The Long Game with The Xaviers

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A real conversation about the parts of marriage we don’t usually share—what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what we’ve learned along the way. Get more behind-the-scenes updates, personal stories, and exclusive content by subscribing to my Substack Stay tuned for future episodes on Substack! Substack:   https://brittanyxavier.substack.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Ca...

We’re talking about something we’ve had to navigate a lot lately, making friends in a new place. Whether you’re starting school, moving to a new city, or just feeling a little disconnected, we share what’s helped us build real community (even when it’s awkward).  Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram - https://www....

We went on a date night recently and started asking each other—if we were dating again today, what would we want to know up front? From the early days of how we met to the questions we think actually matter on a first date, we’re sharing what we’d do differently (and what we’re really glad we didn’t settle on). Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack....

We’re answering your questions and nothing’s off the table. From baby names we never used to what life looks like after leaving LA. We talk parenting, marriage, slowing down, and a few favorite things we’re loving right now. Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tlgpodcast/ See Privacy Policy...

We might have just found our future home! It checked every box and felt like home when we toured it. After touring, we prayed for God’s guidance, and now we’re diving into inspections to learn more, hopeful this becomes ours, but trusting He’ll lead us elsewhere if not. Either way, we’re excited. We talk about having an ag consultant over, good tips he provided and info he gave us about the l...

This week we unpack a few studies that completely caught us off guard and might have you rethinking some everyday habits too. From how we use AI to what we eat and how often we move, the findings were unexpected, a little uncomfortable and surprisingly practical.  Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy...

We’re sharing the simple habits we’re starting with our little ones to help them grow up with a healthy relationship with money…learning to give, save, and spend wisely from a young age. And what we wish we would have learned sooner about money ourselves. Youtube: youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack:  https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/brittanyxavi...

My 18 year old daughter joins me on the podcast . We swap stories about home life, money, faith, and adulting. We also share silly sibling moments and her excitement about college. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

We’re sharing what we learned at the Homestead Festival..helpful tips from experts, ideas for simple ways to create meaningful family moments, and a few tools we’ll be trying at home. We also talk about the community around this lifestyle and how it left us inspired to start where we are. Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Ins...

Sharing a little life update plus resources on how we deepen our faith. Study Bibles, devotionals, apps, books, and podcasts that help us dig deeper into Scripture. These resources encourage us, challenge our thinking, and keep us grounded in God’s Word. Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/...

We’re talking all the random things we’re into right now; books, snacks, skincare, sun time, and sweet moments with the kids. Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tlgpodcast/ Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art1...

We discuss all our thoughts and feelings on Jadyn graduating high school and going to college in the fall, as well as reflecting on our parenting journey with Jadyn. If you have a child starting college soon, let us know how you're feeling! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

We’ve bought, sold, and are house hunting again. This episode is packed with real tips for first-time buyers. From budgeting and inspections to what we’d never do again, here’s what we’ve learned along the way. Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tlgpodcast/ See Privacy Policy at https://ar...

This week we’re talking about Revelation—Brittany’s first time reading it all the way through—and how it’s been making us think about the world today, end times, and where our faith fits into all of it. We also share a powerful story from our early weeks in Tennessee, when Anthony got a sign at church that reminded us we’re exactly where we’re meant to be. Plus, we open up about our thoughts on fa...

Q&A! In part one we answer your questions about our house, faith, family, and new life in Tennessee, share what near-death experience stories taught us about hope, reveal the small goals we’re quietly chasing, and spill on the podcasts we keep replaying. Check out our Youtube channel - youtube.com/brittanyxavier Substack - https://substack.com/@brittanyxavier Instagram - https://www.instagram....

We used to live paycheck to paycheck, with no real sense of where our money was going—until a few simple shifts changed everything. We start by covering our “four walls”—food, shelter, utilities, transport—then track every expense and meet weekly to roll any leftover into next month. These steps help us free up extra cash and stay on top of our money without the stress. If you’ve ever wondered how...

In this episode, we share how simple adjustments to our daily habits have helped us manage the chaos of everyday life. We talk about reworking our morning routine, setting clearer boundaries, and finding small moments of calm amid the hustle. It's a straightforward conversation about our experiences so far here in Tennessee and lessons learned in creating a more balanced day. Produced by Dear Medi...

In this episode, we dive into the heart of what it means to work and be married together. We share our journey of redefining our purpose while striving to live according to God's will. As we collaborate on both our creative projects and our family life, we explore the challenges and blessings of aligning our ambitions with our faith. We reflect on the moments that have strengthened our bond and gu...

In this episode, we're walking through how we plan our meals each week in a way that actually works for our family. From picking out recipes and shopping at the farmer’s market to how we use leftovers and keep breakfast and lunch super simple—we’re sharing what helps us stay organized without overcomplicating it. This approach has saved us time, money, and a lot of stress during the week, and it’s...

In this episode, we share the honest insights we wish we’d known before having a baby. As parents, we’ve learned something new with every experience, and we reflect on the unexpected challenges and practical lessons along the way. We cover everything from nutrition and exercise to the unpredictable moments of birth. Join us as we talk about what we wish we’d known before baby. We use Seed’s DS-01...

In this candid Q&A, we share honest insights on the challenges of parenting, the role of faith in our everyday lives, and the thrill of planning future adventures. We discuss balancing work and home, navigating family dynamics, and staying true to our personal values. Join us as we get real about the ups and downs that shape our journey. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://ar...

Discussing Our New State of Mind Description: We took a step back from the social media chaos and unfounded rumors—and now we're back with renewed confidence and a fresh sense of purpose. In this episode, we share how our break transformed our mindset and made us stronger than ever. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art...

What started as a routine health test turned into an unexpected home investigation. After discovering high levels of mycotoxins in our system, we set out to understand whether our environment was playing a role. In this episode, we share what we learned about mold testing, how we approached the issue, and what steps we decided to take next. Whether you're curious about home air quality or just enj...

In this episode of The Long Game, we’re sharing the lessons we wish we knew in our 20s— from navigating career uncertainty and financial mistakes to building a family and finding our footing. If you’re in your 20s (or reflecting on that chapter), this episode is packed with insights to help you avoid common pitfalls and focus on what really matters.  We use Seed’s DS-01 Daily Synbiotic probio...