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What do you do with leftover holiday food? Join Ms. Erika, Miss Constance, Ms. Hunter, and Mistress Olivia for this fun conversation about the wet and messy fetish. Miss Constance tells us about her puppet who loves sploshing. These funny stories inspire the ladies to laughter and the celebration of kinky fun in all its wicked aspects. Ms. Hunter says you can incorporate sploshing into a lot of ot...

Straight married corporate dude to smokin’ hot trans woman: an interview with Maria Konner. Maria is an author, vlogger, video blogger, musician, and FEMbassador She answers listener questions like: How do I come out? How did you leave the suburban, corporate, and straight world to follow your dream? What is it like to be a transwoman? Are you able to support yourself now that you are living en fe...

This episode is inspired by requested and unsolicited dick pics. Hear Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about setting up the new Dick Review where the penis rating team tells you what they think. Ms Olivia interviews 5 women who are cock connoisseurs. Each woman talks about what she likes and doesn’t like when looking at a penis. You’ll be surprised to hear the controversy over a certain part of the pen...

This How To Give A Blow Job episode is in response to questions from callers. Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and Goddess Mandy describe how they each give a blow job in their personal lives. It’s okay to need to learn how to suck cock, everyone has a learning curve. Just wait until you hear about Ms. Olivia’s epic blow job fail. Whether you are bi sexual, gay, cock curious, submissive, cuckold or siss...

Fall into the sultry, sexy voice of today’s guest, Mistress Rachel. We talk about Femdom, kink, passion and so much more! Ms Erika starts us off with talk about the epic cock stroking Strokeathon. Ms Rachel shares her love of masturbation, insight into being one of her favorite playmates and her fascination with anal. Ms Rachel’s confession about ass play ends up being the quote of the day. All th...

Imagine being a crossdresser for years and finally coming out to your mother. That’s just one of the moving stories from this week’s guest, Yvonne. Ms Erika tears up talking about all the crossdressers and sissies who call us and ache to be accepted. This episode runs the gamut of poignant to playful. All three ladies dish about fashion, makeup and how to develop a personal style. Yvonne talks abo...

Time for the Halloween edition! Princess Cassidy joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about scary movies, fetish fun and why vanilla women like to dress like a slut one day a year. Cassidy shares her Psychology major and talks about her focus on fear studies. Olivia brings up superhero outfits and kink. Erika shares some of her best costume choices. There’s a bit of everything in this episod...

Today’s guest is an award winning journalist, fetish photographer, 20-year kinkster and BDsm mentor. Dirk Hooper is a fascinating guest with insight and lots of stories. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Dirk about why it’s so hard for a submissive man to find a Lifestyle Domme and how the BDsm community acts towards sex workers and Pro Dommes. The conversation evolves into porn and why Domin...

The premiere chastity cage creator, William from Mature Metal, talks about all things chastity. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have questions from callers. You’ll find out why Mature Metal’s custom sized chastity cages are so comfortable. You’ll get answers to common questions like hygiene and stealth while in chastity. Are your balls high and tight? Does that make a cage uncomfortable? There’s a solution...

Want to know what happened in the Strokeathon? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give you the down and dirty on this exclusive event with 10 Mistresses watching strokers. Here’s the lineup: Olivia, Madison, Erika, Willow, Riley, Hunter, Daphne, Bethany, Rachel & Harper. Miss Constance joined as the Mistress of Ceremonies. What exactly IS this edging event where each Mistress TRIES to make the men c...

Get up close and personal with the Mistresses of the Strokeathon. This is part two of the special double episode. Each Mistress brings her special blend of experience, sensuality and wicked imagination to see if she can make the cock strokers pop their cocks! Remember the top 3 winners of the Strokeathon will earn some great prizes - and they will work for it! Rachel is the perfect mix of pure sex...

Meet the ladies of the Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with each Mistress about this test of cock stroking stamina. Each participant will try to NOT cum until the end of the hour. Who will explode first and why? Will it be when Rachel describes what she’ll wear to the Strokeathon? Harper’s lube recommendations get the ladies thoroughly sidetracked on the luxurious sounds of a thro...

It’s question time! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listener questions and comments. This episode covers all kinds of calls and callers. What do the ladies think of the human connection that they say is only possible on the phone? Why is this intimacy so powerful on a phone sex call? It’s not all serious, as you know if you’re a fan of this sexuality podcast. You’ll hear Ms Olivia plead for one...

