To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals an...

This is a teaser on our bonus content with Elizabeth after we discussed Taylor Swift for all our listeners! We went hard on the misogyny that has been reflected in Taylor Swift's career on the regular feed. But now we just get to have an unguided conversation about what we love about her, the songs we enjoy the most, and what it has meant to us to be friends who can also love music together. You n...

Demisexuality is when someone’s attraction to another person is reliant on an emotional connection and a demisexual individual does not experience attraction based on first impressions or physical characteristics. Katie Majka is back on the show to discuss her new book What’s Your Vibe? In her new book, she hopes to give more representation to people who identify as demisexual. Her and Natalie tal...

Natalie and Annie have been long standing fans of Bravo’s Vanderpump Rules and the rollercoaster of breakups, girl fights, drunken mistakes, and lies they were presented each season. However, none of those events have compared to the wild explosion that was Scandoval. News broke that Tom Sandoval had cheated on long term partner, Ariana Madix, with other cast mate, Raquel (Rachel) Leviss, fans glu...

Clarissa and Kourtney from the podcast 30, Dirty, and Dying are on the podcast this week to talk about entering your 30s and the mindshift that happens between your 20s and 30s. Stereotypes about your 20s and 30s and all the expectations society puts on us will be debunked. There will be some discussion on how we came to terms with the things we needed to deprogram from like internalized misogyny,...

Ellen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. T...

If you haven’t heard, Natalie is going to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversati...

Hey Team Tolerator, it is time for another Patreon teaser! This is a sneak peek of Annie Sieg's second time on our Patreon exclusive episodes. We got together and chatted all about the Scandavol scandal on Vanderpump Rules (it isn't an Annie conversation unless we're bringing up those whacky kids on Bravo). In true fashion, the conversation also led to topics like reality dating show hosts, red fl...

Kim Coffin, host of the podcast Get Your Sexy Back, is joining Natalie to talk about all things healing the connection you have to your sexuality and your body. Kim specializes in Female S.xuality, Tantric S.x and Relationship Transformation and gives clients the tools to unleash their s.xual confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, healing and intimacy with t...

Amanda Kippert, co-host of the podcast Toxic and editor-in-chief of the non-profit Domesticshelters.org, is joining Natalie today to talk about her work with domestic violence reporting and her advocacy efforts for the survivors of domestic violence. Discussion will center around what policies fail people living with domestic violence, how our culture supports abusers and not the abused, and why m...

Natalie is joined by divorce recovery coach, Leah Marie Mazur, to talk about how we have been conditioned to feel about divorce. Throughout the discussion on their own experiences with divorce, topics such as shame, settling, and learning about yourself will be covered. They will also touch on how misogyny plays a role in our ideals about marriage and our knee jerk reaction to avoid divorce at all...

It is our monthly Patreon Teaser episode! This week, you will get a sneak peek at a nerdy conversation between JD Ross and Nat! JD has been on the podcast before to talk about former tv and movie crushes and how he thinks misogyny affected the way he viewed women in media. Natalie has also been a recurring guest on his current podcast, Weirdwide! The two friends give you an insight look into all t...

Dionna Goley is on the show this week and she has inspired this episode through her support of Natalie. Often, Natalie and Dionna get together for lunch to support one another in their ventures but more importantly they come together as two strong personalities to talk about how tired they are of tolerating the state of things. They have coined their new attitude about life “I wish you would try m...

Natalie is getting back to her science teacher roots this week with guest Paige Folkers! Paige is the host of the podcast For Folk’s Sake, where you never say no to a conversation. The women will be discussing Paige’s experiences being a student of biology and genetics. Topics of morality and ethics within the science fields, notable women of science, and even a little witchcraft will be delved in...

Are you looking for a group of people who never feel like they know what it is they’re doing in life? This episode features Jessamy and Alice from The Imposter Syndrome Club podcast. Natalie and her guests will be speaking on all the ways misogyny makes us doubt ourselves, our talents, and sometimes has us second guessing our own thoughts or feelings. Whether it be through your job, your dating li...

Wait a minute, Natalie and Annie already did an episode about reality tv! You're so right, however it was actually our second take at chatting about reality tv. This episode was our first try and it is more chatting between two friends and less trying to dismantle The Patriarchy. So we're kept it as part of the Patreon where you get to learn more about Nat and Team Tolerator! Annie and Natalie wil...

One day Natalie got a fateful text from former guest Darcie Darko. It asked “do you want to do a follow up episode on how the misogyny I experienced got worse?” This episode will take Team Tolerator back into the world of women in wrestling. Darcie will dive into how training at her wrestling school continuously got more uncomfortable. From sticking up for predators to being iced out of the ring,...

Natalie is joined once again by the loveliest of friends, Annie Sieg. Annie has been on to talk about reality tv and your body inspiring art, but now we will get to hear her speak on the gatekeeping that happens within the art community. This episode is inspired by her content series about uplifting artistic voices that aren’t your typical, old crusty white dude and her dedication to making artist...

This week, we have Natalie New back on the podcast. Listeners will remember Natalie from our episode about gatekeeping in the geek community. For this episode, Natalie and Natalie New will be discussing what happens to a relationship when negging goes too far. They will talk about the effects of negging on the communication in a relationship and how it can break down trust between the partners. Th...

Natalie is joined this week by Kiki Athanas. Kiki is the founder of Mind, Body, Beauty which allows her to help women overcome the negative mindsets they have surrounding food and diets. The two women talk about diet culture, restricting your food choices, how to set boundaries between yourself and your headspace around food, and how to ignore or combat the way the people around you talk about the...

This is your sneak peek into our July 2022 Patreon Exclusive episode! This episode was a great check in with Elizabeth Kyle, a guest we've loved from 90's Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent and Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma. Nat and Elizabeth get into the woes of a summer without AC, Nat's trip to visit Elizabeth for her birthday, self comfort techniques for adults, and more! Join the Pa...

Natalie is joined by home organizer and owner of Tidy Revival, Carly Adams! They are discussing the internalized messages they received as children that Carly has deemed “The Princess Syndrome”. Smiling through discomfort, being demure and polite, not speaking up for your wants, and more have been ingrained in little girls’ brains whether it be through a cartoon princess movie or by their role mod...