The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics

Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. Today, Lainie answers your questions: Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do? Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star? Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues? Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks. A...

Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education.   Topics include: How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties? Is it always about sex or kink? Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side? Does wearing panties mean...

Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company. Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior. Is phone sex always about sex? Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm? Why doe...

Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss. In this episode you’ll hear: The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose. Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny? How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined or...

Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next! You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play: ** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of...

How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones. Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun? Are sex dreams only...

When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See?  That title is bulky. This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant,...

Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume. Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about...

Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.”  That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the su...

Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?” That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent. Topics include: Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name? How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine na...

Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh!  In this episode we answer questions like: What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?         Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters?...

Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme: What is a sissygasm? How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one? Topics include: Subspace aka femme-space Role of submission in your feminine journey Mistres...

Are you ready for Masturbation May? It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo.  Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits:  Are there studies? How much do people masturbate? What...

What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof). But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is muc...

BDSM: Are you a switch?    Are you a switch? In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch?  What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom.  A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode. Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss...

In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun. (( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. )) Today’s points include: What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s...

Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive.  That’s a great question!  It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training.  B...

Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess. What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship? In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc.  Today, we switch things up to have a convers...

Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people?  Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling? Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans? These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and femin...

This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold.  In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened! Topics include: Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humil...

Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous!  We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare fo...

The ladies try something a little different. Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session. This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood. Topics include: ** Shower versus bath ** Sex in the shower *...

A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’  We’ve got you ! In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot.  We highlight several common areas of concern:  Anal play / prostate play...

A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that. The episode includes: A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it. All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it. What does a prostate...

Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting. Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees,...