What Would Love Do?

His Silence Means THIS and It’s Not What You Think There are 3 types of people in the dating world: Users who are selfish and like to “play the field” with no sense of wanting a commitment. Spenders who seek companionship but don’t have any real direction in life. Growers/Builders who are emotionally mature and desire a lifetime partner. Men in each of these categories hit...

Men Love Women Who Shockingly Do THIS When you go on a first date, who does the planning and paying? There’s no right or wrong answer but if YOU do the planning and paying, do you get a thank you at the end of the date? Men and women alike need to be seen or acknowledged for their efforts. Otherwise we feel invisible or taken for granted, which can lead to feelings of resentment. Let’s...

They’re Just A Swipe Away: Finding Love After 50 As chaotic as the dating world is these days, I don’t like the description of dating apps as “where the leftovers go”. Sure, meeting people in real life can be tricky but this is when we need to do a mindset reset. Instead of finding negative things about online dating apps, let’s focus instead on how amazing tech is fo...

THIS Might SABOTAGE Your Relationship With a Good Man Yes, there ARE good men in the world looking for a partner and committed relationship! Have all men done the inner work to overcome their insecurities and traumas? No. But let’s face it…we ALL have room for personal growth and improvement. The key is being open-minded and radically honest with yourself and with your chosen partner s...

Psychology Behind Making A Man (over 40) CHASE You The word “chasing” when used in the dating realm sounds like it’s referring to dating games, which you know I don’t care for. Playing these games makes it seem like you’re not serious about finding a man and developing a relationship. I prefer to use the word INVEST. What makes a man want to invest time with you? Time...

Guys Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Breaking up sucks, no doubt about it. And it can be equally devastating if you’ve been together 3 months or 3 years. Breaking that bond that develops, especially if the breakup comes as a surprise, brings on a host of feelings and can feel overwhelming. This is another reason why radically honest conversations are important because you’ll b...

When A Man Rejects You, THIS Might Be Why We all have inner scripts and lessons from our past that form our image of who is a suitable partner. I also love the idea that people enter our lives for a season to teach us lessons that we need to learn. Not everyone you meet will be your Mr. Right but that guy might just open up your mind to embrace a new perspective on life. Even if you go on multiple...

#1 Relationship Let Down Happening On First Dates with Men First dates are tough, let’s be honest. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and act a certain way, like this is our ONLY chance to find Mr. Right. First impressions are certainly important but it takes so much more than one in person date to know if you have chemistry or want to continue getting to know each other. It’...

Love at First Sight | Is It Real or A Fantasy? Love at first sight is romanticized in countless movies and romance novels but can it legitimately happen? Some people swear it does, like those who say they just KNEW on their first date that they’d get married. But excitement about a strong connection is different than loving someone deeply and committing to them and we’re going to unpac...

5 Feminine Ways To Turn A Man On Using THESE Skills I do believe that most men have a good heart and don’t purposely hurt the women they’re dating. But some men are broken, meaning they are emotionally wounded and are doing very little to heal themselves. Some men simply don’t believe they can be healed and are living as best they can, but others are more aware and try to help th...

Don’t Make THIS Mistake if He Seems to be Pulling Away Men have been conditioned since childhood that they should be the leaders of relationships and the woman should follow their lead. How many times have we heard that men are the hunters and gatherers while the women are the nurturers? Why is it always assumed that the man will be the breadwinner while the woman stays home to raise the kid...

Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman Why are women so eager to compete for a guy’s attention? We saw this in high school but it still carries over into adulthood. Let me be honest here…if you feel like you’re in a competition, drop out. This guy is not a prize in the game of life. Wouldn’t you rather have a guy who is naturally attracted to you versus someone who s...

If He Really Likes You, Make No Mistake, He’ll Do THESE Things Even though men and women alike may WANT a serious relationship, not all are capable of having that relationship. There are a variety of reasons, ranging from lessons learned from childhood, adult trauma (such as divorce) or simply not understanding what it takes to have a serious, committed relationship that isn’t shallow....

