The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

In this episode we interview our friend and fellow podcaster, Duchess Willow Munroe. She is wicked smart and incredibly sensual so this conversation covers a little of all sorts of topics. Duchess Willow has a podcast episode about remote control sex toys. This leads to a thoughtful conversation about intimacy, distance domination, safe sex, and connections with our callers. Of course, since this...

Today’s guest, Mistress Becky, calls herself a natural born pervert. You’ll want to get all the details on this Femdom Mistress. She is sensual, strict and smart. Ms. Erika asks about favorite sex toys. We learn that Becky used to sell sex toys and is getting a new kind of vibrator that tracks your orgasms using bio feedback. This leads to a conversation about how to fuck with a submissive using r...

Ms Erika asks about the recent sex-cation (oh yeah, you want some of that too, don’t you?). Find out why: a kinky lesbian would be a submissive to a male Dom kudzu should be considered a sex toy or at least, a BDSM pervertable and how a chance encounter unleashed a Femdom in all her glory! Lots of conversation about BDSM, fetish play and favorite sex toys.

Find out what Ms Ryan needs for “the safety of those around me.” Get your head outta the gutter; this has nothing to do with sex. Don’t worry - most of the rest of this episode IS about sex: BDSM, kink, fetish, D/s negotiation and so much more. Ms Ryan talks about finding balance with the Mean Mistress side and the sexual woman in charge side of her personality. Hear Ms Olivia’s story about gettin...

Mistress Erika has a lively conversation with Ms. Claire. This is part of a series of interviews where you get to meet the Ladies of LDW Group. This is a wide ranging conversation about sex, sex work, kink, Femdom and fetish friendly communities. Did we say, sex? Yep, we talk about sex. Oh and you’ll get insight into the stranger things that go looking for Claire - she swears she doesn’t go lookin...

Today the ladies talk with The Dicktator. That’s not a typo. Mistress Cassandra is known for her love of chastity and all things that involve cock control, hence the name of her chastity training blog: TheDictator.com. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk all things chastity with Ms Cassandra. You’ll hear a conversation about BDSM explorations, what makes someone a “Lifestyle Domme”, pain play, the d...

Co hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika interview their friends and fellow Femdoms. Even after knowing one another for years, there’s always something new to learn and Ms Hunter is full of surprises. Imagine being a TSA agent and encountering Miss Hunter. In her bag, Mr. Fat Cock (a giant dildo) that she was bringing to a Mistress Meeting. All three ladies share stories about internet controlled sex...

The Weekly Hot Spot returns! Meet some of our special, kinky friends of hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika. Find out about the exciting relationship Miss Madison has with her pillows. Listen to the ladies talk about using an Hitachi Magic Wand. And hear a confession by Madison that takes the podcast into a whole new direction for a bit.

Today’s topic is inspired by a conversation overheard by Mistress Erika. Someone said, “What kind of guy calls phone sex?” The ladies discuss who calls and why. Have you ever called a phone sex chat line? Have you ever gone to a sex worker? Hear how Ms Olivia and Ms Erika got into the business of erotic pleasure. Find out some of the common reasons why someone calls for distance domination. The la...

Today it’s all about the rear view … not the rear view mirror, your rear end. This listener inspired episode is all about anal sex. Most questions and concerns fall into two broad categories: psychological and physical. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love strap on play, anal sex and exploring all sorts of erotic pleasure. You’ll learn why they both say anal pleasure is something you want to at least...

Remember Mistress Erika talking about her ignore slave? Did you wonder who pays for a phone call just to be ignored? What’s going on and, more importantly, WHY? Ignore slave doesn’t even have a name and Ms Olivia calls it, “it.” This podcast is recorded while the ladies ignore it, who called in and is paying for a 2 Mistress call. Ignore slave sent Ms Erika an email listing the reasons why it like...

Today’s episode is all about erotic audios. There are several different sites to hear or get erotic audios. The ladies talks about pre-made erotic scenes and assignments. These out of the box audios are pre-made and ready for purchase. Custom erotic audios are also available and involve more interaction with your Mistress to make sure both of you are on the same page with the details of your sexua...

