What Would Love Do?

Use THESE Techniques To Attract A High Quality Man Do you remember the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray? In the movie, his character wakes up to the EXACT same song on the radio and same conversations with coworkers and friends. It takes the whole movie and a lesson that he had to learn before he moved into a new day. Sometimes the dating world feels like this movie. You attract the same type...

Men (Over 40) Who Exhibit THIS Make Good Life Partners Believe it or not, not all men over 40 are players and there are many who want to find a life partner. Yes, the over 40 age group often comes with trauma from divorce or other bad relationships but by no means does that mean finding a life partner after this age is out of the question. Set your high standards, don’t be afraid to be picky...

Can He Love Me If Our Attachment Style Is Off? Technology is wonderful but too much can obviously cause problems in our lives. One example is texting. The ability to send short notes to people is certainly convenient but in the dating world, depending on texting as a primary way to communicate can give a false sense of bonding or attachment. When you’re looking for a relationship, real commu...

Do THIS To Meet A Quality Man Who Will Adore You How many frogs have you kissed trying to find your prince charming? Many women complain that there are no good guys left in the world because they seem to always attract the guys who just want casual sex, who don’t value women, or who still have a lot of inner work to complete. But I invite you to set your standards HIGH! What is YOUR definiti...

Men Are Strongly Attracted to Women Who Have These Qualities It stands to reason that we are physically attracted to someone first before we get to know them. Afterall, outward appearance is eye catching; think about that ‘look across a crowded room’. But physical attraction does NOT equal long term compatibility. You can have a great time in bed with someone but not connect outside of...

Why Men (Over 40) Act Interested, But They Can’t Seem To Commit We can answer a lot of questions about midlife men and their trouble with commitment if we look back in time. In their 20s, men were dating with a mission: To find a wife, settle down, and have the obligatory 2.5 kids. Now skip ahead 20 years and the vast majority of men who are dating in their 40s or 50s have been divorced. Whe...

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest?? My coaching clients tell me all the time that when a guy goes silent – even when the chemistry is awesome – they have a difficult time not jumping to conclusions, such as, “He doesn’t like me; I hit a nerve; I did something wrong”. You know the routine. But those thoughts are really made up stories...

He’s Pulled Away | AVOID THIS MISTAKE! Doesn’t it seem odd that two people can have two very different definitions of a relationship? The dating world is confusing these days, mostly because it’s so easy (and acceptable) to hook up instead of committing to someone. In the olden days people were expected to get married before having sex; nowadays it’s acceptable to have mult...

When A Man Sends You MIXED SIGNALS, Here’s What He’s Thinking Mixed signals are tough to break down because there can be any number of reasons why your guy is acting this way. But it boils down to lack of communication and lack of awareness of what he REALLY wants in his life. It’s all too easy to hook up these days and some actually give their hearts away too quickly and get hur...

3 KEYS To Identifying If He’s Your Soulmate or Your True Love Some midlifers will argue that ‘true love’ and ‘soulmates’ are figments from Hollywood movies. Nobody falls head over heels in love and devotes every waking moment to their beloved…or do they? Finding true love is certainly possible but it takes going DEEP with conversations. The more you learn about...

Men Need THIS To Fully Commit To A Woman w/@manisfriedman I am honored to have Rabbi Manis Friedman as my guest today. He is a world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher who uses the ancient wisdom of Torah/Kabbalah plus modern wit to captivate audiences around the world. In this special conversation, we’re chatting about marriage. As you might guess, this is a complex subjec...

He Wants To Move On and You Feel Crushed, How Do You Heal? Think back to the break ups in your life. How did you handle your emotions? What lessons did you learn from that relationship? In the movies, the women are often on the receiving end of a break up and they gravitate toward eating too much ice cream. While that might be funny in the movies, a break up in real life is not so light-hearted. O...

