Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools

Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage: Make and Keep PromisesIn this powerful episode, I address couples who are experiencing a breach in trust within their marriage. I delve into the issue of broken promises and how they can erode trust between spouses. Through actionable steps grounded in biblical principles, I guide you on how to prioritize your spouse's needs, communicate effectively, and honor y...

The stories we create about our partner's actions can significantly impact our relationships. Jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst can breed unnecessary problems such as resentment. Cultivating better communication skills is crucial for understanding and addressing concerns effectively, ultimately strengthening the bond and fostering healthier relationships. In this video, I address o...

How and Why to Forgive by Kelly DuPee - Pastor, Police Chaplain, Christian Marriage Coach In this video, I discuss the important topic of forgiveness and its role in healing from deep hurt caused by others. I explain why forgiveness is essential for followers of Jesus and provide five compelling reasons to embrace it. I also outline actionable steps to help you forgive those who have wronged you,...

Reignite Your Marriage: The Power of a One Night GetawayFeeling like your marriage needs a boost? A one-night getaway can be a surprisingly effective way to recharge your connection. Prioritizing that time for your relationship advice and intimacy can help you reconnect amidst the chaos. Consider this simple but powerful way to save your marriage. 🙏In this episode, Pastor, Police Chaplain, and Ch...

Why Telling Your Spouse to Calm Down is Hurting Your MarriageJoin Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, as he explains why telling your spouse to calm down can escalate rather than diffuse tension. Learn seven biblical action steps to respond with compassion and wisdom: listening first, validating feelings, asking questions, offering presence, speaking gently,...

Trusting God Through Marriage Challenges: The ABCD MethodMarriage can be challenging, but it doesn't have to be walked out alone. This video encourages trusting God in hard times and finding strength in your faith. In this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses how to trust God during marriage challenges. He introduces the ABCD method to help couples strengthen their faith amid marriage struggl...

7 Biblical Steps to Stop Arguments and Bring Peace to Your MarriageArguments in marriage often stem from deeper emotions like frustration or miscommunication, not just the surface topic. To avoid hurt, focus on building real emotional connection and practice good conflict resolution. Remember to meet your needs and respond thoughtfully, not reactively. In this episode, Kelly DuPee, a pastor, polic...

Have you ever found a simple conversation with your spouse spiraling into conflict despite your best intentions? This video by Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, delves into the power of 'I' statements over 'You' statements for healthier, more empathetic communication in relationships. Kelly offers six practical steps to effectively utilize 'I...

Overcoming Defensiveness in Marriage: 7 Biblical Steps to Build a Healthier RelationshipIn this episode, Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, addresses the harmful effects of defensiveness in marriage. He explains how defensiveness, whether it manifests as anger or emotional shutdown, damages relationships. Kelly provides biblical principles and practical ste...

7 Reasons Marriages Fail in the first Seven Years and How to Rebuild Yours In this video, Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses why many marriages fall apart between years five to eight and provides practical Biblical advice on how to avoid these pitfalls. Learn about the importance of prioritizing your marriage, effective communication, handling conflict, expressing your needs, maintaini...

7 Biblical Ways to Handle Conflict in Marriage Without Hurting Each OtherDo you struggle with handling conflict in your marriage? In this video, Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach, shares seven biblical ways to handle conflict without hurting each other and how to grow closer through it. Learn how to navigate disagreements with compassion, empathy, and effective communicati...

5 Ways Gratitude Can Transform Your Marriage - With Pastor Kelly DuPeeIn this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee highlights the transformative power of gratitude in strengthening marriages. Through a detailed exploration of five distinct ways gratitude can improve a relationship, Kelly emphasizes the importance of shifting perspective, inviting God's presence, healing emotional wounds, building resil...

Overcoming the Fight or Flight Response in Marriage Conflicts Do you find yourself stuck in a cycle where every conflict with your spouse turns either into a heated argument or total disengagement? In this video, Kelly Dupee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, discusses why the 'fight or flight' response occurs in marital conflicts, its damaging effects, and how you can overcome it. Le...

