What Would Love Do?

Men are Ready to Commit at THIS Time When you really sit and think about the dating process, it’s a miracle people get together at all because the timing literally has to be right for both people. Not only do two people need to WANT a relationship but there needs to be no significant life situations occurring so they can both devote their time to developing the relationship. And by life situ...

Guys Will Adore You When THIS Happens I don’t have to tell you that the dating marketplace has changed significantly over the last several years. My clients tell me all the time that they feel frustrated, disposable, and sad that they can’t find an emotionally healthy man who wants a long term relationship. One thing I stress to them is if you go into dating with a pessimistic outlook,...

Does He Want You in His Life? Signs a Man Wants to Commit In this episode I address a comment from one of my YouTube videos in which the viewer thought I was accepting of the men who don’t do any personal development work and they just ‘wing it’. While some men certainly chuckle at the idea of personal development, not all men are like that. But not all of my advice will ‘w...

Men Who Do THIS Show They Respect You Over the years the message of ‘you can’t change a man’ has become more prominent; that’s after YEARS of women thinking their man just needed some kind loving and he’d change into the Prince Charming she always dreamed of. But this thinking goes against everything that a strong relationship is built on: authenticity and acceptance...

Never Pursue a Man, Do this Instead (Get Him to Pursue YOU!) Pursuing a man comes across as tacky and desperate; there’s no other way to say it. And by pursuing we mean always texting or calling, needing an answer to every text; basically, trying to get a guy’s attention at all costs. This has nothing to do with your feminine energy or sitting back and WAITING for a man to show interes...

3 Weird Ways a Man Shows He Cares About You Wouldn’t you agree that men and women ultimately want the same thing? They want companionship and sex. We can argue that the difference begins at how much companionship men want versus women in terms of a relationship but we’re actually after the same goals. But many men have an innate fear that being in a relationship means lack of freedom....

7 Ways Women Give Their Power Away To A Man Have you ever noticed that in every romance/comedy movie the guy sweeps in to rescue the girl and they fall madly in love? That might be romantic in a fairy tale but in modern times, most women don’t want to fall into that ‘victim’ trap, needing to be rescued. When women don’t take full control of their lives and decisions –...

Make a Man Miss You Without Playing Games Don’t you agree that playing dating games is exhausting? It’s like a massive game of real life “if you do this, then that will happen.” I’ve also heard it compared to playing a game of chess: one person makes a move, then the other, all while trying to outsmart their opponent to ultimately claim the win. But that doesn’t...

Top 3 “Reasons” Men Give for Breaking Up (#3 Stings The Most) If you’ve been through a break up, you can probably guess what these 3 reasons are before we even start. But it’s not enough to just hear the phrases men use to break up…we need to dive much deeper into the feelings and deflections involved. Otherwise you’ll be left wondering if he was feeding you a line of BS or...

Men Need THIS Before They’re Ready To Commit What’s your definition of ‘commitment’? It will be different for everyone and there’s no wrong or right answer. Some women want a monogamous relationship that offers companionship and connection while others want to get remarried. There are lots of different levels in between these two as well and only YOU can determine wha...

Why Do Men Go Passive After Coming On Strong? If you’ve been dating for any amount of time, I’m guessing that you’ve experienced this situation, where a guy comes on strong to woo you and then all but disappears off the face of the earth. You’d think that by the time we reach the midlife years this wouldn’t happen and yet it continues. In this episode I explore the di...

Make Your Relationship With Him A Success in 2023 It’s a new year and with that comes new possibilities for love and success. My favorite memes for the new year are the photos of a brand new book opened to the first blank page. You alone are the author of your story and I encourage you to approach each blank page as a new chance for happiness and the man of your dreams. I’m thrilled to...