To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Natalie is joined by her dear friend and witch mentor, Cate ( Practically a Witch ). Cate and Natalie will discuss the privilege to find yourself aging and entering your crone stage of life. There will also be some personal stories about how sacred they found the relationships they held with older women while they grew up. Other topics will include beauty standards, creeps getting older, and the p...

Amanda and her husband are survivors of child marriage. She joins Natalie to tell her story of how she ended up forced into marriage at the age of 17 illegally. Topics of this episode will include child marriage laws, teen pregnancy, using religion as a tool of oppression, and how to ensure the laws we live under are actually protecting children. How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content?...

Julia Washington ( Prose and Glow ) makes a stunning return to the podcast to review Practical Magic 2. Natalie and Julia will dig deep to discuss themes that were found in the movie, even if they were only lightly touched upon. They will also talk about all the hopes they had for the movie and what they would have done if they were paid to write the sequel for Natalie’s favorite movie. How to Sup...

Hey, Team Tolerator! Here are all the ways you can be apart of our community on Patreon and a little preview of the content you will find there for this month! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here . We are also still ke...

Natalie rewatched all of Desperate Housewives, got super irritated with Tom Scavo, and immediately knew she needed Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast to come do an episode on this iconic show. Natalie and Margaret will rank each husband on Desperate Housewives on their problematic tendencies. There will also be discussion on how important it is to see middle aged women be represented on tv, the s...

Kat Steinberg ( She Media ) is helping us define the trust economy and how it fits into our current media landscape. Kat and Natalie will discuss what it feels like when you’re living during a time where you can’t trust the media surrounding you. There will be discussion of women who have been targeted by negative media campaigns with a concentration on Chappel Roan, Sabrina Carpenter, Taylor Swif...

Ellen Moore returns to the podcast to talk about her advocacy for herself when it comes to getting the disability aid she needs to survive. Ellen gives Natalie an update on her health and the process she went through in order to apply for disability aid. There will be discussion on stigmas people with disability face, how hustle culture affects our ability to rest, and how people can help Ellen as...

Team Tolerator, the podcast is officially coming back! I know the feed has been quiet and here is your explaination as to why. We will be returning with regularly scheduled episodes next week! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more!  You can join...

Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. T...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous . Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and v...

Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to...

Natalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister...

How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here . We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to...

Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set ou...

Author Rae Wilde joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic...

TATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington ( Prose and Glow ) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape h...

Team Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on Patreon! How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written...

Ami Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also tackle topics like our reality living with AI, how misogyny presents itself in tech, how we’ve changed how we build connections to one another, and our...

Lynn Harris is the owner and founder of Gold Comedy , the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff that gets seen on all kinds of stages and screens. Lynn and Natalie will discuss the ways misogyny has affected comedy, why it is important to have di...

Kristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4. Natalie and Kristiana will have a very nuanced conversation about Taylor Frankie Paul and her cancelled season of The Bachelorette. There will also be di...

Happy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter.  We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month! Topics include: Christina Koch and her trip to the moon Chappell Roan existing and men being mad 62 million reasons to be a misandrist The Supreme Court's refusal to ban conversion t...

Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our YouTube Channel  How to Support TATMITB: Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patre...

Natalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media . Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go ove...

The podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives a...

Friend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will...