What Would Love Do?

3 STRONG Signs He’s Ready To Commit To YOU!!! ‪ Nothing takes the place of having honest conversations with your guy but not every conversation has to be about your deepest thoughts and dreams. He is likely to drop clues as he gets closer to the commitment stage and if he shows these strong signs, that’s your clue that it’s time for a sit down to discuss the future. I recommend h...

Is He Love Bombing Or Is He Serious? ‪ Believe it or not, love bombing is an abuse tactic some men use to lure women into a relationship. If you’re surprised by that definition, it’s important that you listen to this episode. Flattery can be a way to a woman’s heart BUT excessive flattery is something to watch out for, especially if it begins shortly after meeting. No one should...

His Silence Is A Decision | Do THIS When He Pulls Away ‪ Emotional trauma causes pain, which in turn causes men to go silent. This type of trauma can stem from any lifechanging event but in midlife, we most often associate this trauma with divorce. Even amicable divorces can cause a level of emotional trauma simply because your life is drastically changing and you’re being thrust into the si...

When He Says THIS, You’re About To Get Your Heart Broken ‪ Some guys just don’t know what the heck they want in life, especially when it comes to dating. Even if they say they want a long term, committed relationship, there are some tell tale signs that indicate they might not want YOU or they might be mistaken about wanting a relationship all together. Communication is so important to...

Want To Keep A Man’s Attention? Men Over 40 Need THIS! ‪ When it comes to midlife relationships, knowing what YOU want is vitally important. Not only will this weed out guys who don’t share the same vision but you’ll be able to verbalize to the right guy exactly what you want and see if you’re desires are compatible. It’s tricky combining two different lifestyles, esp...

Can An Avoidant Man Commit To An Anxious Woman? Guest Thais Gibson ‪ You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but there’s SO much information that it bears taking a deep dive into how people with these different styles behave. We’ll also talk more about how we develop these attachment styles from lessons we’ve learned in our childhood. I’m pleased to welcom...

Men (over 40) Show They CARE About You When They DO THIS! Our dating world is a mess because people looking for partners often focus on the wrong things. Some women are lonely and think that getting a guy into bed is a win and that they can develop a relationship based on their chemistry. But chemistry is superficial. Midlife also brings about lots of emotions – aka the ‘midlife crisis...

7 RED FLAGS You’re With An Emotionally Broken Man Emotional health is something that many women are either unaware of or ignore but it’s very important for building a relationship. In case you don’t know, emotional health is the ability to deal with positive and negative emotions in a healthy way. We’re all faced with challenges and how we react to these challenges is an in...

Avoid Making THIS Mistake If He Seems To Be Pulling Away! Communication is paramount in any relationship but especially when you’re dating someone new. You shouldn’t be afraid to bring up important topics to see if you’re compatible and if you sense him pulling away or going silent, talking about what’s happening is healthier than letting your mind make up stories about wha...

6 Factors That Determine His CAPACITY To Commit To You What is dating? Most people think it’s about having fun and being romanced but ultimately, it’s the vetting process to determine if someone is capable of being a committed partner to you. Dating is also a time to break free of the old thinking that chemistry equals a solid relationship. With the divorce rates still hovering around...

Green Flags Men (over 40) Exhibit If They’re A High-Quality Guy It’s so easy to talk about the negative red flags about guys in the dating world but that can build fear into a lot of women, sometimes to the point where they give up on dating altogether. So, in this episode I’m focusing on the green flags – or hints – that a guy is high quality and has the emotional ma...

Don’t Let THIS Ruin Your Love Life with a Man Every human on earth has some sort of trauma that we’re dealing with which can affect any aspect of our lives. And the word “trauma” doesn’t only describe violent or abusive incidents. Minor incidents that we remember from our past can ultimately affect our personalities and our future actions and I attribute that as traum...

#1 Sign A Man (over 40) Will Be Loyal and Commit to You Most people in midlife are done with the dating games and are looking for a committed relationship. Whether it leads to marriage or not, being committed to someone requires loyalty and emotional maturity. As you have probably discovered, many midlife men are low on the emotional maturity scale. But that doesn’t mean these men don’...

If He DOES THIS, Then He’s a Man Who Lies! #TheGoldenBachelor I don’t know many people who have tolerance for lying, especially those who are looking for a long-term relationship. How can you say you’ll have honest discussions about your life’s desires if you lie about anything? Even the smallest lies can blow up in your face and we’re diving in to examining how Gerry...

3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!! In today’s casual dating culture, it’s pretty easy to get companionship and sex without a commitment. Many midlife adults settle for that type of situationship because they think they’re past their prime for a long-term commitment. My friends, I beg you not to settle for less than what you want. You can have a strong,...

7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You Did you know that serious relationships are on the decline? With our casual dating environment, it’s much easier to “hook up” or find a Friends with Benefits situation than it is to dive deep with someone to find a life partner. What are your intentions about finding a relationship? Are you OK with something casual? Or do you w...

6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive – Part 2 Have you set yourself up for success or disappointment? Chemistry is NOT the end all/be all of a relationship. True friendship is the solid foundation upon which every relationship can flourish. However, through the years we have been taught that chemistry is what will predict the future of our relationship, which leads...

Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You When a man is fearful of commitment, there’s often an underlying reason (or many). Those reasons are usually rooted in some kind of pain or trauma and some men go to great lengths to cover up that pain. Vulnerability and honesty about feelings need to happen for commitment to occur. That might entail a good amount of personal development work, both singly...

Letting Go (Part 2): How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship Every person we meet in life teaches us lessons. We can also learn how to have a relationship by evaluating what worked and what didn’t in past relationships. In this episode, I share my revelations about my relationship with Marie and the lessons I learned from our breakup. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about...

Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love? We’re deep diving into this topic with the help of The Golden Bachelor. One of the final two women felt blindsided when Gerry said he was choosing the other woman. She said he gave mixed signals about his feelings but I can speak from experience when I tell you it’s easy to get caught up in chemistry. When all the feel-good hormones a...

He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? Why is it that so many women immediately think something is wrong if their guy gets distant or quiet? Doesn’t everyone take some time to think about their life and relationship? For my clients, who are primarily midlife women, it boils down to doubt. Doubting the relationship is solid. Doubting his commitment. And this might...

Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising I’m thrilled to have my own coach, Sabrina Rising, as a guest today and we’re talking all about the energy we project and how we attract people based on the energy we put out into the world. Many times we are not aware of how we’re presenting ourselves and then we wonder why we’re attracting duds who don’...

Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You Asking for a commitment to someone – especially a long-term commitment – is scary and requires a lot of soul-searching and inner work. During the midlife years, committing to someone can be extra stressful, especially if the partners have been married before and gone through a divorce. Even if it seems like your guy is av...

6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40 Emotionally broken men have a difficult time loving, plain and simple. This might be remnants of childhood trauma or even trauma after a divorce or becoming a widower. We ALL have some sort of baggage that we carry throughout our lives but the key is in how we handle that baggage. In these midlife years, you’ll have to decide if you have the des...

Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love? The divorce statistics in the US still hover near the 50% mark and in these midlife years, you’ll be hard pressed to find a man who is NOT divorced. And if you’re divorced guy has kids, there’s another level of honest questions you should ask him to discover his feelings about long term relationships. You can also observe your...