The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Historian Kate Lister - author of A Curious History of Sex and Harlots, Whores and Hackabouts joins us to talk about international commerce - only kidding - we are, of course, talking about SEX. Professor Lister is a Dr. of Literature and History and Senior Lecturer at Leeds Trinity Univ. in the UK. Ms Erika asks about BDSM and kinky sex. Dr. Kate talks about what might (or might not) be one of th...

What’s your Mistress style is one of the most common questions we get. That’s the first question Ms Erika asks of today’s guest, Ms Riley. She describes herself as a sensual tease Mistress with a mischievous side to her. Just how cunning? Hmmmm. Just wait until you hear the conversation on this episode - Mistress Riley can be wicked in all the best kinds of ways! Sexual roleplay, JOI and cum eatin...

First question of this episode is from Mistress Olivia who asks Ms Tabetha her bra size and favorite place to buy lingerie. The ladies go on excursion and end up talking about putting Mistress panties in a shadow box for collectibles, whether dinosaurs could masturbate with short arms, and other weirdness. Mistress Erika brings us back to the Mistress Interview asking Ms Tabetha about a quote on h...

Mistress Harper joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for some fetish fun and kink conversation. Ms Harper describes herself as: sensual, sadistic, smartass and badass. That’s a great combo! Ms Harper is active in the face to face fetish scene. She talks about the difference between distance domination on the phone and face to face kink play. Each one has some unique attributes but there is overlap which m...

Are you a closet sissy? Are you a crossdresser on the down low? Are you proud of being femme and want to share that with a woman who appreciates you? What questions do you have about feminization, being a sissy or pretty much anything else? We have answers, lots of answers. Ms Erika talks about being the person to trust with erotic secrets and desires that you can’t share with anyone else. Mistres...

Do you love pretty feet, sexy toes and luscious legs? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how your foot fetish makes a woman feel really good! Ms Erika calls this episode Fun with Feet but it’s really anything below the waist. The ladies got really frisky planning this episode and decided to give a snippet of what a foot worship call so you can get a taste of the experience. (Yep, pun intended...

Mistress Hunter joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about cum eating. Why is this naughty taboo so hot for so many men? For many, they only want to fantasize about eating their own cum. Others are upset when they want to do it but lose the desire once they have an orgasm. Ms Hunter says, there are three types of cum eatesr: those who want the fantasy only, those that will do it for their Mistress...

It’s a New Year! Lots of people make resolutions so Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika decide to talk about expanding sexual boundaries. Ms Olivia has an announcement. The new website that has the transcripts of podcast episodes is finally up and she promises to get the backlog of episodes posted asap. Here’s the website: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ Ms Erika points out that hard boundaries are always res...

As we close out the year, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika say thank you to listeners. Ms Olivia brings up the growth of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. Do you have a favorite episode? The ladies talk about the two top podcasts and speculate about why each topic is a favorite for our kinky conversations. Ms Erika talks about why it’s important to get our kink positive vibe out in the world. You know the...

This episode is all about turning your sissy fantasies into sissy training. Mistress Erika talks about how to keep your sissy training going even when you have to do your feminization on the down low. Ms Olivia loves to combine sissy training and fantasy roleplay scenes. This works really well, especially with the coerced sissy who will do what Mistress says, or else! Ms Erika points out the eroti...

We know holidays can be busy and stressful. Sometimes that means a loss of libido. In this kink podcast, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how cock control can improve your libido. Some people can’t do a session, so we have JOI to the rescue. Ms Erika gives tips on finding some private time. There are also options for enjoying some discrete, naughty fun: Sexy texting sessions Email masturbat...

It’s Mistress Erika’s anniversary doing distance domination and phone sex. Ms Olivia asks about Ms Erika’s erotic journey. The ladies talk about how to: How to learn to celebrate your sexuality Why it’s hard for some people to embrace what makes them feel good. What is “normal” sex and who decides what is outside the norm? Ms Erika’s plans to celebrate her anniversary Of course, Ms Olivia takes li...

