The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

How do I get my wife to Dominate me? How can I get my girlfriend to act like a Mistress? These questions are so common these Femdoms give their answers from their perspectives. ** Hear why Ms Olivia says there is real value in going to a Pro Domme ** Ms Erika points out why experience is so important especially if you are new to kink. What are some of the BDSM terms? ** SSC - safe sane and consens...

Listeners inspire this episode on the sissy maid. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about sissy training, feminization fantasies, qualities in a good/bad sissy, and how sissification is different from being a crossdresser or trans. This episode includes: ** What is a sissy maid? ** How to tell a service sissy from other types of sissies, including the cuckold sissy husband ** Is a sissy always exp...

How do I get my wife or girlfriend to be my chastity keyholder? How do I tell my partner I want to be put in chastity? I want some kink in our relationship, how can I get my wife to be kinky? These are just some of the most popular questions from our listeners and callers. Today, you’ll hear from a woman who went from being, in her own words, VERY vanilla to now the chastity Mistress of Mature Met...

We get a lot of questions from listeners. Practical advice for feminization tips or sissy training are always top concerns. Today’s episode is inspired by several listener questions about how to find the best bra, which breast forms to get and how to online shopping suggestions for everything you need for feminization. Mistress Olivia used to work in a luxury lingerie salon and learned how to do b...

Alice Little, elite Legal Sex Worker, Sex Educator, and Intimacy Expert joins the ladies to talk about artificial intelligence and the adult entertainment industry. Mistress Olivia starts the conversation with a quote from an article, by Alice, on AI and the sex industry: “Soon, we will be able to ask AI to produce videos, complete with computer-generated characters and settings, the content of wh...

Alice Little is fascinating, smart, and has stories galore. Ms Erika asks about a quote on Alice’s website: https://thealicelittle.com/ that says her philosophy is “...intimacy is a need, and far too often that need goes unmet.”This leads to a thoughtful conversation about the nature of intimacy, connection, the role of sex workers, and where intimacy fits in for a fulfilled life. Ms Olivia brings...

Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships. This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs. This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives. They start with the common definition of Female Led Relati...

Dr. Betty Martin joins the ladies to talk about BDSM consent and the conversation touches on so much more. Meet this fascinating person who has been a chiropractor for years and is now a sex and touch coach, certified Surrogate Partner, Sacred Intimate, Somatic Sex Educator and author of the book: The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent. The conversation includes: Issues of consent f...

Think of BDSM as a 3 act play: BDSM negotiations, the kinky scene, and then, aftercare for the submissive and the Dominant. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the importance of aftercare in BDSM in general and, specifically for people who call Femdom phone sex for Distance Domination. Ms Erika gives a general description of BDSM aftercare: taking time after the play or scene to recover, get c...

It’s summer and the ladies are inspired by pretty bare feet to talk about all of us with a foot fetish. Ms Erika leads off with a quick explanation of the difference between a kink and a fetish. The ladies answer listener questions: Do women think a foot fetish is weird? Do ladies like guys who are really into feet? J ust how popular IS sexual attraction to feet? The numbers might surprise you. Di...

PRIDE Month is a time for celebration, education and connection. Ms Harper joins the ladies to talk about PRIDE, BDSM, kink and connections with callers. First, how each lady identifies: Ms Olivia: Bisexual/pansexual and she/her pronouns Ms Erika: Heterosexual with bicurious rising. Ms Harper: Bi or Pan, Aromantic, and Genderqueer with pronouns she/they. First up, the history of PRIDE and politics...

Mistress Olivia gets an email from a woman who is exploring kink with her husband. Ms Erika’s confession that she nibbled on a gummy before recording takes the ladies off on a tangent and oh what a tangent it is: Why Ms Erika says a cock can cure all Antics with Ms Olivia’s custom BDSM fetish furniture Sex with the guy that built the Queening Chair All joking aside, a listener question inspired th...

Hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika respond to emails that ask some version of: “How do I get my wife to be my sissy Mistress?” This is a common question. Some of the discussion is about sissy specific issues and some advice will apply to anyone who is a submissive trying to change a partner who isn’t already into kink, fetish or gender play. The first question to consider is: “Does your wife or girlfrie...

