The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event. Basically it...

Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play. You’ll get answers to various common questions about electroplay: What is a Violet Wand? How is a Violet Wand different from a TENS Unit? What is the science behind kinksters using electroplay toys?  Who uses Violet Wands and why? What does it mean when it’s called a sensat...

Today’s guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, female owned. There is so much to talk about! Brittany’s mom founded The Dungeon Store nearly two decades ago. The vast amount of BDSM gear and kink toys can be overwhelming. The Dungeon Store has a curated collection of BDSM toys and one of the most robu...

The Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are transwomen.  In this episode, you’ll hear all about the challenges of feminization along with creative solutions from your Femdom hosts and the gurls involved in the Sissy Pageant Topics include: Self image concerns going from male presenting to en fem...

Today’s episode is inspired by the amazing answers to the Sissy Pageant questions. If you are not interested in feminization, this podcast might still resonate with you because this is about staying true to yourself and balancing that with the ‘rest’ of life and personal responsibilities Here’s the background. Enchantrix Empire, our free adult social networking site, was the recent location for ou...

What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body?  How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic? That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play. Topics include: Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a p...

This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips.  Mistress Erika begins the episode talking about body image. Mistress Olivia says, it’s normal to want to change things about your physical body to be more of the feminine ideal in your mind. Many feminized people want workout tips and exercises to target specific areas like ass, hi...

Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink.  It starts with this quote from one submissive: “You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.” Both ladies talk about being a Femdo...

What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive? Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway. How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive? Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a c...

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy.  Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about...

This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminization and femme style: crossdressers, transwomen, pantybois, and, of course, sissies! Goddess Skylar is today’s guest because she’s the one that sort of resurrected the Sissy Pageant. The ladies go over the Sissy Pageant rules and details. The short ver...

How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to professional experience in engineering and journalism, today’s guest, Jane Boon, is the author of Edge Play. This episode description is actually difficult to write because what do you say about someone who is able to effortlessly blend the worlds of une...

It’s Masturbation Month and time for the girly girls to celebrate with a sissygasm!  This episode is inspired by several conversations and emails about this distinct kind of orgasm. Your Femdom hosts touch on various aspects of this sexy topic, including: ** Why is it called a sissygasm? ** How is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm? ** What to expect with a sissygasm. Many feminized friends...

Are you ready for Masturbation Month? Your Femdom hosts love this month-long celebration of self love. Today’s podcast is all about cock stroking instructions or JOI, jerk off instructions.   What are some of the ways to spice up your masturbation? Check out the Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation Calendar in the First Class Erotica Store. Click on the phone sex assignments section and look for Ms...

Today we’re talking about bi curious cuckolding. That might be seduced, manipulated, or coerced bi for the cuckold. Do all cuckolds suck cock? What about sissy cuckolds? The Cuckold Myths podcast episode that we did earlier inspired this episode to go even deeper into this sexy and fascinating kink.  If a cuckold sucks cock, does that automatically mean they are gay or bi? Does a submissive cuckol...

This episode takes you inside the world of professional Female Domination. Mistress Mia Darque returns to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast with stories and insights from the largest gathering of Pro Domme’s in the US, DomCon LA. What is a Femdom and who decides what is “appropriate” behavior for a Femdom? Did you know there’s actually some controversy around the answer to that question? Yep, there is....

Sissy affirmations. Dressing advice for crossdressers. Feminization encouragement. T hese are some of the topics you’ll hear in the audios on our free feminization site, Get Girlie. Goddess Rachel started posting the Sissy Minute on the site and this podcast episode is inspired by her and she's the guest! All three ladies talk about feminization tips and tricks, AND we know it’s more than just how...

Have you been to a BDSM kink conference? Do you want to go but are worried that you won’t know anyone? We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress. There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May. This episode is all about how to be a volu...

What are cock rings? Okay, if you’re a fan of this podcast, chances are you know what a cock ring is. Maybe you even wear a cock ring. But, do you know all this about cock rings? The ladies start with the basics of cock rings. Learn how a cock ring works and why it’s effective for erectile dysfunction, stamina, intensifying sensations, and powerful orgasms. Ms. Olivia mentions that people in Victo...

The hosts get an email from someone who describes himself as a submissive male interested in being controlled by a strict Mistress.  Mistress Harper joins Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika to talk about requests for a strict Mistress. Ms. Harper is the perfect guest for this episode because she describes herself as a sensual sadist. What does that mean, and how does that play out in a kink session? BDSM te...

Today’s episode on wigs and wig care is inspired by Yvonne, who says keeping wigs from becoming a mess is a real challenge. We agree! Choosing the right wig is complicated. These Mistresses believe that feminization is all about the total package, and, for most people, that means finding the perfect hair for the look you want for your transformation. Unless you win the lottery, you will probably n...

Are you a member of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire? If you’re frustrated with being shadow banned and restricted on social media, you should check out Enchantrix Empire. It’s free to join. You’ll find Mistresses, other sexy people, and a fantastic kinky community there. The members of Enchantrix Empire vote for the Mistress of the Month and this month it is our very own, Mistr...

The cuckold fetish is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. The Femdom hosts of this kink podcast talk about some of the most common myths about the cuckold lifestyle. Myth 1: Only men enjoy cuckolding. The cuckold fantasy is very popular among men, but it’s not exclusive to men. Many women initiate the cuckold lifestyle. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika talk about why they love cuckolds and why...

Goddess Rachel joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode, which is inspired by a listener's comment and question. Here’s the comment / question: “I’ve been exploring different ways to cum before the orgasm. I didn’t realize how many different ways there are to come without going all the way first. It’s been great to have a better mind-body connection and multiple cums to enjoy. Have you done a...

This episode about feminization is inspired by someone who describes herself as a cis male exploring feminization and being a sissy. Jen Jenn has questions about manicures, nail polish, and whether a sissy needs to go to a salon for a mani/pedi. What is the most femme style for nails? What does Mistress recommend for a sissy who needs to be discreet about her crossdressing? Why press-on nails are...