To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

Sarah Intelligator is a family law attorney and author of the book Live, Laugh, Find True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, By a Divorce Attorney . She joins Natalie to talk about all the things she’s observed from couples who have solicited her help when they make the decision to file for a divorce. These observations have led Sarah to have some clear cut...

Sara Caplan is an improv comedian, trans woman, and philosophy student who has spent her life thinking about the nature of womanhood. She brought her one woman show, “What is a Woman: A One Woman(?) Show” to Gen Con 2025 and Natalie was lucky enough to be in the audience. Natalie and Sara will talk about transphobia, the philosophy behind gender roles, and their experiences confronting people who...

Happy New Year, Team Tolerator! I have the most exciting news! We have completely restructured and revamped our Patreon page to make it your one stop shop for all TATMITB content! This mini-episode will be your guide to our new tiers and how you can ingrain yourself in a community of people who are as tired of tolerating misogyny as you are! Be prepared for this year to be filled with more bonus c...

Please, enjoy our Still Comfy? review of the 2021 holiday romantic comedy, The Hating Game. The Hating Game stars Lucy Hale and Austen Stowell and is about two co-workers who find themselves putting aside their professional competitiveness because they are unable to deny their attraction to one another.  Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon !  All ways to support the show can be found at...

Chris Derosa ( Fixing Famous People ) is a tv producer who has worked with some of your favorite housewives! Natalie dives back into the Bravo-verse to pick Chris’s brain about the value The Real Housewives franchise has brought to television and how they are the representation we have of older women in media. From health scares, unemployments, jail sentences, divorces, and other life hurdles, The...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a holiday break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and...

Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to...

Happy Holidays! We are officially on our holiday break and we will be back with new episodes in January 2026! Miss us already? Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!   https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod . Join the...

Margaret from the Smash Hit podcast is here to talk all things Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen! Natalie and Margaret will dig into the nostalgic lore behind the career of the Olsen Twins. They’ll chat about how Mary-Kate and Ashley are icons when it comes to building an empire while also keeping up your boundaries and how they were able to maintain control of their content. They will also get into how...

Amy Peters ( Behind the Carnival Barkers ) joins Natalie to discuss how misogyny gets misrepresented as simple “office politics” and holds us back in our careers. Amy will be talking about her experiences of misogyny while working in tv and audio editing. Natalie will also bring in some stories from her time teaching and in other office jobs she’s had throughout the years.  Support the Show: Follo...

Emma Laurent is on the podcast to discuss her work in protecting reproductive freedom in the state of Wyoming. Emma will give frank accounts of what it is like trying to talk to legislators about the importance of reproductive healthcare and the state of women’s health care in general. She will also give some helpful tips on how to get involved in your communities and local politics. Support the S...

Happy Halloween! IFor your spooky enjoyment, we will be reposting an episode of our livestream collaboration with  Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous . Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. Enjoy our review of Addams Family starring Anjelica Houston and Christina Ricci. You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod  on Ins...

Tara Jabbari ( Who Was She Podcast ) is going to do Natalie a solid this episode and explain the information she studied about parasocial relationships during her graduate thesis. Parasocial relationships are a niche interest for Natalie because she loves being a fan girl for her favorite creators, musicians, and actresses but often feels personally attacked by all this talk on toxic parasocial re...

Natalie is joined by Lindsay from the podcast Literally Books to discuss the importance of female friendships and how empowering they can be. A large focus of the episode will also be how misogyny affects female friendships and how we have been conditioned to undervalue our friendships once we enter romantic relationships. Support the Show: Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!  https://w...

Natalie is joined by new friend Kristiana to do a bucket list topic! It is finally time to give the men of Grey’s Anatomy the Team Tolerator treatment! They will discuss how the likes of Derek Shepherd and Preston Burke projected a lot of expectations on Meredith and Christina without actually taking into account how both those women would feel about those expectations. There will be a special sho...

Our final episode of the month is always a replay of one of our favorite episodes! Enjoy this revisit to an earlier episode and we will see you next month with all new episodes! Natalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the...

This week's guest, Angela Gentile, is a speaker, writer, educator, and host of the podcast The Empowered Millennials where you will hear real stories of badasses that will motivate, inspire, and encourage you to take control of your life. She also is on TikTok creating spaces and communities for single and childfree people. Natalie and Angela will discuss the importance of building communities whe...

Urmi Hossain is the author of Discovering Your Identity: A Rebirth From Interracial Struggle. She is also a blogger, speaker, women’s mentor, and feminist advocate who has done a lot of reflecting on how being a Bengali-Italian woman living in Montreal has shaped her experiences. Natalie and Urmi will discuss the cultural expectations on daughters in their respective backgrounds as well as the pre...

Samantha Bessudo Drucker is cohost of "Love & Design Project" and "Sexy is Timeless Talks." She is also the author of 90 Days To Husband No. 2, a dating system based on a proven technique. Her and Natalie will discuss all the ways you can use the time after a divorce to better get to know yourself and make sure you are getting exactly what you want from life and any future partners. They will...

Natalie had the pleasure to talk to Laura Danger after being a huge fan of her social media presence on the idea of “weaponized incompetence”. Laura will go over how fair play has a role in healthy expectations and boundaries within your marriage and relationships. Natalie and Laura will also discuss distinct examples that they have witnessed of this idea of weaponized incompetence where your part...

Enjoy our Still Comfy? Review of Mamma Mia starring Amanda Seyfried and Meryl Streep. You can watch our entire Still Comfy? movie review series on our YouTube Channel. Support the Show Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon ! Every tier has a 7-day free trial and it is the only place to find our free blog posts, Tolerator Check-In episodes, and The Misogyny Meltdown.  Follow us at @menivet...

We are revisiting our Britney Spears episode we recorded to celebrate the release of her memoir, The Woman In Me. Julia Washington is here so we can all process our feelings about Britney’s career, relationship with the press, and the conservatorship. And there will be dishing on Justin Timberlake as well! Oh and make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon ! (currently running a free trial on a...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer break! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...

A released episode from our Patreon where Julia Washington and I reviewed Britney's Spears's memoir,  The Woman in Me . Support the Show: Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!  https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers!  All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...