In this episode, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Goddess Fiona. Ms Fiona mentions that she’s an introvert which leads to a conversation about shy guys and phone sex. Hear about the Mistress of the Day events- where each lady had a day where any previous caller could get 10 free minutes with the Mistress of the Day. This is free phone sex (duh!) and a way to say thank you to our loyal caller...

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika get into Masturbation May celebrations with tips for the ladies - anyone who identifies as a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman. This episode includes: Sissy masturbation tips including muffing, sex toys, DIY sex toys and remote controlled sex toys Sissygasm stories Sissy chastitySissy milking aka prostate milking and/or prostate massage Erotic humiliation ideas includi...

We had so much fun at the Strok-a-thon a couple years ago that Ms Erika is organizing a mini stroke-a-thon. What is this cock stroking challenge? Find out in this episode. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk about masturbation and then bring in 5 of our participating Mistress friends. Ms Harper tells us about her dream penis, what she loves about JOI and one of her favorite masturbation moves. Goddess Fio...

Did you know that the Femdoms of LDW Group / Enchantrix Empire have meetings? It’s sex work so technically it’s a business meeting but, as Mistress Olivia says, sometimes we just shoot the shit and exchange recipes and talk about pets. At one of those meetings, Ms Erika and Ms Olivia realized that Ms Autumn hadn’t been a guest on the podcast - so today we (and you) get to know a bit about sensual...

Ms Erika asks Ms Alina if her diverse background helps her be Dominant. Ms Alina describes herself as an Apex Predator Alpha Female. From there the conversation goes to what makes someone an Alpha - male or female. Ms Alina talks about getting into BDSM as a submissive to an older woman and her current management of an exclusive BDSM club for couples. Does this Mistress switch? Ah, you have to lis...

Woah, the new sex toys are amazing! Ms Olivia and Ms Erika bring Mistress Hunter back for a conversation about fabulous sex toys, especially remote control sex toys that are controlled by a Femdom Mistress. Ms Hunter says these sex toys are a little bit evil in her hands and that’s what she likes about Distance Domination! The ladies talk about the newest toy from Lovense called the Gravity. That’...

It’s the anniversary of Mistress Olivia. The ladies talk about getting into phone sex, things they have learned from doing distance domination and more. Mistress Olivia talks about getting into phone sex as a sexy adventure; never expecting to stay in this long enough to make a career as a sex worker. Ms Olivia has a story about her first Mistress interview with the management of LDW Group. It cou...

Goddess Danica joins the ladies to talk about all sorts of things. Of course, because this is a sex podcast, there is a lot of talk about sex! In between the sexy stories, you get insights into sex work and why intelligent phone sex is way more than naughty words or moans. All three ladies share first time or memorable experiences: Mistress Olivia describes her first visit to a lesbian bar. Ms Eri...

Meet Mistress Lacey. She’s a young Mistress with a firm mind and hand! Ms Olivia and Ms Erika ask about her kinky journey. Ms Lacey says she thoroughly enjoys the humiliation aspect of being a young Mistress. She also likes being able to turn the authority of an older man upside down. This Mistress likes to, as she says, rule stuff, be in control and have her way. Speaking of humiliation, Mistress...

The ladies find something called the Human Sex Map of the World. It’s a fantasy map that’s a lighthearted look at the range of human sexual expression. This is created by Franklin Veaux - who is described as part mad scientist, part gonzo journalist. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the interactive map: you put different colored pins in sexual activities that you have: tried and liked, trie...

What is a sissy? Am I a sissy or a crossdresser? There are so many questions and comments from femme fans that Ms Erika and Ms Olivia put together something called the Sissy Quiz and In Depth Probe Package. This helps the ladies to get to know each one of you as an individual. The ladies talk about how to get the Sissy Quiz on the Phone Sex Assignments site: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKL Remember, there...

Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister continues the conversation with Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika. Ms Olivia leads off with how sex work revealed the value of her time. Ms Erika adds that moving from salaried worker to Distance Domination showed her how every single moment of her time is valuable whether doing sex work or anything other activity. This leads to a conversation about skills learned during s...