If A Man Pulls Away | Avoid THIS Mistake Sometimes we confuse the word “chasing” with the idea of making effort. Chasing a guy implies that you’re texting and contacting him regularly even if he’s not showing an interest in you. Whereas making an effort is when you’re initiating communication and he’s reciprocating. There’s a give and take to making an eff...

If He Does THESE THINGS, He’ll Be Loyal To You  ‬ ‪ I’m willing to bet that people who are looking for a long term, loving relationship want their relationships to be successful. These are the people who are focused on deep conversations and willing to put in the personal development work so they can be the best versions of themselves. But sometimes while doing our own work, we forget...

Get Him To Open Up Emotionally? TRY THESE 7 THINGS  ‬ ‪ Is your guy from the generation where they learned boys don’t cry and to be a man means stuffing your emotions? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Unlearning these lessons can be time consuming but it’s not impossible for your guy to do the work and come around to having healthy, vulnerable conversations with you. Let&#821...

5 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit To You  ‬ ‪ If you’re looking for a guy to go the distance in a long term relationship, embrace every ounce of patience and listen to this episode! As always, every man is different and if he’s done any kind of self-improvement work, then he may move through these stages faster than someone who is brand new to this idea. But more impo...

Men Who Agree To THIS Are More Likely To Commit To You  ‬ ‪ How do you define a successful relationship? Now ask your guy the same question to see if you’re anywhere close to having the same definition. If you’ve never thought about this question, it’s time to sit and contemplate your answers and go a step further to question why you’ve never thought about this meaning befo...

Do THIS When He Pulls Away  ‬ ‪ Men pulling away from a relationship isn’t a new phenomenon. In fact, ‘men pulling away’ is a common Google search term simply because it happens so frequently. This is no surprise because men in general don’t understand what it means to have a deep, committed relationship. And by deep I mean having those vulnerable conversations about what t...

STRONG Sign He’s Serious About You and He’s Committed To You  ‬ ‪ There’s a difference between wanting a physical relationship and being committed. Chances are you’ve already experienced this in your past relationships. Men who want a superficial, physical relationship generally come on strong but will start to pull away when you start asking your radically honest questions...

Is He Avoiding Me or Is He Really Busy?  ‬ ‪ We’ve all been there. You feel like your guy is pulling away but he just says he’s busy. You can take him at his word or you can start to worry that maybe he’s looking for someone else. It’s a terrible mind game to play! It may seem like an avoidance tactic but it’s important to understand the types of guys in the dating po...

Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman ‬ ‪ By the time we reach the midlife era, most adults have had 3-5 significant relationships lasting longer than 3 months. Even if those relationships didn’t end in the best manner, each relationship is a lesson for how we can grow as a person. And whether you want to believe it or not, every human is capable of personal growth and depending upon...

Every Man Wants A Woman Who Does THIS!‬ ‪ Today we’re diving into what makes a relationship successful and while I can give you the advice, it’s up to you to implement it in your own relationship. Also remember that every relationship is unique – just like the individuals involved – so do your best not to compare yourself to others. Some advice will resonate more deeply wit...

A Man Will Give You Everything If You Have THIS!‬ ‪ Chemistry between two people can be strong and overwhelming…and EXCITING! If you’ve had more than 3 relationships that lasted longer than 60 days, chances are you have felt that kind of chemistry that makes you want to forget the world and devote every waking moment to this guy. However, chemistry alone is superficial and it can give...

THIS Needs To Happen For A Man To Fully Commit To You ‪@MattAndJoyKahn‬ ‪ I’m thrilled to welcome intuitive healers and best selling authors Matt and Joy Kahn to talk about Divine Partnerships. Aside from being physically attracted to someone, being connected on the level of mind, heart, and soul will bring you to another level of intimacy. We’re talking a deeper connection than talkin...