very superficial. Prioritizing in thi...

What Men Seek That SETS YOU APART From Other Women How many first or second dates have you gone on where you can immediately see the hurt from past relationships on this new person’s face? It’s almost like watching a movie and seeing the ghosts of their past. You know I’m a huge proponent of being authentic and if someone has been hurt in the past, it’s pretty normal for th...

3 BEAUTIFUL Signs A Man WANTS To Be Committed Do you fall into the group of women who think there are no good men in the world? I can understand why you might think that way because all we seem to hear about is how men are players or they don’t know what they want in life. Let me add that men sometimes don’t understand the whole ‘personal development’ idea or why it’s...

Want To Keep His Attention? DO THIS with Men Over 40 Many of the single folks in this midlife age range have been through a divorce, sometimes after a decade or two. What many don’t understand is that divorce is an emotional trauma that needs time to heal and process. Whether it’s been 5 years or 25, you built a life together, possibly had kids, and now you have to make sense of a new...

Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One Determining whether or not a guy is a keeper depends significantly on his Emotional  Intelligence (EI). Emotional intelligence is a person’s ability to have deep and important conversations. When a couple has high EI, they are talking about their future dreams and getting to know the other person on a deeper level. Low EI is the opposite, where the...

Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman As you know, I’m a big proponent of radical honesty and authenticity. There’s no sense in playing games or hiding your true personality from a guy because you can’t build a solid foundation from dishonesty. And contrary to what other dating coaches might say, women are not “doing something wrong” when it comes to attracting...

Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully We’re diving deep into what intimacy means and why it’s the cause of so many breakups. Normally we think of physical intimacy as being sex and a non-existent sex life can certainly cause a break up. But there are different levels of intimacy that we’re discussing today. Being the provider – as so many men were taught in their youth &#...

How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share This episode is from my appearance on Eric Coplen’s The Music of Life channel and I wanted to share it because it’s important to remember that men can also be deeply affected by life events and failed relationships. I get vulnerable and honest here, discussing the aftermath of my divorce, getting laid off from my corpor...

High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney Your past does not determine your future. You’ve probably heard that before and you might even think, “Oh, that’s easy for him to say,”  but my friend and guest, Patty Tierney, is proof positive that you CAN change those lessons learned in childhood. Patty shares about how she became a people-pleaser as a...

7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce Going through a divorce is traumatic. Even if you have the most amicable divorce, there’s still a level of trauma that upends your life and plants the seeds of how you’ll go forward emotionally. Like it or not, a divorce changes your view on relationships and messes with your emotions. If you’ve never done any personal deve...

Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Words are powerful. Whether someone is praising you for a job well done or cursing you out in a fit of road rage, you know exactly what’s happening in each situation. But words can also be deeply nuanced, in the case of claiming to love someone. Do they love you like they want to spend the rest of their life with you? Or do they love you in the...

3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good When we have busy lives, we tend to take the good things for granted. But when you take someone for granted, you run the risk of them getting bored or feeling unappreciated. Ultimately you run the risk of them leaving. This is where committed conversations are so valuable. Instead of sticking to the surface details of “h...

5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest If you’re a regular follower, you know I’m a big proponent of women standing in their power and not giving it away to men. So, even though this title might imply that I’m shifting my views, keep listening. Also remember that it takes two to form a relationship and keep it going. So, just because we’re focused on feminine ways today doesn...

Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Have you heard of this saying: “Men marry women hoping they DON’T change and women marry men hoping they DO change.” I don’t really know how or when this saying originated but I wonder why men and women fall into this trap. Of course, people change over time. It’s inevitable as humans. But is it really our responsibility...

Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki While it’s a good thing that being in therapy is becoming more socially accepted, someone who is in therapy does not always equal the perfect relationship choice. Just like doing personal development work does not guarantee becoming a well-adjusted person. Therapy and personal development have become crutches to some extent, like a gree...

How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away I’ve lost count of the times women have told me they are afraid to speak their true feelings because of how their guy will react. Instead of jumping to the idea that this guy must be a horrible human or that she’s a little mouse, let’s look at this from the perspective of how self-love can help her gain the confidence to speak...

Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 I do believe that most men are decent guys but they are just bad daters. You and I know that personal development work is so important but many guys think that’s just for women or it sounds too woo-woo. And once you get that belief into your head, it takes a lot of convincing to believe otherwise. Some women who come out of stressful or violent relati...

What’s A Good Pace for Dating or Relationships? I’ll admit, this is a trick question because there’s no one-size-fits-all rule about how fast or slow a relationship should go. Some people know within weeks if this is the right person for them and others take months to build that trust and respect with someone. I invite you to do some introspection and think about what pace is com...