The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation: ** What is power exchange? ** What does total power exchange mean? ** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship? Ms Harper point...

How should a sissy cum? Your Femdom Hosts, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika, explore the question that asks: should ALL sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman? Sissy Gigi says, yes every single sissy needs to change how she masturbates, and that is part of the feminine journey. This long term sissy says a sissy girl doesn’t deserve the tight grip that a real man uses to stroke and cum. Thi...

Mistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today’s episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink. What goes into setting up a fetish play space? How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon? Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low. Topics include: How to talk to a...

The hosts have a candid conversation with Mistress Montana about BDSM, kink, being a Pro Domme, and more. Ms Erika asks about the origin of the name Mistress Montana. This leads to a conversation about becoming a Pro Domme. Mistress Montana started in the adult industry as a phone sex operator. Her callers were the ones that introduced her to Femdom. Ms Montana talks about learning all about BDSM,...

Today’s episode is inspired by sissy Olivia … not to be confused with Mistress Olivia. Sissy Olivia wants help with her sissy training and sissy skills but she doesn’t know how to stay motivated when she’s on her own as a solo sissy. Other issue topics include: chastity, reinforcement of sissy training, and improving feminization skills. The hosts talk about all kinds of options for any sissy on a...

Happy New Year to all of you friends, fans, fellow kinksters and you, you and you! Mistress Olivia takes the episode right off the rails from the beginning; you’ll get to hear the ladies fooling around right off the top of the show. You don’t want to miss this. You’ll hear how these Femdoms create this BDSM kink podcast. Amongst the laughter, jokes, and sexual puns, the ladies answer listener ques...

As we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year. There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well. Favorite guests include: Max Carey from the doc...

Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms. There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts. First, of course, there has to be a conv...

The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives. What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress? What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?" This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect fo...

Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress? Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What’s it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida....

Miss Fiiona gets a question from one of her callers. The ladies love the question, and that inspires today’s episode. The listener wants our thoughts on sissy or femme style and what is (or is not) considered feminine. What a great question! This sparks a conversation about self-image, gender roles, gender presentation, and so much more. What is the right look for a crossdresser, sissy or submissi...

Elite Dominatrix and Dungeon owner Mistress Rogue is today’s guest. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have a great time talking with this fascinating Florida Femdom and kinky Mistress. There are lots of personal stories about being a real human person who is also a Femdom Mistress. Each Mistress has a unique path. Mistress Rogue shares about her BDSM kink journey: ** getting introduced to BDSM ** the journey...

Your Femdom hosts love to get questions from listeners. This episode is inspired by Sissy A who writes, ““I love feminine things, panties stockings bras but I don’t want to suck cock, am I still a sissy?” What a great question! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika explore the variations and nuances of sissy training, behavior and styles of play for feminization transformation. Some of the topics: ** sissy...

The Scarlet Mistress joins the ladies to talk about CFNM. CFNM stands for clothed female naked male. There are so many ways to go with this type of fetish scene as you can hear in this episode. Miss Scarlet mentions BDSM parties run by Dominant Females. Each Femdom brings her male submissive with the understanding that all the men at the party will be required to be naked. What happens at CFNM par...

Miss Fiona joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to take part in what’s called the largest sexual personality survey ever done. Yep, you read that right. Pornhub and the Museum of Sex partnered with academic researchers on a project to create a sexual personality test on Pornhub! Since the ladies are often cruising around Pornhub, we, of course, had to take the survey to find out our sexual personali...

Ms Brighton joins the ladies to talk about cuckold fantasies. Did you know that one survey found that 2 out of 3 men have some kind of cuckold desires? That doesn’t really surprise these Femdom Mistresses but the same study showed that one-third of the participating women had thought about cuckolding. What makes this such a powerful fantasy? Mistress Olivia says she’s surprised that more women are...

The ladies continue the conversation with Kaytlin Bailey, a globally recognized leader in the sex worker rights movement. She is the creator of the non-profit 501c3 Old Pros - a media organization set up to create the conditions to change the status of sex workers in society. This episode includes personal stories to illustrate various points, for example: Where did the term sex work come from and...

We want you to check out another podcast. It’s called The Oldest Profession podcast. Host and creator Kaytlin Bailey joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika. This episode includes a candid conversation about whorephobia, slut shaming, sex work advocacy and life as sex workers. Kaytlin Bailey talks about being drawn to “bad girls” from an early age and then learning about the power of courtesans throughout hi...

October is a special month for Femdoms and chastity lovers everywhere. Why? Because it’s LOCKTOBER - named for a challenge to spend the entire month locked in chastity. Ms Harper is today’s guest. All three ladies encourage chastity for the right pet or submissive. They are quick to point out that each person in chastity is unique and the style, duration and play depends on the Mistress, the chast...

Meet Coralyn Jewel - co-author of, When the Ice Melts: The story of Coralyn Jewel. This fascinating woman shares her journey from Olympic hopeful to thriving in the adult industry. The ladies have a conversation about the misconceptions around anything that has to do with the adult industry, sex work, BDSM, kink or sex in general. Coralyn talks about her path of self discovery from the discipline...

Olivia Bentley is today’s guest. You’ll hear why she prefers to be called a courtesan rather than an escort. She mentions the societal status of courtesans in ancient times. This leads to a discussion of power, independence and the role of erotic companions as power brokers in their own right. Miss Bentley is a fascinating woman: *15 years in the adult industry. * A Masters in Education. * An exec...

A listener question inspires today’s episode. Do you need a Mistress to train you for sissy sex? Sure, you can learn and do a lot from cruising the internet, watching porn and experimenting on your own. But, don’t you want more? Don’t you want to have the advice, support, guidance, and/or control of a Dominant woman? Who better to guide you in your sissy training? You’ll hear why these Femdoms say...

tOuch Kink is a new BDSM kink documentary billed as: An unprecedented journey into the secret world of pleasure, pain, and power. The producer, Todd “Max” Carey, joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about his unique and powerful documentary. Ms Olivia says this is the single best representation ever of our BDSM, kink, and Femdom community. Ms Erika calls the documentary tasteful and elegant - showing...

Ms Erika has a confession. She’s never been to a BDSM convention. Today’s guest, Mistress Mia Darque, joins the ladies to talk about DomCon New Orleans. People come from all over the world for this kink event. DomCon is the premier professional and lifestyle domination convention and is now in it’s 20th year. If you’re looking for a kink event with lots of Femdoms and Pro Dommes, this is “the” con...

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions. A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?” What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme: how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.” The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest. Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3"...