What Would Love Do?

6 Feminine Habits Men Find WILDLY Attractive I’m still amazed that there are some factions of the male world who believe women are most attractive when they are subservient to the man in their life. GARBAGE! What rock do these guys live under? If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ll know that I believe wholeheartedly that women should never give away their power away...

The No. 1 Reason a Man SUDDENLY COMMITS To You Midlife men are often non-committal, usually because they’ve been burned in the past from a harsh break up or a divorce. And at times you might have felt that way as well based on your own past experiences. However, you can build the solid foundation of a relationship by having lots of honest, intimate conversations with your guy. Trust builds i...

6 Ways A Man (Over 40) SHOWS His Love To You You know that old saying, “Actions speak louder than words”? With a lot of midlife men, especially those who are not the best conversationalists, they often find that it’s easier to show you how they feel than to talk about it. This could be a result of the traditional ways that men and women were raised 40-60 years ago (or a host of o...

5 Signs the Man You’re With is a Keeper Sometimes it’s hard to tell if a guy you like is just going through the motions of dating in the hopes of getting sex or if he’s really a candidate for a long term relationship. This is especially true if you’ve been doing a lot of meet and greets and seem to be attracting a lot of emotionally immature men. You know I preach about radical h...

What Causes Guys to Breadcrumb a Woman There are 3 types of men in the dating world: Intentional Men go into the dating process knowing they want a companion and a relationship. Unintentional Men are often known as ‘players’ who have NO intention of getting into a relationship; they just want the fun and the sex. Lastly you have the Wounded Men who often are not healed from their child...

Meeting the Right Man Gets Easier When You Do These 4 Things I never want to imply that dating is easy or that finding your perfect mate is easy. You’ve been in this dating pool long enough to know it’s not easy and it can be downright frustrating at times. BUT when you understand male behavior and you make a concerted effort to do these 4 tips, then narrowing down the dating prospects...

Guys Over 40 Need THESE 5 Things To Commit (Without THEM Your Relationship Will Fail) One would think that after a certain age, we would all know what makes a strong relationship last throughout the years. Unfortunately, we humans get so stuck in our ways – or we think that relationships should be common sense – that nobody really knows what the heck they’re doing! Guys especiall...

When a Guy Falls in Love to Fast & Other Things to Look For Men’s and women’s feelings rarely develop at the same speed and that can cause some confusion between the couple, especially if the guy declares his love before his partner. Once those words are spoken, the relationship naturally jumps to another level of intimacy. But if the woman isn’t on the same page, she can sta...

How A Guy Knows You’re The One Is there really such a thing as ‘love at first sight’? Sometimes people will feel that way when it’s really LUST at first sight. But then there are others who know within weeks or months of meeting that they want to be exclusive or married – that THIS is ‘the one.’ My assistant was just telling me she knows two couples who we...

7 Undeniable Signs He’s in Love with You How do you reconnect with your guy after a long week? Do you take time each month to spend the day doing things that are important to you while talking about life’s joys and problems? Reconnecting is so important because it’s very easy to get distracted with everyday life. When you fill your day with solving issues – either work, fam...

Never Wait For A Guy, Even If He’s Very Busy…Do THIS Instead An important part of being in a long term relationship is having the same goals…or at least being on the same page with what you both want in life and in a relationship. When one person claims they’re “too busy” or gives off that vibe with always having to work or not having time on a weekend to see yo...

If a Man Deeply Loves You, He will Do these 3 Things! Ladies…do you agree that everyday should be Valentine’s Day? Is showing your love for your partner really limited to this one day? Certainly not. If you love and respect someone, I encourage you to let them know in some way, every single day. Otherwise you run the risk of falling into the trap of taking them for granted. Then resent...

Confusing Things Men Say | What They Really Mean In this age of technology, you’d think that we humans would be much better at communication. Dare I say, we’ve gotten worse! Communication prior to smartphones would require actually SPEAKING to another person and problem solving with them in the room or over the phone but these conversations were more vulnerable because you had nowhere...

Men are Ready to Commit at THIS Time When you really sit and think about the dating process, it’s a miracle people get together at all because the timing literally has to be right for both people. Not only do two people need to WANT a relationship but there needs to be no significant life situations occurring so they can both devote their time to developing the relationship. And by life situ...

Guys Will Adore You When THIS Happens I don’t have to tell you that the dating marketplace has changed significantly over the last several years. My clients tell me all the time that they feel frustrated, disposable, and sad that they can’t find an emotionally healthy man who wants a long term relationship. One thing I stress to them is if you go into dating with a pessimistic outlook,...

Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit In this episode I address a comment from one of my YouTube videos in which the viewer thought I was accepting of the men who don’t do any personal development work and they just ‘wing it’. While some men certainly chuckle at the idea of personal development, not all men are like that. But not all of my advice will ‘w...

Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect You Over the years the message of ‘you can’t change a man’ has become more prominent; that’s after YEARS of women thinking their man just needed some kind loving and he’d change into the Prince Charming she always dreamed of. But this thinking goes against everything that a strong relationship is built on: authenticity and acceptance...

Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!) Pursuing a man comes across as tacky and desperate; there’s no other way to say it. And by pursuing we mean always texting or calling, needing an answer to every text; basically, trying to get a guy’s attention at all costs. This has nothing to do with your feminine energy or sitting back and WAITING for a man to show interes...

3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You Wouldn’t you agree that men and women ultimately want the same thing? They want companionship and sex. We can argue that the difference begins at how much companionship men want versus women in terms of a relationship but we’re actually after the same goals. But many men have an innate fear that being in a relationship means lack of freedom....

7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man Have you ever noticed that in every romance/comedy movie the guy sweeps in to rescue the girl and they fall madly in love? That might be romantic in a fairy tale but in modern times, most women don’t want to fall into that ‘victim’ trap, needing to be rescued. When women don’t take full control of their lives and decisions –...

Make a Man Miss You Without Playing Games Don’t you agree that playing dating games is exhausting? It’s like a massive game of real life “if you do this, then that will happen.” I’ve also heard it compared to playing a game of chess: one person makes a move, then the other, all while trying to outsmart their opponent to ultimately claim the win. But that doesn’t...

Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most) If you’ve been through a break up, you can probably guess what these 3 reasons are before we even start. But it’s not enough to just hear the phrases men use to break up…we need to dive much deeper into the feelings and deflections involved. Otherwise you’ll be left wondering if he was feeding you a line of BS or...

Men Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit What’s your definition of ‘commitment’? It will be different for everyone and there’s no wrong or right answer. Some women want a monogamous relationship that offers companionship and connection while others want to get remarried. There are lots of different levels in between these two as well and only YOU can determine wha...

Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? If you’ve been dating for any amount of time, I’m guessing that you’ve experienced this situation, where a guy comes on strong to woo you and then all but disappears off the face of the earth. You’d think that by the time we reach the midlife years this wouldn’t happen and yet it continues. In this episode I explore the di...

Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 It’s a new year and with that comes new possibilities for love and success. My favorite memes for the new year are the photos of a brand new book opened to the first blank page. You alone are the author of your story and I encourage you to approach each blank page as a new chance for happiness and the man of your dreams. I’m thrilled to...