What Would Love Do?

Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic. Let me remind you that no one can do this healing work for you. Ultimately you have to love yourself first, enough to find therap...

Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS Isn’t it so easy to focus on the negative things in life? I realize that many of my videos sound pessimistic about finding love or how to avoid the wrong person but I really am a hopeful romantic! In fact, I find great inspiration from real life friends who have found love and I want to spread some of that hope to you today. Let’s have a DEEPER...

Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up In my experience, it seems as though the most successful couples start off as friends first. So often we’re stuck asking, “Is there chemistry between us?” when we really should just focus on getting to know one another. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to break through that superficial level of attraction and...

5 Ways Men Need To Step Up When Dating You So often we’re meeting people from a place of loneliness and lack. We often want physical intimacy right away instead of determining if this person is right for us. When we don’t hold high standards for the guys we date, it’s no wonder the duds come crawling out of the woodwork. You deserve so much more! Let’s have a DEEPER convers...

Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust and Open His Heart To LOVE Monogamy and exclusivity are often considered the most important levels of commitment but my guest, Sabrina Rising , believes that leading with trust belongs at the top of that list. Sabrina starts our conversation talking about how trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship – including with ourselves – and when we fe...

THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life Dating hyper-focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection when we really need to just sit back and focus on getting to know the other person. Do they share my values? Do we share the same type of lifestyle? Are we entering into this relationship for the same purpose? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about asking the...

This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men The “friend zone” has a bad rep. Normally we think of that as the place where all hope is lost for having a romantic relationship. But what if you consider the friend zone as the place where you start off to build a long lasting and meaningful relationship? So much emphasis is placed on attraction, chemistry, and hooking up that we tend to...

Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think) Today we’re going to dive deep into the often complex and messy process of getting closure after a breakup, especially when you don’t get the clean ending you hoped for. Listen in as I share a recent, meaningful conversation with my ex and a powerful ritual to help you move forward and heal after a relationship ends....

THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him A common challenge in dating today is the need for accelerated learning. In midlife, the dating process seems sped up because we’ve heard so many times not to waste time with guys who aren’t aligned with our values, lifestyle, and dreams. While that IS true, we will always encounter what I call the “ick factor”&#82...

What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You So many people are in the dating marketplace because they want superficial needs met. You will find those who are looking for a committed relationship but with the easy hookup culture, it’s easier to focus on superficial instead of deep seeded desires. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about identifying for yourself the purpo...

3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You In today’s dating world there are a LOT of signs that a guy isn’t ready for a relationship. But I dislike focusing on the negative all the time, so let’s turn the tables and talk about the signs that shows he IS ready for a relationship. By the time we reach our midlife years, who has the time to waste on dating people who are incapab...

The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS So many people are in “situation-ships” because they value the freedom and independence. Without a firm commitment, they can continue living their lives while having a friend with benefits to suit their needs. Those who are co-dependent also jump from one relationship to the next because they don’t like being alone. Or maybe th...

When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things Many of us have difficulty expressing our feelings, so it makes sense that we’ll notice changes in a partner’s behavior before we hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.” Being present in your relationship and making time to connect on a daily basis will help you notice when/if there are signs of...

Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS Should midlife men be expected to pay for everything? It’s one thing to talk about courting a woman and paying for the dates but once that period is over and you decide to commit to one another, is this still expected of men? We’re talking finances in this episode and the expectations that midlife men and women have about money. Once upon a time...

THIS Is Why Men Make Weak Leaders In A Relationship Men (and women) of a certain age are very set in their ways. Seldom do they want to veer from what’s comfortable and they fall into the trap of “my way is the only way.” Staying in that comfort zone, however, prohibits growth and will limit their chances of having a meaningful relationship. I don’t know too many women who...

He Just Went Silent, How Should I React? Men go silent for numerous reasons – fear, uncertainty, doubt – and when they go silent, they’re either avoiding or processing their feelings. You have every right to react when you receive the silent treatment but it’s the HOW you react that can make or break a relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being true to...

What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth We’re going to have a spicier conversation today about sex and the emotional connection we have with our body. A lot of men who approach sex from an ego perspective think they want hot and kinky sex but the reality is, many men simply don’t know what they want – or how to communicate that. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about appr...

Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You Commitment looks different when you’re in your midlife years and it’s very different from your 2os and 30s when most people are looking for a spouse and to raise a family. By the time you reach your 40s, 50s and beyond, you have a fully curated life and you’re looking for someone with equal values whose life can na...

Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True) We’re talking about love attachment styles today to unpack why it’s tough to have a relationship with a dismissive avoidant and how an anxious person is different from a dismissive avoidant person. If you’re new to love attachment styles, listen in to the book recommendations I make. It’s truly...

Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG So often we focus on the RED FLAGS to avoid when dating but I feel like then we’re always focusing on the negative. And when you always look for negative energy or behaviors, all of a sudden that’s ALL that you can see, which isn’t healthy for a new relationship. Instead, today we’re focusing on green flags – the behaviors that...

Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them Dating seems like an endless merry-go-round where we connect with someone for a short time and then it ends. Then we’re back on the apps before we really dissect what happened and how can we learn from this experience. Ending a relationship is difficult and emotional. It may even feel like you’re grieving its loss, which i...

Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET) Falling in love is so much deeper than having great chemistry and hormone rushes. When you let lust or limerence set the tone of a relationship, very often you’ll forget to have the deeper conversations to determine if you’re truly aligned with this person. Lets use my favorite show as an example. Nobody Wants This focuses on a new coup...

Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Are Like, “Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship” You’ve heard me say the dating world is a mess and even though there’s not a single cause, let’s focus on why we’re so quick to blame the other person for a date or relationship not working out. Blaming others seems to be the norm these days. You see it from l...

A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS Take a moment and think about your closest friend in the world. The friend that you can tell anything and know they will have your back. You can share your deepest desires and know they won’t judge you. These are signs of genuine friendship. Now think of the guys you’ve been dating. Have you reached any level of friendship before getting ph...

Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them Guest @LaurelHouse Laurel House is the premier relationship coach at eHarmony and we’re diving into why it’s so important to be upfront with a new guy from the first date. In these midlife years, who wants to waste time getting to know someone only to find out 7+ dates in that they have one (or more) red flags that are non-negotiab...