The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or trans woman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized. In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts abo...

Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training. What is petticoat discipline? Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very...

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination. The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend t...

This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL  The Femdom hosts talk about trans women who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now. The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they...

We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful. Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.   Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for...

This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness. Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downlo...

We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you! This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts. Don’t feel alone! Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspi...

There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive. Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress? First, the ladies talk about tease toys. Who are they, what does this phrase mean? The ladies share in...

In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman. Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladi...

Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more.  This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power. Topics include: The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon How men treat wives versus Dommes The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like How serving a Femdom can make a man a...

Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean?  There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc.  Topics in this podcast episode include: The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay an...

We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this. Topics include: How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy? Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman? To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these p...

This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi. Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women? Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi: “Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bendin...

Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner. We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like: What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies? What mig...

Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet. Topics include: What is chastity? What is Locktober? Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm? Ca...

We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom. That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to commun...

We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika.  Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This inte...

Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today’s episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she’s here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes. We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you’re submissive, here’s your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you’re no...

This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things. Why? Well, anyone who is into things that aren’t considered ‘mainstream’ can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates. The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self...

This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question:  “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?” Great suggestion Sissy Brenda!  Here you go! The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There...

We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends. Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces.  The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces.  For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses g...

Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play. Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone.  Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlle...

Today’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more. You’ll hear: ** Miss Cassie’s personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom ** Leather tradition in BDSM ** Lineage in BDSM leather family traditio...

The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family. This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community. Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to h...

Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years. Today’s episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge.  You’ll hear conversation about: ** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone?...