Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools

In this recording, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses how uncontrolled anger is a leading cause of damaging relationships and marriages. Drawing wisdom from the Book of Proverbs, Kelly explains the different types of anger—quick-tempered, hot-tempered, and easily angered—and offers practical steps on how to manage and respond to anger effectively. Learn how to calm yourself, communicate calmly, and prev...

Join Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, as he shares seven transformative principles from the book of Proverbs to help couples handle finance-related conflicts. Here's the link to get the free Marriage and Money Course: https://systeme.io/course/share/2341644a23efa2f244f38109ea2c835bb6d508 Learn how to put God first, understand each other's financial perspectives...

Unlocking The Secrets To Wisdom: A Step-by-step Guide | Coach Kelly DuPée Get my free Couple's Communication Guide here: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide Discover the essential steps to acquire the wisdom necessary for a thriving marriage and successful life. Coach Kelly DuPée, a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, shares insights from the book of Proverbs on how to...

Discover the marriage tool that will change your relationship forever! Learn how this concept from the book of Proverbs in the Bible can transform your marriage through active listening that unlocks understanding. Marriage Tools from Proverbs Part 1: The Power of Understanding Key points include admitting the need for wisdom, asking for God's help, attentive listening, repeating back what was hear...

Post Christmas Marriage Recovery - Here's How 🎄 Did the holiday season test your relationship? Discover how to recover and strengthen your marriage after a stressful Christmas with practical, faith-based advice. In this episode, I explore the common pitfalls couples face during the holidays, like disappointment, disagreement, and even disloyalty. But don't worry—I'm here to guide you through ways...

Have a Great Christmas without Hurting your Marriage - Confront if Needed In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares valuable advice on handling conflicts with your spouse during Christmas. Learn how to accept imperfections, plan ahead, manage your reactions, and communicate effectively to avoid ruining your holiday celebration. With his faith-based in...

Have a Great Christmas without Hurting your Marriage - Join Coach Kelly DuPée in the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show as he offers faith-based advice on having a great Christmas without hurting your marriage. This episode focuses on setting boundaries to overcome common holiday challenges like overspending, overeating, and overcommitting. Learn how to manage time, budget, and family dynamic...

Here's how to have a great Christmas without hurting your marriage, ask for help! Are you ready to make this Christmas unforgettable? Whether you're married or spending it with loved ones, holiday challenges are inevitable. But don't worry, I'm here to help you turn those obstacles into opportunities for joy! In this episode, I delve into common holiday pitfalls like overspending, time constraints...

Is happy wife happy life bad advice? Are you familiar with the saying "happy wife, happy life"? While it might sound charming, it could be causing more harm than good in your marriage. Join me, Coach Kelly DuPée, pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, as we dive into a more balanced and faith-based approach to achieving marital bliss. In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips...

Truth telling and transparency - keys to a strong marriage. Have you ever wondered why some marriages thrive while others struggle? In this powerful episode, I'm diving deep into two CRITICAL keys that can transform your relationship: TRUTH TELLING and TRANSPARENCY. 🎯 What You'll Learn: - The REAL difference between telling the truth and being transparent - Why honesty is the foundation of trust...

De Escalating Conflict at Home - The Bible has the solution! 🗣️ **Ever wondered how a simple change in your response could transform the way you handle arguments with your partner?** In this recording, I challenge you to think about your last disagreement—could it have ended better with a different response? Many couples face the problem of escalating conflicts instead of resolving them. We instin...

Inviting God into your life - Follow the ABC's Many individuals and couples want God to be a bigger part of their lives but don't know how to connect with him. Here's how inviting God into your life works. Just follow the ABC's. Have you ever wondered if God can truly make a difference in your life and marriage? Maybe you grew up with a religious background but have since strayed, and now you’re q...

Ask for help with your marriage- Here's How A lot of couples need help in their relationship but don't know how or don't want to ask for it. . Learn how to overcome pride and fear, and embrace the support that can lead to the life and marriage God desires for you. Discover practical steps to reach out for help, manage life's challenges, and unlock the power of asking for assistance. Embrace the re...

Apology not accepted? There's a reason. Join Coach Kelly DuPée on the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show for an insightful episode on the art of apologizing in relationships. Have you ever felt that your apology just didn't hit the mark with your spouse or loved one? You're not alone. In this video, Kelly explores why some apologies fail and shares the five essential elements that make an aut...

Invite God into your Marriage - Here's 5 Ways In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée discusses how inviting God into the center of your marriage can address feelings of emptiness and strengthen your relationship. By shifting focus from self-solutions to divine guidance, couples can avoid frustration and failure. This recording shares biblical advice and p...

Why it's Hard to Ask Your Spouse for What you Need - and how to do it. Are you tired of feeling unheard or unfulfilled in your relationship? Do you wish your partner would do something specific to meet your emotional needs? In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares a critical mistake that couples make when it comes to asking for what they need - and h...

Improve your communication - ask open ended questions. This is the solution to getting a one word answer when your spouse comes home from work. Ask an open ended question. Have you ever tried to have a conversation with your husband or wife and all you got was a simple one-word answer? I think all of us have. I want to give you a tip that solves the problem of how to avoid getting one-word answers...

How's the connection with your spouse? Ask this question and find out! In this recording, we dive into a crucial aspect of maintaining a healthy and strong marriage by asking the connection question. Life has a way of dimming the connection we have with our spouses through our busy schedules, kids, work, hobbies, and misplaced priorities. But there's a simple yet effective tool to help you...

How's your marriage on a scale of 1-10? Perhaps you're wondering if marriage coaching might help. Here are 10 questions to see if you need Marriage Coaching. 1. Do you fight and argue about the same things over and over? 2. Does it seem like you can’t figure out how to solve problems together anymore? 3. Do you feel as if you are not as close to each other as you used to be? 4. Do you feel...

Vacation with Just your Spouse - Here's how. I know you'd love to go on vacation with just your spouse, but does that seem impossible? When you and your spouse go on vacation, great things happen in your relationship. Are you looking for a great way to reconnect with your spouse and recharge your batteries? A simple yet impactful solution is taking a vacation with just you and your spouse....

Managing money is one of the biggest areas of struggle and cause of conflict in a marriage. That's why today, I’m sharing seven suggestions to help you manage your money together as a couple without the stress and arguments. 📋 Here’s a quick overview of what we’ll cover: 1. Commit to doing it together 2. Disclose everything and never hide anything from each other 3. Decide your money style: s...

Have you ever had your spouse say, "You just don't get it," and felt like you failed despite your best efforts to understand them? Or perhaps you find yourself in repetitive arguments where no progress seems to be made. In this recording, we’re diving into the art of understanding your spouse better and making them feel truly understood. One of the deepest desires we all have is to b...

What do you think is the number one thing a woman looks for in a potential husband? Is it money or good looks? Well, the answer may surprise you! Welcome to the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, where I provide faith-based tips and tools from God's word to strengthen and enhance your marriage. Hi, I'm Coach Kelly DuPée, Pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author o...

It takes more than knowledge to strengthen your marriage, it takes action. Could it be that the missing piece in your marriage is not more knowledge but more action? Are you ready to move from being a hearer of marriage advice to a doer of that advice and see real change in your relationship? Well, welcome to the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show where I provide faith-based tips and tools fr...

Four R's of an Apology -How to clean up when you mess up. In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, Coach Kelly DuPée shares the four essential elements of a sincere apology. Learn how taking responsibility, expressing regret, repenting, and requesting forgiveness can help mend relationships and strengthen your marriage. Tune in to discover faith-based tips that promote r...