What Would Love Do?

How to Tell If It’s Real Love or Just a Chemical Crush Have you experienced ‘love bombing’? Mostly women have this experience of receiving exaggerated feelings of love, often spurred by lust or limerence. Love bombing might feel good at first but it’s not an indication of true feelings. Lust is all about wanting to fulfill a sexual need and limerence is an exaggerated infatuation...

Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless? One of the most powerful things about being a human is that we have choices to make in every aspect of our lives. If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, I invite you to make a choice about how much negativity you watch or listen to online. Everyone has an opinion on every topic imaginable and if you CHOOSE to fill your mind with all the negative aspects of d...

Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice In this episode I’m helping a listener, Jay, who wants to have a loving, long term relationship but feels his time is running out to find that special woman. We talk about the ways he ‘puts himself out there,’ how he socializes, and what his experiences with online dating were like. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to...

Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally? Why can’t we keep the honeymoon phase of a new relationship going longer? Why do we seem to fall into a trap of having this phase and these feelings for only a short time before “real life” sets in? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what defines emotional and spiritual relationships and why very few people are good at examining t...

Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name. With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about what they want in a relationship. Casual sex is great if that&#821...

Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life? Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck. However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about what you truly want in your life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how intu...

If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives? There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it comes to relationships and YOU get to decide which one you want in your life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversa...

Dating Is Hard, But Love Is Easy The whole dating process has changed considerably over the years and you’d think with the advent of dating apps, that dating would be easier, right? Dating is hard, I’m not going to sugar coat it. But so is losing weight or quitting smoking and I think we can agree that those are worthwhile goals. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being consi...

Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret… There are good men to date all around you. There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of extinction. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how dating is so much more th...

Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond. Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals a strong relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how healt...

9 Keys to an Intentional Approach to Love How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship. Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship that you desire. It’s not about going through the motions of dating; it&#...

5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’. When you throw in socialization, cultural and religious differences, it’s no...

If He Does THESE Things He’s Serious About Commitment Dating is about possibility and exploring a relationship is about potential. So many people focus on the level of attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical attraction while dating instead of thinking about the possibility of having a relationship with this person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to change your focu...

What a Man Does When He’s Truly Into You Today I’m joined by my dear friend, Bob Grant , and we’re chatting about men’s behavior and how they act in different stages of a relationship. For example, some men come across as very intense at the beginning of a relationship, which can lead to love bombing but will eventually fizzle out. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how...

Women Criticize Men For THIS | Here’s Why How can you create a long lasting relationship when you don’t necessarily trust yourself? Your chances are much better if you do the work to heal old wounds, practice self-love, and learn how to be present in your own life. My friend Barry Selby is here to explore this concept of emotional intelligence and why some men run away. Let’s hav...

How To Communicate With A Man | 7 Must-Have Tips Communication is a key factor in having a successful and meaningful relationship yet in some ways it seems like the older we get, the less we want to share. It’s almost like we’ve barely evolved past the grunting stages of the cavemen era! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why people are afraid to speak their truth or fear tha...

Men Who Care About You Always Do THIS Both men and women in midlife are often caught in the ‘sandwich’ generation, where they get their kids out of the house and then a parent gets sick and needs attention. Or they might have a health scare themselves. Sometimes the pressure is enough to make a partner leave the relationship but that simply means they were not right for you. Let’...

Real Reason Why Men Do THIS More Than Women Today we’re revisiting the Kiss-cam seen around the world, where a cheating couple was caught on camera at a Coldplay concert. There was plenty of blame going around when the news broke but we’re going to dive into who cheats more and why. Are men always the ones who cheat or do more women cheat than we realize? Let’s have a DEEPER conv...

7 Things Men Do During Lovemaking When He’s Genuinely In Love Let’s be real…guys have their “locker room talk” about their sexual escapades. Maybe you’ve only seen it depicted in movies or on TV but it’s true. Sex for most single guys is just something fun that anyone can do. But when an emotional connection happens, that’s what pushes the simple act...

High Value Men Are Drawn To Women With THIS Self Worth Many men are “flying blind” in the dating world. Not because they’re stupid or clueless but because they were never taught about emotional clarity. But do we really need to settle for guys who keep swiping aimlessly and strike up conversations hoping that something sticks? That sounds like wishful thinking instead of having a...

What Makes A Man Suddenly Commit To a Woman Humans seem to value pleasure over substance and loyalty these days. In the early stages of dating, many are not concerned with building trust. They want the instant gratification of good sex through chemistry, thinking that’s the ultimate goal. But what happens when you decide you want a long-term commitment? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation...

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over? Maybe or Maybe Not Human pair bonding is complicated, plain and simple. It gets more complicated when you question what men are looking for. Are they chasing a relationship or are they chasing sex? Midlife dating is different than dating in your 20s and 30s. We have divorce, health issues, and a slew of other baggage that is part of our persona. But all is NO...

Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family. The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the purpose of a midlife relationship is often very unclear. Do you want someone f...

Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right. But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and chemistry CAN grow over time. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why instant chemistry and...

Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure.  Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection. Those who are seeking a life partner instead o...