What Would Love Do?

He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With Him? When you’re exploring a new relationship, it’s natural to talk about the similarities you have. A big part of my teaching is about making sure you’re aligned in many parts of your lives so you can blend lifestyles easily. But when are the differences between you too much to overcome? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about...

How To Communicate Your Needs To A Man Without Him Feeling Attacked I’m thrilled to have my friend, Sabrina Rising, as my guest so we can dig into how to communicate with our partners effectively. Communication is so nuanced and can quickly turn into arguments when emotions get the better of us. Sabrina says communication is difficult because it’s not something we’re taught. Sure...

9 Reasons Why Men Push Good Women Away Wouldn’t it be wonderful if relationships developed like they do in the movies, following a predictable formula with a happily ever after ending? In reality, partnership-based relationships are complex and require trust, which can take time to develop. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how complex emotions can lead to mixed messages. Let&#821...

Men Will Do All of THESE Things If They Really Like You Today’s hookup culture has us trained to think that sex is the predominant way a man shows that he likes you. But I disagree and we’ll talk about other non-physical ways a man will show that “he’s really into you”. I also share a story about how one of my clients is dating someone and they haven’t been phys...

The Longer a Man Is Without A Relationship, The More He’s THIS Being single allows you to figure out what you want in terms of life goals and you also have the independence to schedule your daily life exactly as you want it. You can set up a daily routine or you can be spontaneous. YOU get to claim your sovereignty. However, after long periods of being single, welcoming a relationship can be...

A Man’s Silence Means THIS | Don’t Chase, Do THIS Think back to when you were younger, like in your 20s or 30s. Did you find dating easier back then? That’s usually the case because younger people generally don’t have the same type of complicated lives that midlife people have. And playing dating games and chasing their desired partner is a sort of entertainment. Let’...

Can My Casual Relationship Become Serious? Many men don’t know how to process their feelings when a treasured relationship ends. As a result, they might be reluctant to “go all in” and they prefer casual relationships because they’ve been hurt before. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the 3 levels of commitment and why conversations about what each partner wants...

5 Feminine Skills That Turn a Man on Instantly Socialization, religion, and cultural upbringing all play a part in how we each bond with others. We DO carry those beliefs with us into adulthood – and sometimes the trauma associated with those beliefs – which impacts our relationships. But when we’re intentional and honest about what we want in a relationship, we become more disce...

3 Non Sex Moves That Turn A Man On | Men Crave THIS Creating intimacy with your partner does not always involve sex. A healthy sex life is certainly important in long term relationships but not everything has to revolve around sex. Emotional connection is where you build trust with each other. This connection also leads to more in-depth conversations about feelings and big life dreams. Let’s...

How Long Should You Wait Until He’s Ready For Commitment? As we search for a partner in midlife, we risk wasting a lot of time if we’re not intentional about asking the right questions. Midlife is very different from our 20s, when it felt like we could take out time and play the field before settling down. Not to be dramatic, but in midlife we need to condense this ‘getting to kn...

Men Over 40 Fall In Love Through THESE 5 Stages Falling in love takes time, hence the need for dating where we get to know people and figure out if our lives, hopes, and dreams are aligned. But once that threshold is crossed, falling in love ultimately means that your feelings for your partner are just as important as your feelings for yourself. You’re not going anywhere, you’re not lo...

Men Seek Women With THESE Green Flags There ARE good men out in the dating world! And many men often feel the same way, wondering where the good women are. Dating is tricky because by the time we hit midlife, we have many years’ worth of trauma and difficult experiences that skew our outlook on love and relationships. We often carry with us limiting beliefs and other lessons we’ve lear...

How To Tell If He’s Ready To Commit | Look For THIS! Today I’m having a conversation with fellow relationship coach, Evan Marc Katz about what has changed in the dating world since he began his coaching business 22 years ago. We both agree that dating apps tend to devalue people who rely on swiping vs really communicating with others. We also discuss whether men are commitment-phobic a...

If A Man REALLY Likes You He’ll Do THESE Things Why is meeting the right person in the dating world so frustrating? That’s an age-old question that women and men ask themselves frequently. Dating is nothing like simply making friends as a child, when all you wanted to know is if you could join whatever game the kids were playing at recess. It’s more complicated because of what we...

What Does Great Sex Mean to an Avoidant Man? Attachment theory delves into how we form emotional bonds with other people and I’m thrilled to have Bev Mitelman as my guest today so we can really dive into this topic. We’ll discuss the different aspects of an avoidant man and how your attachment style combined with his will affect your love life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation ab...

Open A Man Up Emotionally Using THIS Technique Have you ever thought about what your INTENTION is with dating? Why are you looking for a guy? Do you intend to have a loving, long-term marriage or are you looking for a casual situationship? Neither is wrong but in the dating world we spend so much time trying to entertain each other that we miss asking important questions. Intentionality is one of...

A Man’s Capacity to Love is a Mystery Because of THESE 9 Things Have you ever thought about what love is? We all have our own definition of love and what it means to fall in love, but it’s really a mystery because it’s intangible. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to demystify love and how to understand what might be causing relationship blocks. Let’s talk ab...

Men Make Mistakes, But Do They Apologize? As we all know, nobody is perfect and there is no perfect relationship. When you put two imperfect people together, it’s a balancing act to build a relationship while also finding ways to forgive mistakes. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the 4 R’s to an apology and how to take ownership of your mistakes. Let’s talk about&#823...

The Right Man Does THIS When He’s Ready For Commitment No matter what your age or how much inner work you’ve done over the years, being scared at the start of a new relationship is completely natural. Whether it’s fear of the unknown or simply that you don’t want to repeat past mistakes, having jitters makes you human. In this episode I’m sharing some of my own person...

One Big Sign You Should KEEP TRYING With Him In today’s world, we’re constantly faced with the need for immediate gratification. We want our mail order packages NOW, not in 10 days. We grab a candy bar if we have a sugar craving, and the list goes on. Even in the dating world, we reach midlife and we’re told we shouldn’t wait too long before making choices about who we want...

Remove This Love Block and Love Will Chase YOU! “What we think about we bring about.” I absolutely love this quote that my guest, Sabrina Rising, mentioned because so many people who reach out to me complain that there are no good men or they’re not attractive enough to get a guy. The list of complaints goes on and on. However, if you’re prone to believing these limiting be...

Spot THESE 3 Strong Signs He’s Serious About You Have you ever noticed that there are a lot more signs that a person is NOT ready for a relationship than signs that they ARE ready? Instead of focusing on that negativity, we’re looking at the positive side of human behavior in this episode so you can recognize when a guy is serious. Keep in mind that chemistry does not equate being seri...

Men (over 50) Who Chase Sex Don’t Do THIS You alone are in charge of your relationship destiny. How’s that for powerful? This is why it’s so important to be aligned with your partner’s values and life goals. When you allow only one person to steer the relationship, the other person gives up their power and eventually feels resentment when life isn’t going the way they...

Be THIS and A Man Will Want To Give You Everything If you follow me, I’m assuming that you want to find a loving partner who wants to be with you forever. That’s the end goal but there’s a lot of exploring and personal development between the starting point and this loving end goal. And as you have probably realized by now, it’s not as simple as the movies make it out to be...

7 Secret Fears Men Over 50 Have When They Really Like You What is your biggest fear when you enter into a relationship? While many people won’t want to have this deep of a conversation on the first date, it’s an important question to ask yourself. You will likely discover something new about yourself as possibly some reasons why you’re unconsciously blocking love. Let’s hav...