Ms Freda returns to LDW. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find out all kinds of things they didn’t know about this mature, sensual woman. Hear why Ms Freda has personal experience with a man who is cock curious and wants to suck cock in the presence of a Dominant Woman. Learn about the Candyman. Oh my! This is quite the story. Ms Erika asks about favorite callers and roleplay calls. Ms Freda talks abo...

The ladies talk about kink, creativity and more with Dirk Hooper. He’s a lifestyle kinkster, BDSM mentor, award winning artist, fetish photographer and author. Have you ever wondered if you could turn your love of BDSM and kink into a living? That’s exactly what Dirk did. Ms Erika asks why and how Dirk ended up using his creativity in the erotic arts and sex industry. Mistress Olivia brings up the...

The new design for the Sissy School site is the inspiration for this episode. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about all the LDW Group sites for the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans women. Sissy School Sissyville Sissy Style Magazine Get Girlie The ladies share questions from several sissies. Topics include: How to come to terms with your sissy desires, feminine side or crossdressing...

Hurricane Ian slammed into Florida knocking Ms Erika off line for a bit during LockTober. The ladies decide to continue chastity during No Nut November. Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about her chastity pets. This leads to a conversation about the mental and emotional parts of chastity, including how a Chastity Keyholder decides how long someone will be locked up. What is a prostate orgasm and why...

Duchess Willow says, “Every year, at the Monster’s Ball, something supernatural happens to the guests.” Today, you get just a taste of a sexy, spooky story by Duchess Willow, the Ebony Femdom. What happens at the Monster’s Ball? Ohhhh just listen! Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk with Duchess Willow about writing erotica. She’s been writing Ebony Femdom erotica for years and you will be surprised at th...

What really makes Halloween fun for you? Is it the sexy, naughty costumes? The chance to be and look slutty in public? The candy? Something else? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have a special Halloween series of podcasts. First up, Miss Constance tells us about the blog train and what that means for you. Maybe you get a treat, or you might get tricked. The very lucky ones might get all that and more...

“You’re so smart, what’s a nice girl like you doing sex work?” We sometimes hear questions or comments like that so we decided to talk about it. What exactly is a ‘nice girl.’ Is phone sex something ‘nice girls’ don’t do? Does a woman in the sex industry need “saving”? Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about the importance of business acumen and professional skills for anyone doing Distance Domina...

Who pays for an online domination call just to be ignored? Meet the sissy that pays for an ignore call while the ladies talk about …. Whatever we want to talk about! Only kidding. (maybe) Erotic humiliation, control and mindfucking are some elite Femdom moves - the Ladies talk about BDSM and the joy of being the woman in charge. Mistress Olivia brings up the 30-day sissy training calendar. Ms Erik...

Kay Marie is a self proclaimed suburban MILF. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia get with Kay Marie to talk about her podcast, Happy Hour with Kay Marie. We all go off topic right from the start of this episode and Kay Marie says that’s the perfect way to showcase her podcast because it’s organic and just flows without a topic or outline. Her podcast is also a bit different in that she does her show liv...

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about podcasting, sex and random silliness with Mistress Hunter. What makes a sex podcast sexy? Why did Ms Hunter start a podcast called Sexy Story Time? Is it better to structure a podcast or do an organic, stream of consciousness podcast? This episode ranges from sexy to sweet to smart along with a dash of naughty.

Hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika answer listener questions about sissy transformation and feminization. Some of the questions are from people who are new to the podcast and are just starting to explore their feminine side – others are from callers who want to share their experiences with the Sissy Training Calendar and Feminization trance audio. Have the episodes on being a crossdresser, sissy o...

Did you know that Mistress Becky has a Masters in Mental Health Counseling? She joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about sex, sexuality, mental health, BDSM, and so much more! Ms Erika leads a conversation about sexual pleasure for people with disabilities. Her ignore pet says that people see him in a wheelchair and don’t think he has sexual desires including cruel erotic humiliation. Ms Becky talk...

What do you want to know about life as a phone sex operator? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listeners behind the scenes of life and love on the phone. Ms Olivia shares an email that prompts a conversation about cost, value and sex work in general. Mistress Erika has some great ideas about why some people send a really explicit email as a first email. Are you curious about how to communicate wit...