To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous . Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and v...

To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay!  In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous . Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and v...

To All the Men I've Tolerated Before is officially on its summer break! You'll be seeing posted on our feed bonus content like guest spots I've had on other shows, Still Comfy? episodes, and more! This week I am featuring a guest spot that I did with Julia Washington on Fixing Famous People ! Fixing Famous People is hosted by the hilarious Chris DeRosa  and Dominick Pupa . Each week, they pick a n...

Our reality tv historian, Annie Sieg, joins the show today to talk about the flop that was Vanderpump Rules season 11. It didn’t take us long to realize that this season would not be delivering us the girl power season of our dreams were we abandoned trying to see Tom Sandoval and Tom Schwartz as good people who deserve audiences. Instead, we were delivered a season of any type of misogyny you cou...

How did we fall for men who don’t like us? How often did I wake up and realize I was in a love triangle? Natalie is joined by the hosts of the podcast To All the YA I’ve Loved Before for this week’s episode! Kaycee and Ashley explore the young adult literature millenials consumed such as Sweet Valley High, Gossip Girl, Dear America, and other young adult literature that was aimed specifically at y...

Natalie is joined by actor, screenwriter, and poet  Noelle Cope to discuss sapphic romantic relationships and how they are represented (or underrepresented) in the media we consume. Movies of discussion include Happiest Season, But I’m a Cheerleader, Drive by Dolls, and there’s even tossed  in some reality tv discussion for extra spice. Other topics include imposter syndrome amongst queer women, w...

Hey Team Tolerator! It is the last Thursday of the month and that means it is Patreon trailer time! This week you are getting a sneak peek of April's Misogyny Meltdown titles Misogynistic Foolery. Here are some things we did for this episode: 1) I report on some foolish ways women ended up in the news. 2) I give you some insight on how I celebrated the solar eclipse. 3) Annie Sieg and I help build...

Natalie is joined by Genevieve and Beatrice ( Soul Meets Body ) to talk about how their band Soul Meets Body and the music they are creating fights against gender norms, stigmas against mental health, and having negative thoughts about your own body. Topics of discussion will include how beauty standards hold us back from trying new things, the stupid ways we try to gender the process of making mu...

Pride. Greed. Lust. Envy. Gluttony. Wrath. Sloth. Are these sins deadly or are they the very things misogyny tries to keep women and other marginalized voices from so they never come into their own power? Karen from the podcast Deconversion Therapy is here to help us answer that very question. Natalie and Karen will discuss really ridiculous ways misogyny tries to make us feel guilty for enjoying...

Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Julia Washington joins us to speak on what it is like to raise a son in a world where misogyny is very present and you’re trying to not have one more misogynist on your hands. Topics will include allowing sons space to talk freely about emotions, fathers’ roles in a misogynistic mindset, the hurtful stereotypes that sons...

Team Tolerator is celebrating Mother’s Day with two episodes about parenting. Elizabeth Kyle joins us again to speak on what it is like to raise a daughter in a world where misogyny is very present. Topics will include demonstrating boundary setting, things we remember about being raised as daughters, and gender norms within our society’s structure. Make sure you have subscribed to us on  Patreon...

The last Thursday of the month is always a teaser for our Patreon bonus episodes! You will be getting a sample of the episodes we did for March, where we celebrated International Women's Month! Our Team Tolerator Check-In was a movie review of Lisa Frankenstein. For our Misogyny Meltdown, we focused on highlighting feminist icons. You should expect: Me delivering you some reminders of the accompli...

Ellen Moore ( The Slut Show With Ellen Moore ) is sharing her experiences researching the effects of hormonal birth control and the aftermath of going off hormonal birth control. The discussion will dive into possible effects hormonal birth control has on the body, women’s treatment when it comes to reproductive health, reproductive agency, and how capitalism is tied into the way we are spoken to...

This is the conclusion of our Love is Blind Season 6 discussion that was started last week with Julia and Caitie. Make sure you have listened to last week’s episode covering cast members who didn’t find love, Amy/Johnny, Brittany/Kenneth, and Chelsea/Jimmy. On this episode we will be covering the following couples: Laura, Jeramey, and Sarah Ann: Who doesn’t love a good ol’ fashioned love triangle?...

The Love is Blind reunion has passed and the cast has started to take interviews to tell their side of the story. It is now our turn. We’re going to have a two-part giant episode on what I thought was Netflix’s clearest indicator that they have a lot of work when it comes to making sure their programming doesn’t perpetuate internalized misogyny. On this episode we will be covering the following ca...

Its the end of the month so that means its time for a Patreon teaser! This week's episode contains snippets from February's The Misogyny Meltdown and a preview of our Team Tolerator Check-In with JD Ross. The Misogyny Meltdown: Romance, Candles, and Bachelor Nation had us celebrating love and Valentine's Day! What can you expect from this episode: Some comedic relief about my love life. A celebrat...

Sometimes, dreams really do come true and that’s what this episode is this week! Kristen Meinzer (The Daily Fail) joins us this week to talk about misogyny in the royal family. Natalie and Kristen will talk about the double standards Kristen has observed as a professional royal watcher. Whether it's pitting Kate against Megan, the press being more lenient on men, or the royal pressure of women to...

Whitney is joining us to talk about a specific story about what it is like being a woman who works in the video game industry. She will walk us through a story where her expertise on the company she worked for and the games she helps market was argued against and she left the frustrating conversation unable to convince the man on the other side of the conversation she was right. There will also be...

Natalie is joined by Shardae and Lyssa of The Slovenly Trulls podcast to talk about how the lore surrounding D&D also perpetuates misogyny within gaming. Shardae and Lyssa will bring their expertise on specific tropes written into the lore and playing guides published by Wizards of the Coast that serve as a reminder that the game has some inherent rules and story pieces that are rooted in miso...

Hey Team Tolerator! This is your first look at our new series, The Misogyny Meltdown, only available on Patreon. This is just a small sampling of the fun we had at the Misogynist of the Year Award with our opening number and monologue. Want to see who was crowned the winner? The full audio episode and video episode for this ceremony are available on all three of our Patreon tiers! If you join on a...

JD Ross (Weirdwide) did in-depth research for an episode on his podcast about incels and incel culture. After listening, Natalie knew this was a topic that needed to be covered because who is a better example of people living comfortably with misogyny than the incels of the internet? JD and Natalie will discuss how the term incel (involuntary celibate) was coined and how forums like Reddit allowed...

Kervin of For Why Games joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration...

Natalie is joined by Jenn Trepeck from the podcast, Salad with a Side of Fries . Jenn will be filling in some of the education gaps we as a society have about nutrition and how it relates to the lack of education we have about our mental and emotional wellness. Both women will give some insight to their relationship with food and the emotions that go along with planning on what to eat. There will...

Jennifer Cooper ( Jennifer Magazine ) joins Natalie to talk about what it takes to carve space out for women’s media. They talk about the instances they felt they were taking up too much space or didn’t have space offered to them, Another point during the episode is how sometimes it isn’t just the systematic barriers that hold us back from having women’s stories being told but the imposter syndrom...

Julia Washington is back to talk vision boards, intentions, and manifestations for the new year! Feel free to tell us your goals, theme word, or intentions for 2024 so we can help you keep that good energy flowing to you. In order to recieve access to the full episode, go to our Patreon page and join either our Team Tolerator or Misogyny Meltdown tier. Misogyny Meltdown is our all new variety show...