To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to...

Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister...

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Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set ou...

Author Rae Wilde joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic...

TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington ( Prose and Glow ) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape h...

Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on Patreon! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written...

Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also tackle topics like our reality living with AI, how misogyny presents itself in tech, how we’ve changed how we build connections to one another, and our...

Lynn Harris is the owner and founder of Gold Comedy , the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff that gets seen on all kinds of stages and screens. Lynn and Natalie will discuss the ways misogyny has affected comedy, why it is important to have di...

Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4. Natalie and Kristiana will have a very nuanced conversation about Taylor Frankie Paul and her cancelled season of The Bachelorette. There will also be di...

Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter.  We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month! Topics include: Christina Koch and her trip to the moon Chappell Roan existing and men being mad 62 million reasons to be a misandrist The Supreme Court's refusal to ban conversion t...

Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our YouTube Channel  How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patre...

Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media . Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go ove...

The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives a...

Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will...

Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter.  Our bonus episode for this month included the topics: Kristi Noem Timothy Chalamet The women of the Olympics Chelsea Devantez and her film, Basic Getting over disappointment Love is Blind Ohio Secret Lives of Mormon Wives S4 The only...

Tara Jabbari ( Who Was She Podcast ) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how masculinity is presented in the films, the strong storylines rooted in the immigrant experience, and how women quietly held power behind the scenes. There will also be some moments where we...

Nicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast  Bubble Bath Stories are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie isn’t team any of those men, the dating tropes that each woman fell into during their story arc, the importance of having a group of strong women by your side, and why Carrie should have definitely accep...

Kat Sass is a drag artist, makeup artist, costume designer, teacher, tv and film personality, event host, and their creativity knows no bounds. All of those topics will be discussed with a special focus on how misogyny affects your life as a drag artist and as a creative in general. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now...

Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up. Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We...

We’re coming to the cottage! Kervin ( For Why Games ) joins Natalie on the pod to chat over the show that took the holiday season by storm, Heated Rivalry! The two friends will relive their favorite moments from the show and talk about the show as a form of queer representation in the media. They will also discuss how the show had them reflecting on their own experiences with love, audiences react...

Megan Metzger is a comedian from Chicago who has recently gone through a divorce. She joins Natalie on the show to walk through the misogyny she experienced within her marriage and what the future holds for her. The problem with that future? Megan has found it really hard to be attracted to men or want to spend time with them after her divorce. Dating, relationships, women’s experiences with casua...

Natalie is joined by new friend Cetoria to get into the girl powered world that is Sailor Moon. They will talk about how the show represents the energy that is being a teenage girl. Within the conversation surrounding Sailor Moon, they will also talk about the hierarchy of girlhood and how they experienced girlhood as young women and ways they’re reclaiming it today. They’ll also discuss other tre...

Thank you to all our Team Tolerator members over at Patreon! I hope you enjoy your bonus episode this month and I cannot wait to hear your thoughts on the misogyny I rounded up. Remember, everyone who joins a paid tier in the months of December, January, February, and March will be recieving an exclusive Team Tolerator friendship bracelet set! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We...

Julia Washington ( Prose and Glow ) is back to dive deep into her feelings about Glinda now that she has seen Wicked: For Good. Natalie and Julia will discuss the deep amount of empathy Elphaba holds for Glinda, even when Glinda is still siding with Oz and taking the privileges that come along with that choice. They will also discuss Glinda’s path to understanding it isn’t enough to entertain the...