Do you know who first coined the term cock control? Headmistress Ms Ally, creator of the LDW Group network of femdom phone sex, actually has a copyright on the term! Whatttttt????? You find out fun facts like this on today’s episode. What makes us cock control experts? How do you know if you want to be a submissive or simply want a woman in charge to be sexually assertive. Ms Erika says this might...

Sissy trance audios and anything to boost feminization are very popular right now. Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia created a 30 Day Calendar for the sissy girls and a 30 Day Calendar for general feminization. Today, they talk about the trance audios that go along with the feminization training programs. You’ll hear the difference between feminization and sissification, including how to use trance aud...

We love all of our new listeners! We’re glad you found our kinky podcast and are sending us questions. Mistress Olivia points out there are a lot of submissive men who want to know how they can inspire their wives and girlfriends to be more Dominant. Ms Erika gives specific suggestions about how to introduce kink into your sex life including ways to gently (and effectively) talk with your partner...

New Year and new ideas for our kink podcast. We have so many things to talk about - including feminization and sissy tips for Valentine’s Day, best stroking techniques for Masturbation May and, of course, anal play for Aptil 15th tax day (because if you’re going to be fucked in the ass, it might as well be fun). Ms Erika offers to find out how to do the technical things to incorporate some live po...

What’s on your sexual bucket list? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find a list of sexual bucket list ideas and talk about ones they’ve done and what they’d like to do next. Ms Olivia goes on an excursion into the Superman origin story. Ms Erika reveals a fear and Ms Olivia has an idea of how to overcome that during sex on a cruise ship. All this leads to a conversation about some possible changes to...

People who aren’t into BDsm might cringe at the sight of spanking, whipping, caning and other rough play but impact play is a huge part of kink culture. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share what they love about this classic activity. Why does a Femdom like inflicting pain? Why would a submissive crave physical suffering? The ladies talk about impact play and why punishment is often called funishment...

Happy New Year! Today, the ladies talk about how to BE a lady or a slut! Seriously, it’s all about feminization and sissy training. There are lots of ways to explore and enhance your feminine side. We are talking about 2 calendars for 30 days of feminization and sissification, including things that you can do to maintain your feminine mindset even when you aren’t able to get all dressed in your pr...

It’s the final podcast for 2021. Hosts Olivia and Erika talk about doing the podcast, listener reviews, kink things to try and just general conversation. Poetry, porn … kink and confessions … Femdom insights and more. Until … Ms Erika admits to something that involves butterscotch and that inspires Ms Olivia to confess … And then, all bets are off. Stay safe and have a kinky New Year!

Ever wondered how you can get your erotica published? That’s what we’re talking about with today’s guest, Dirk Hooper. His book (under his pen name Asher Lake) is called: Dominatrix Boss - a BDSM Femdom Tale. Before getting to the writing and publishing advice, we talk about BDSM and the kink community. Dirk talks about what he calls a Domme deficit: way more male submissives then there are Femdom...

As we close out 2021, we talk with some of our Mistress friends about some things they love in their private lives. Ever wondered if a Femdom binge watches a tv show? You’ll find out! Also hear some movie reviews and find out more about your Mistress. The Welsh Mistress Miss Ruby has a fabulous book suggestion about the neuroscience of orgasm delay. We were shocked to learn something about our fav...

One thing we love about doing this podcast is that we get a chance to talk to our friends and coworkers. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika did the best and worst of the 2021 review. The categories are tv shows, movies, documentaries, books and our personal favorite, sex toys. This episode features The Scarlet Mistress, our first conversation with Miss Riley and our favorite babe with a boner, Bethany....

Are you ready to get Femme for the holiday? You’ll need some feminization assignments and sissy training from Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and special guest Miss Ruby. Each Mistress talks about how she personally stays in touch with her sexy side during the busy holiday season. Find out what Ms. Olivia said that made Ruby say, “That’s the weirdest fucking thing I’ve ever heard.” Of course, there are...

Did you know that Princess Cassidy is in school, studying the psychology of fear? Yep and that’s why Princess Cassidy is the perfect guest to join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode on holiday stress. There are lots of tips and vanilla ideas of how to keep your sex life going during the holidays. You’ll enjoy the kink guide to coping with holiday stress even if you can’t get to one of t...