To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Ellen Moore ( The Slut Show with Ellen Moore ) joins Natalie for another fantastic conversation about sexuality. This time, the women will explore how ADHD affects how you experience sex and intimate relationships. They will share their own experiences with how their brain functions during moments of pleasure, both inside and outside of the bedroom. They will also talk on the connections made betw...

Julia Washington ( Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous ) is back this week to discuss how misogyny makes it incredibly hard for women and other marginalized groups to experience joy. Natalie and Julia discuss how women’s hobbies and interests aren’t taken seriously and how happiness has been weaponized against women making them feel uncomfortable when they are experiencing pride within themselves. Other...

Chris Derosa ( Fixing Famous People ) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break untl January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, wevdiscuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jell...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jel...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jel...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break until January 2024! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jel...

Voting for To All the Men I've Tolerated Before's first ever Misogynist of the Year award is opened now! I will walk you through every nominee and the voting process so you can make an informed decision. And as a very special holiday treat, the Patreon has changed to offer our community even MORE from Team Tolerator. Justin Timberlake battling Dax Shepard for Misogynist of The Year and more await...

This week's episode is a feed swap with our friends from PNW Haunts and Homicides! Support their show after listening to this full episode on our feed! Richard Troy Gillmore, also known as the Jogger Rapist, could be responsible for dozens of crimes that took place in the Portland Metro area in the 1970s and into the 1980s, prior to his arrest. He has been incarcerated for 36 years following his c...

Happy Thursday everyone! To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on holiday break. As a special treat, we are sharing one of the first episodes to a new collaboration with Julia Washington (Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous). What is a Drauma Dump? Well, that's what happens when you write into Julia and I and tell us all about the ways someone in your life has hurt, betrayed, or disappointed...

Chelsea Devantez (Glamorous Trash host and television writer) is joining Natalie to talk about the importance of female celebrities’ memoirs. Chelsea has hosted the show Celebrity Book Club, now known as Glamorous Trash, since 2020. Natalie and Chelsea will talk about what has drawn them to celebrity memoirs, lessons they’ve learned about Patriarchy and misogyny through the stories of famous women...

Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provid...

Inspired by the new Netflix docuseries covering the trial, Natalie and Julia Washington decided to give some follow up reflections to their former episode about the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation trial. They explore the impact of the trial for victims, the role social media played in the trial, and whether or not their feelings have changed now that they have new perspectives and a year's...

What is this? An early episode of To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before? That’s right, Team Tolerator, we are bringing you our Britney Spears episode early to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as...

It's Spooky Season, Ya’ll! To celebrate Halloween, Natalie gathered past guests, Elizabeth and Darcie, to talk about final girls and their favorite “good for her” moments of horror movies. A consistent theme of the episode will be that the way women are represented in horror is a gateway of understanding how women are treated by society in general. Through the strength of the Final Girl, the three...

Gisselle Herrera (the Strong Sunflowers Podcast) and Natalie talk about the ins and outs of creating and maintaining intentional relationships. Gisselle’s podcast has the mission to guide women into living a life they enjoy and feeling empowered to advocate for themselves. This has driven her to only give her energy to relationships that are worthy of her time and add value to her life. The two wo...

Katie from the podcast The Bar is Ankle High is here to talk about her experiences with receiving an ADHD diagnosis and how life has changed after it. Natalie shares her experiences with her self-diagnosis of being somewhere on the ADHD spectrum. The women share past events that could have gone so much differently if only they understood how their brain functioned and accommodated themselves for i...

Julia Washington is back for your Patreon teaser! We know we are about 2/3s done with the year 2023 but we wanted to do a check-in on those vision boards and goals we created at the beginning of the year. Also, there are some surprise stories from the summer that include how I met some of my idols from Critical Role and Dimension 20. Come celebrate our wins and help push us into success by 2024! C...

Natalie is joined by Courtney Gilmartin for a conversation about Courtney’s experiences with family court during the divorce from her former husband. Courtney shares openly about how misogyny within the court system makes it extremely difficult for women to keep themselves and their children safe and separate from their abusers. A large part of the discussion will focus on how Courtney was treated...

Am I actually in danger or is this just new? Amy Green Smith, host of the Bold-Faced Truth podcast, is here to discuss the four fear responses. How does our fear manifest in a modern world where there’s not a large animal chasing us and we have protection from the elements? Now we have the new fear response of fawning that manifests as people pleasing. Our flight response resonates in the way we e...

Natalie and guest Julia Washington let listeners in on one of their privately most talked about topics. This is an episode designed around the idea of what makes it hard to be a deprogrammed woman who has to live in a world where other women uphold misogynistic beliefs or Patriarchal standards. The women go into what makes them frustrated when it comes to living a life that isn’t centered around m...

Here is your monthly Patreon Teaser! Tolerators got an inside look in Natalie and Julia's heads on what it takes for them to feel they've set up a year for success. Whether its through Tarot, vision boards, budget planning, or other means, Nat and Jules are determined to have a feral year filled with podcast numbers, opportunities, success, and loving themselves above all else! And you can hear al...

Natalie is joined today by Alrinthea Carter, Emmy-nominated writer for Max’s A Black Lady Sketch show. She is here to talk about her experiences as a television writer and why the WGA and SAG-AFTRA union strike is so important. Topics of discussion will range from making a livable wage, what happens when AI is charged with filtering out resumes and also writing tv shows, and the powers of workers...

Hi Barbie! We’re back from summer vacation. This week Natalie and Julia Washington are combining their forces to talk about The Barbie movie. Each woman delves into their special relationship and memories they have with Barbie. They then decide it is time to come out of hiding and join the discourse and discussion following Greta Geriwg’s film. The episode will revolve around the movie serving as...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...