It’s time for STROKE-a-thon 2021! Miss Constance joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for the stroke-a-thon announcement. This cock edging challenge will put your stamina up against all the Mistress masturbation experts. Can you hold out for a whole hour? Sure, maybe you can if you’re doing it on your own but with Mistress after Mistress taking turns with some wicked tease and denial, will you be ab...

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by a very special guest -- the very sexy Phoenix. Today’s episode starts out intending to talk about sex music, sexy music, fetish scene playlists and what songs makes the ladies hot. There are multiple excursions into various sidetracks - why Phoenix isn’t living in Paris right now and her roommate who might be named after cheese. Sometimes it gets serious...

This episode is a different kind of movie review. Ms Cassidy is a huge movie buff and joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika to talk cinema and sex. A movie doesn’t have to be sex or BDsm themed to have some hot scenes. You’ll hear the ladies discuss what they like and why. What is porn versus erotica leads to an interesting conversation about sex workers, female empowerment and what Olivia does for the qui...

This episode is all about cock control - including the origin of the word cock control. Did you know this term has a copyright? Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia are joined by Ms Hunter to talk about: stroking, edging, tease and denial, ruined orgasm and, of course, chastity. The ladies share their favorite stroking techniques and say that they know more about a penis than the men who are attached to t...

What is a switch in BDsm terms? Hosts Erika and Olivia both identify as a Dominant only, meaning they don’t switch, but this week’s guest, Daphne, does switch! Why would a Femdom also be a submissive? What is the difference between a submissive or bottom and a Domme versus a Top? Daphne has a 20 year experience as a lifestyle submissive. She knows exactly what it is to be submissive. Find out how...

It’s Question Time for Mistress. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia answer listener questions and share experiences. The episode starts off with a comment that catches Ms Erika off guard. Hear why Ms Erika got a little flustered and how Ms Olivia is going to lure her into some new erotic adventures. Topics include: straight men and cock sucking, Ms Olivia’s adventure travels and how that applies to kinky sex,...

Your Femdom Mistress hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by Ms Daphne to spin the sissy training assignment wheel and give you feminization assignments. These transformation and feminization scenes include shaving 101 - how to shave and why it’s important to have a sissy nice and smooth! Learn how a Sissy Mistress picks her transformation assignments. Ms Erika spins the wheel and lands on Dild...

What is the Giantess fantasy and why is this a favorite fantasy roleplay scene for a Femdom? Ms Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by Ms Brighton who describes how she tumbled into Giantess roleplay as a niche. Ms Brighton gives some hot scenes describing what happens to one tiny man and how she lures him into her sexy trap. Ms Erika tells some secrets of the trade - how she spices up her custom eroti...

Today’s episode is all about men eating cum: Who does it, why does he do it, why would a Mistress want him to do it, and more. Mistress Erika sends a shout out to someone who tracks the cum loads he’s slurped up (hint, it’s in the thousands). Mistress Olivia gives a cum eating tip that involves a toothbrush. Both ladies talk about why cum eating is such a fun, sexy, and naughty taboo.

What does a Femdom Mistress look for in a sub? There are so many variables. It’s important to remember that BDsm play and the fetish players are people - so it’s never one size fits all for scenes and relationships. That said, there are some things that every submissive man needs to know when dealing with a Mistress. As a special bonus - hear why guest host Goddess Mandy shocked Mistress Olivia an...

Special Guest "The Scarlet Mistress" joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for a special edition of the podcast. Curious about what these these ladies say on a phone sex call? Ms Scarlet tells you about pegging in her own private life. Ms Erika weaves a lush fantasy about a sexy, slutty sissy. Ms Olivia talks about her favorite fetish play space and what she’d like to do there. These sexy scenes let you he...

Erotic humiliation is a mystery to those that don’t “get it.” Listen to Mistress Olivia, Ms Erika and Humiliatrix Hunter talk about this special kink. You’ll hear about a six hour, multi Mistress humiliation call that included songs, tasks and even a feather duster. You’ll find out why it’s so arousing to have a sexy woman laugh at you. Ms Erika has insight into the psychology and physical reactio...