Love Like Jesus: Transform Your Marriage with Sacrificial LoveIn this video, Pastor Kelly DuPee, a Christian marriage coach, delves into the essence of real love in marriage, drawing parallels from the sacrificial love of Jesus Christ. Based on Ephesians 5:25, he emphasizes how husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church, through selfless acts and enduring challenges. Kelly recount...

7 Ways to Support Your Spouse Through Grief Kelly DuPee, a pastor and Christian marriage coach, shares seven ways to help your spouse cope with grief. The steps include being present, giving hope, praying, listening, offering practical help, being patient, and supporting professional help. With biblical references and practical advice, this video aims to offer comfort and guidance for those naviga...

7 Biblical Ways to Reduce Anxiety in Your MarriageIn this video, pastor and Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses the impact of anxiety on marriages and relationships. He provides seven Biblical strategies to help reduce worry and anxiety, such as prayer, replacing worry with God's word, loving communication, trusting God, serving each other, quickly addressing issues, and seeking hel...

Learn how improving your listening skills can strengthen your marriage. Discover the power of generous listening and how it can transform your relationship! Listening to your spouse can lead to fewer arguments, deeper connections, and a stronger marriage. Learn four key principles of generous listening: being attentive, patient, understanding, and action-oriented. Practical advice based on scriptu...

How White Lies Destroy Trust in RelationshipsIn this episode, we delve into the harmful impact of white lies and dishonesty in relationships. Learn why small lies, not big betrayals, gradually erode trust in marriage. Gain practical steps to change this destructive habit and understand why truthfulness is crucial. Discover real-life examples, biblical insights, and strategies to build a stronger,...

6 Biblical Principles for a Strong and Lasting MarriageIn this episode, discover why loving God is essential for a successful and enduring marriage. The recording presents six biblical principles demonstrating how God’s love strengthens a marriage, especially during difficult times. These principles highlight the importance of sacrificial love, forgiveness, peace, and lifelong commitment. By putti...

Rebuilding Trust After BetrayalIn this recording, you'll learn offers seven Biblical principles to help rebuild trust and heal your marriage after betrayal. Starting with confession, responsibility, and repentance, you'll see the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, asking for God's help, and seeking external support. This guide provides practical steps rooted in Scrip...

7 Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Truly Special | Kelly DuPeeIn this recording, Kelly DuPee—pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author—gives husbands practical advice on making their wives feel loved, cherished, and valued. Drawing from biblical principles, Kelly explains seven actionable steps: loving her as Christ loved the church, speaking words of encouragement, prioritizing qua...

In this episode, Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, shares five actionable suggestions for wives to show respect to their husbands. Drawing from biblical teachings, he emphasizes the importance of listening genuinely, expressing gratitude, speaking with kindness, valuing your husband's perspective in decision-making, and showing love through actions. Re...

How to Cultivate a Grace-Filled Marriage In this insightful video, Coach Kelly DuPee, Pastor, Police Chaplain, and Author, delves into the essential concept of grace and its importance in marriage. Starting with a reflection on how we wish to be treated when we make mistakes, he defines grace as understanding, forgiveness, and acceptance, and explains that God offers us grace through Jesus Christ....

Preventing Infidelity: Biblical Wisdom for a Lifelong Marriage In this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee shares practical tips from the Bible on preventing infidelity in marriage. With statistics highlighting the high prevalence of cheating and its role in divorces, this video explores wisdom from the Book of Proverbs about sexual purity and provides actionable steps to safeguard marriages. Topics cover...

In this insightful recording, Kelly DuPée, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, explores the profound impact that words can have on your marriage. Drawing wisdom from the book of Proverbs in the Bible, Kelly emphasizes how your words can either build up or destroy your relationship. Learn practical advice on speaking life into your marriage, including asking God for help,...