Letting Go: How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship… Breaking up is never easy, no matter what level of relationship you’re in. Everyone’s emotions are raw and it can be a very confusing time figuring out if you really want to break up or if there’s still a way to stay together. Ultimately, each person needs to address if their needs are being met and the...

Is He Afraid Of Love? Do THIS To Build Intimacy With A Man Parenting is a difficult and confusing job. Most parents do the best they can given the tools and knowledge available at the time; yet so many adults can trace dysfunctional lessons back to their childhoods. In fact, our personalities and limiting beliefs are ingrained by the time we’re 8-9 years old based on the lessons learned from...

Why Men (Over 40) Choose You Over Other Women Life is better with company. I firmly believe that we are NOT meant to be alone. Humans need  connection and intimacy and we all remember how isolating it was to be alone during the pandemic shutdowns. But this doesn’t mean jumping from one relationship to the next and just settling for whoever comes along. We are all worthy of finding that partn...

If You Do THIS To A Man, Will It Sabotage Your Relationship? When you’re serious about finding a long term relationship, it’s important to talk about attachment styles. Understanding your own behavior goes a long way to making sense of a guy’s behavior. Understanding your own love attachment style is the first step to NOT sabotaging future romantic relationships. Attachment style...

How Childhood Traumas Affects Our Love Choices with Sabrina Rising I’ve had the pleasure of working with Sabrina Rising personally and am thrilled that she agreed to come on this episode to help explain that what we experience in our childhood directly affects our adulthood. Sabrina is an intuitive guide who helps people transform their lives and align with their innermost desires. She&#8217...

6 “NICE GIRL” Habits ALL WOMEN Must Break! Many people in this midlife age range grew up being told to be ‘nice’ to others. How often did you hear “Nice girls wouldn’t do that,” or being forced to apologize to a sibling or friend because the words you said weren’t “nice.” Now as an adult, I hear these phrases and think about how ‘be...

Men (over 40) Have a Hard Time Opening Up Emotionally Until THIS Happens I talk a lot about being emotionally available or mature in relationships but it dawned on me recently (after a conversation with another dating coach contemporary) that many men don’t understand what that means. It’s hard enough knowing what you want in a relationship but to not understand how to be present emoti...

4 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit Many midlife women feel like they’re in a rush to find their dream guy. And while I admit that you shouldn’t waste time on men who don’t have the same values you do, rushing a commitment from someone isn’t the best way to build a solid relationship. Some men need more time than women to build a trusting bond. A lot of men...

5 Male INSECURITIES That Women NEED To Know Insecurity is not just a woman problem…men suffer from insecurities, too. Heck, it’s safe to say that ALL humans suffer from some kind of insecurity! This is not something to be ashamed of; it’s a fact of life but it hinders how we act with each other. Add in our awful communication skills and we have the belief that being insecure is s...

Men Love Women Who Do THIS! Secrets To A Happy Relationship Have you ever been in a healthy, happy relationship where you felt equally loved by your  partner? We all have these ideas of what this type of relationship looks and feels like but often times you don’t really know that’s what you’ve found until your deep into it. Relationships bring up all kinds of emotions, from the l...

10 Sneaky Ways Men Use Women Commitment can be confusing for midlife men. When you’re younger, most men understand there’s a commitment to help raise children and provide for a family. But in the midlife years – aka after baby making – many men shy away from commitment for any number of reasons. If you couple this confusion with the women who want a man at any costs, you no...

When A Man Pulls Away, Never Do THIS! Do you remember the television show Seinfeld? Specifically the episode about George and his theory of opposite day. He always felt like he was down on his luck in everything he did so he figured, why not do the opposite of his natural instincts. Naturally, it worked and he was loving life! You’ll find other advice gurus who suggest that when someone pull...

The Power Of Walking Away From A Man Changes His Behavior Think back to your childhood and your parents. Did they fulfill the stereotypical gender roles of the father being the head of the household while the mother was the submissive housewife? For many generations, this is just the way society raised their children. The men seemingly had more power than the women. Starting in the late 1960s and...